Do not do unto others what you would not have them do unto you, you don't want to do housework yourself, so why ask your mother-in-law to do it.
First, housework can be done by anyone
I think housework is a very small thing, and there is no need to stipulate that it should be done by anyone, because everyone is usually very busy with their own things to do, and if you divide this task between a certain person and let her do it every day, she will also feel tired,< Everyone does it differently, everyone you have time you do it, I have time I do it. Everyone wants to rest, everyone wants to be lazy, there is no need for the family to go to conflict over this little thing, and there is no need to have an opinion about your mother-in-law, which would not be conducive to you and her getting along in the future.
Elderly people like to dance is a good thing, dancing can be relaxing, but also exercise, when your mother-in-law is very good health, you do not have to spend too much energy to take care of her, so you should support her to go to the square dance.
Secondly, if you don't like to do housework, you should ask your mother-in-law to do it
If no one in your entire extended family wants to do housework, and if you have a better family, you can ask an aunt to come to your home to do housework exclusively, in this case, you don't have to do housework, and your mother-in-law doesn't have to do it, either. We all won't be tired or bothered, and there will be no conflicts. In fact, sometimes it's cleaner if the housekeeping aunts come to the house to do the housework. Sometimes when we are tired of working, we want to be lazy in doing the housework, so we just do it perfunctorily. Please ask an aunt to come home to do housework is quite good cooking cooking together if better, home can directly eat, also do not have to do it yourself can reduce their own trouble. Third, living together, there is no need to be catty
We are all living together as a family, there is no need to be catty, if your mother-in-law does not agree to ask an aunt to do it, you want to do it when you can do it, don't want to do it can be put there so that your husband to do it. Because your mother-in-law will surely feel sorry for his son and when she sees her son doing the chores, she will surely give up and then come over to do it herself. But I think marrying into someone else's family as a daughter-in-law can do as much as possible or to do some, because we all live together, all want to make life more happy happy, so there is no need to pussyfoot around these.