01 ? In the face of the man who does not love you, learn to turn around gracefully
The Fourth of July took the child back to his mother's home slipped around, was a quite happy thing, but heard a tragic story.
The village has a girl named Xiaoming, in the university when a boyfriend, the two people sweet talk for four years in love, and then the two people graduated together, and came to Shenzhen to work together, but the two people working in different companies.
The two people are from the countryside, are on the brother and sister, under the younger siblings, the family's days are very general, for their two future marriage and after the marriage of the house, the two families are forced to economic pressure are at their wits' end.
Finally, the boy because of the economic pressure is too much, like the company's boss's daughter, so to the small Ming asked to break up, small Ming can not imagine, after the day without him how to live, in order to win back the boy, small Ming belongs to her and the boy *** with the life of the rented house committed suicide.
When the boy rushed to the time, Xiao Ming has been lying down in the hospital, looking at the boy and his new girlfriend holding hands standing in front of her, Xiao Ming slowly closed his eyes. No one can say what Ming's mood at that time will be, if she let her choose again, she will not repeat the same mistake.
When I heard my mother tell me what happened to Ming, my first reaction was, "This child is too stupid.
Feelings are two people's business, not unilaterally can be forced, without his days, we are still our own, learn to turn around, strong leave that do not know how to cherish you.
The writer Rao Xuewang said: "The world deceived me, I must give back, let yourself better, I will not let go of any belong to me a little bit of happiness."
A woman who knows how to love herself will never lack love.
02 No matter what, don't let yourself fall apart
Last year, living in the same district, a female neighbor jumped from the 22nd floor of the building in broad daylight, and the old ladies downstairs at that time dancing in the square were scared to death.
The female neighbor is very beautiful, after giving birth to a child half a year later, back to work, encountered the work of the unsatisfactory, working overtime all day long, but also by the leadership of the difficult to go home to her husband to tell her husband, her husband and show a look of impatience, and then her husband slowly very little to go home, and then later she found that her husband cheated on her, when she gave her husband to say that her husband cheated on her when she said that she was a side of the accusation of not doing housework, but also said that her son was cheating on her. When she told her mother-in-law about her husband's cheating, she accused her of not doing her chores and said that her son's cheating was all her fault. So, a moment of thought on the jump, I heard also left a will, saying what life is suffering, relief is good.
Looking at the female neighbor's parents crying in the dark, next to the heart of the people are full of sadness. People ah, in order to a moment of discomfort, choose to end life to relieve, yes, life is very cruel, sometimes also particularly unfair, often let us feel overwhelmed, and even sometimes think of giving up self.
To know, there will be pain and pleasure, pleasure and pain is always a pair of twin flowers, depending on how you choose.
03 ? The more no one loves, the more we have to love ourselves
Yishu said: "In any case, a person is always unworthy of forgiveness, the more no one loves, the more we have to love themselves. "
Most of the women are very persistent in the sea of people looking for their own share of love, obsessed with having a love, when the love is betrayed, they are always too painful to extricate themselves.
My hair little Liu Yu from childhood, beautiful, learning, high-minded and proud of the awesome, that year, she got into a major university, when the whole village people beat the drums to send her on the car to the university, never forget her through the window waving his hand to the folks to say goodbye to the bright smile. However, the university is one semester short of graduation, was led home by his father, since then, crazy.
I heard that Liu Yu freshman year talked about a boyfriend, the results of the sophomore boyfriend and she broke up, the reason is like another girl. High-minded and proud of Liu Yu which can be subject to ah, a gas, and found an off-campus boyfriend, who knows, this boyfriend is a social gangster, Liu Yu abortion for him three or four times, the body is completely unable to, the results of the other side of a foot and kicked Liu Yu.
Later, Liu Yu gave up on himself, and then later, Liu Yu became now crazy look, the village people say, pity this child.
Shakespeare said: "Even the best things are lost one day, even the deepest memories have faded one day, and even the love of the people have far away one day." So, the abandonment of the absolute do not save.
Women can have no love, but must learn to know how to love themselves, if we are hurt, then we can not let ourselves fall, or not only can not let the people who hurt us half the pain, but will make themselves more painful.
In the face of let us sad, painful reality, learn to smile Shuo a sentence: "It's okay," learn to those who hurt themselves to say a "Thank you for letting me learn to be strong."
Life is too short to let yourself go.