What are the praiseworthy merits of both Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman... Do they have any similarities? Did they know each other?

Meet did not find evidence to confirm whether they know each other, because Xu Zhimo, they have heard of each other even if not. Xu fell in love with each other three women are extraordinary. Zhang Youyi is a famous girl, dignified and kind, outside the show within the wisdom, and Xu broke up in Shanghai after the operation of Yunshang Clothing Company, very successful commercially, not only to raise the old and young, but also often funded Zhimo. Lin Huiyin is a representative of the new woman, talent high interest in elegant, stunning, so that Xu poor pursuit of love (after Xu Jin Yue Lin followed his dust, lifelong love), although not combined, the mind and academic exchanges and tacit understanding is still not the same as the general, Xu thirty-five years of age to run to the Yellow Springs, is to go to Peking to listen to Lin's a report. Xu on many occasions talked about the realm of gender relations as "soul mates", most of them are allusion to "Mo-yin" acquaintances. Lu Xiaoman belongs to the spirit of a beautiful type of strange women, the external charm of the flower first conquered the Xu talent, so that he could not hold, although the Lu heart of the spirit, opera, painting, articles are superior, but a short married life, very different life posture, so that the Xu - Lu in the spirit of the docking did not really realize, but in vain endless trouble, in the Zhimo resigned a number of years after the death of the Xiaoman to realize the spirit of Xu's charisma, and only truly I think Lu Xiaoman lived a more elegant life, not worse than Lin Huiyin. I think Lu Xiaoman lived a more elegant life, not inferior to Lin Huiyin. She had love and freedom; she was happy and relaxed; she lived a free-choice leisure life in advance, without restriction and without pressure. Freedom - is what Lu Xiaoman pursued. When she was first married to Wang Geng, who restricted her outings, she was very unhappy because she was not free to escape from her cage, hence the divorce. After marrying Xu Zhimo, Xu Zhimo asked her to read, write and paint, not to sing, dance or smoke opium, and she felt that Xu Zhimo was restricting her freedom again. She was very dissatisfied with Wang Yingxia said: "Zhimo is not only not as good to me as in the past, but also interferes with my life, telling me not to play cards, not to smoke opium, head and foot, I can't live such a constrained life. I am a bird in a cage, I want to fly, fly to the lush woods, free." Yes, Lu Xiaoman pursued a life of freedom, and freedom without restraint and without limits. In 1931, Xu Zhimo to Peking University after teaching, once wrote a letter to blame Lu Xiaoman said: "You really do not know how I once longed for you and you two side by side for a walk, or go out to eat a meal, or watch a movie, also called others look at the envy. But strangely enough, I've been holding out for a few years, but I can't hold out for a single opportunity; there's not a single day when you don't have a date, and I've never had a private life. Until recently, I have been partially numb, and do not want to look forward to that kind of worldly happiness." From these resentful words of Xu Zhimo revealed the information that Lu Xiaoman went out almost every day and had a date every day. She went out on dates to listen to opera, dance, play cards, and eat. No wonder my friend envied Lu Xiaoman, who lived an easy, happy, free, and dashing life, without having to work, earn money, run around, and without pressure, so my friend asked this question: Lu Xiaoman and Lin Huiyin: who had a better life? Lu Xiaoman did have a free life that made her friends envious for a while, and even our modern women didn't have a free and easy life like her. She had a man who worked hard for her to make money and pay the bills, and she could still be irresponsible to this man and her family. But can such a life last? Freedom comes with conditions. If this freedom is created by you, you can enjoy it as you like. If this freedom is offered and given by others, it can be withdrawn at any time. Unfortunately, Lu Xiaoman was never a self-reliant person in her life, but a parasite. Her freedom, therefore, was not under her own control and could be lost at any time due to conflict with those she depended on. She herself says, "I am a caged bird." A woman who has no career in her life, no goal in life, a woman who relies on others to live her life, is of course a little bird in a cage. When she was married to Wang Geng, she was a bird in a cage, and Wang Geng limited the number of times and the time she could fly out, and if the number of times and the time she flew out exceeded the limit acceptable to others, they would no longer pay for her. After marrying Xu Zhimo, she was honored as the "Empress", and although her cage was much larger, if her freedom exceeded the limits given by the "Emperor", the "Emperor" would no longer pay the bill. The "emperor" will no longer pay for it. Therefore, her unlimited freedom, which was not created by herself, could not last long. Sooner or later, her happy, easy, and elegant life will come to an end. Besides, there should be a certain standard for the goodness of a woman's life. Is it true that a life of eating, drinking, drunkenness and intoxication is necessarily happy? The truth is, eating and drinking, drunkenness and intoxication are the signs of a life without purpose and boredom. Why did Lu Xiaoman like this kind of life? It was because she had no other goals in life. A person with talent and no goal in life, but also extremely popular among both sexes, is prone to slip into this kind of relying on socializing to create the illusion of hilarity to satisfy their own psychological needs, as a way to prove their own need and value. Lu Xiaoman's pursuit of education and her study of painting were both expressions of her status as a celebrity, a means of increasing her "value". They do not point to a certain goal in life. Lin Huiyin was different. Lin Huiyin was educated from a young age to have the ideal of transforming society, and at the age of 18, after returning from England with her father, she established her lifelong career as an architect. She has been striving to be a famous architect all her life, and she has been preparing for and pursuing this life goal all her life. She went to the United States for further study, she visited all over the world, after returning to China, she went to Northeastern University to teach and set up the Department of Architecture of Northeastern University, she engaged in all kinds of design, she went to all over the world to do the investigation and maintenance of ancient buildings, she wrote and researched, she became a professor of the Department of Architecture of Tsinghua University after the liberation of the People's Republic of China, and she accepted the design of the national emblem and People's Memorial Monument, which were all in order to realize the goal of being an architect. A person is happy when her life goals are perfectly integrated with her daily life. Lin Huiyin had her own profession, career and life goals, pursuits, ideals and aspirations, and she had the ability and confidence to realize her goals, and the life of such a person is a life full of happiness. Her happiness is also true happiness, long-lasting happiness. Her freedom is also the freedom to be controlled by herself, not to be lost and not to be taken away by others. When she came back from America, she was an independent, self-confident woman, and from then on she walked the path of a professional woman, who never depended on others, and whose freedom was earned and created by herself, and therefore would not be taken back from her hands by anyone. Happiness, joy, freedom, and panache on such a basis are true happiness, joy, freedom, and panache. Because of Lin Huiyin's achievements and outstanding performance, her freedom grew, while Lu Xiaoman later had to huddle in the small world between herself and Weng Ruiwu, living and dying silently. Due to the different pursuits in life, Lin Huiyin's path became wider and wider, while Lu Xiaoman's path became narrower and narrower. In the end, Lin Huiyin was evaluated as "wonderful", while Lu Xiaoman was evaluated as "regrettable". The difference in their application of freedom and the difference in their behavior caused the difference in their destiny and future. In the end, they became typical of two very different types of women. In fact, what my friend said about Lu Xiaoman living a relaxed and happy life has the sentiment that she does not pay but can be so. However, there has never been a lunch without paying, there has never been a freedom without paying the price.