Wang Wei's husband's name is Du Ming, Du Ming's hometown is in the countryside, before the two got married, Du Ming's parents paid for them to buy a house in the city. The two people lived in that house after they got married, and Du Ming's in-laws have always lived in their rural hometown.
Wang Wei and Du Ming are both very filial, and they often urge their elderly parents to move to the city to live with them. Whenever Wang Wei made this suggestion, her mother-in-law would be embarrassed and say, "Our living habits in the countryside are different from those in the city, and we will dirty your building if we live there."
Then Wang Wei got pregnant, and then later she gave birth to a cute boy. At this time, Wang Wei's mother-in-law took the initiative to call Wang Wei, and she volunteered to live in the city.
Wang Wei knew that her mother-in-law did this in order to help her with the baby, and Wang Wei was very grateful to her mother-in-law in her heart.
Her mother-in-law really helped Wang Wei a lot after she came to the city. Her mother-in-law would immediately coax the child when he or she made the slightest sound of crying, and she took the initiative to take on the work of washing diapers and changing the child's clothes.
The child is getting bigger and bigger, and at this time, it is Wang Wei's mother-in-law who does all the work of taking the child out to play, making the child laugh, and telling the child a story, which Wang Wei really appreciates in her heart. Wang Wei felt that apart from breastfeeding, her mother-in-law did all the other things for her.
Out of her gratitude to her mother-in-law, Wang Wei treated her mother-in-law as her own mother.
Li Meng's situation is very similar to Wang Wei's. She married a husband from a rural area, and after they got married, they lived in the city.
At this time, Li Meng's mother-in-law kept calling Li Meng, "Li Meng, let's go to live in the city too, we can take good care of your life after living in the city."
Li Meng originally did not want her mother-in-law to come to the city to live, she was afraid that her mother-in-law would affect the two of them, but her mother-in-law always said so, she was too embarrassed to refuse her mother-in-law, and then she agreed.
But after her mother-in-law came to live in the city, it didn't help her life at all.
A year later, Li Meng gave birth to a lovely boy, and at this time something made Li Meng angry. Her mother-in-law did not help her at all in taking care of the child.
Almost everything about taking care of the child was done by Li Meng alone, and she sometimes had to work until twelve o'clock at night before she could go to sleep. She was so angry that she said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, you live with us, can't you help me with the child?". .
"Li Meng, don't be too petulant, when I was young, I was also the one who brought up the children by myself, and there was no one to help me then. Besides, I didn't have time", Li Meng's mother-in-law said.
"You have time for square dancing and mahjong, but you don't have time to help me with the kids?"
"Playing mahjong can be good for your brain, and square dancing can be good for your body, these are all very meaningful things", Li Meng's mother-in-law shot back at Li Meng.
"Then bringing up children is something meaningless?" , Li Meng grimaced twice.
After the child grew up, Li Meng's mother-in-law became very old. Thinking about the fact that she never helped herself with the child, Li Meng did not do a single bit of filial piety to her mother-in-law, who lived a miserable life in her old age.
Helping a daughter-in-law with her grandchildren and a mother-in-law without grandchildren, their old age is absolutely different, most likely a world of difference.
Helping a daughter-in-law with her children is, to some extent, a mother-in-law's duty. After a daughter-in-law gives birth to a child, her body is very weak, at this time the mother-in-law out of consideration for her daughter-in-law, of course, to help her bring up the child, after the child grows up the daughter-in-law has to go to work, the mother-in-law to help her bring up the child can let the daughter-in-law to put more energy and time into the work.
When a mother-in-law helps a daughter-in-law with her child, the daughter-in-law will certainly be very grateful to her mother-in-law. If the daughter-in-law can put more energy into her work, then her income will be higher and she will be more likely to succeed in her career.
Nowadays, children are very naughty, bringing up children is actually a very headache, mother-in-law to help daughter-in-law to share part of it, and in turn, when the mother-in-law is older, the daughter-in-law will certainly be very filial to her.