When we get married, couples have a small home. So many people get married and ask for their own house so that it can be convenient and the two couples live undisturbed.
I think the home between husband and wife is not the house of the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law and father-in-law are one family.
Distance produces beauty
Mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship is a problem that we have always been concerned about. So many of our couples get married and live with their in-laws, and there are especially many conflicts. A lot of mothers-in-law think that marrying a daughter-in-law is marrying a nanny back, letting the daughter-in-law a day to do housework, washing clothes and cooking, they do not help, that the daughter-in-law married over, is a high climber. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one, and then you'll be able to get a new one.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together, the contradiction is especially much, a lot of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship to deal with especially good. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not live together, go back to see the mother-in-law on New Year's Day so that the distance produces beauty, so that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is particularly good.
After marriage, and mother-in-law live separately, is the best choice.
Mother-in-law should learn to let go
Son's marriage is a happy thing, is the son's growth, maturity process. After your son gets married, the mother-in-law has to change her center of gravity. The mother-in-law has to have her own life circle, let's say go to square dance, go out traveling with father-in-law.
Mother-in-law should be happy that her son has his own family. The mother-in-law should change her own thinking mode, not to use her own ideas to constrain her son's life after marriage.
After marriage, daughter-in-law and son are a small family, if they encounter any difficulties, we have to go to help, usually do not disturb their lives, give the children space, do not interfere with their husband and wife things.
Daughter-in-law to think more about the feelings of the mother-in-law
When we get married, the wife should think more about the mother-in-law, mother and son. Mother-in-law often care about their husbands, often give their husbands to do delicious meals, mother-in-law often say that the wife spends his son's money? In fact, all these, is the mother-in-law too much love for the son, afraid of the son aggrieved, afraid of the son has a wife forget mother.
We do wife to understand, usually more and mother-in-law chat, usually to mother-in-law to buy clothes, let mother-in-law to their own home guests.
Married if you don't have a house, it is recommended to go out and rent a house to live, have their own small home especially happy.
I don't like the idea of my mother-in-law living with me. I think that when we get married, we need to be independent and not rely on our parents.
Possibly because our family is not well off, after we got married, we have been drifting around and have been renting a house.
Once a year, we go back to the New Year, and usually make a phone call. Sometimes think about it, the heart is a little aggrieved, married, no mother-in-law to help, but these gave me a strong, do not rely on anyone, so I learned to grow.
I think after marriage, we have to run a good small family between husband and wife, but also take into account the extended family. The in-laws and the couple's family are connected as one big family. When there are problems, our extended family solves them together.