Good Intentions Lies Debate Profile ~ (Scrambled together, just read it!)
Topic:Good lies are no obstacle to honesty [精]
When it comes to lies, I'll bet there's not a single one of us who hasn't told a lie since we were kids. Yes, everyone
has lied, but some lies are good, and some lies are bad! A good intentioned lie
is a lie that has a good intention, a lie that has to be made up while lying to achieve a good intentioned deception.
One, the good intention of the lie is not hindered by the integrity of our country:
In the late 1950s, the early 1960s, China and the former Soviet Union dispute, the former Soviet Union
government tore up the contract to withdraw the experts, treacherous behavior, making our national industry
once paralyzed, in order to clear the debt owed to the former Soviet Union, Chairman Mao was
this time
, the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Union and the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Union and the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Union and the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Union and the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Union, the former Soviet Union and the former Soviet Union. At that time, Chairman Mao called on the people of China to build up steel and carried out the unprecedented Great Leap Forward. At that time, no one in China would have known that our country was still in debt to other people, and thought that we would live a carefree life after our country was liberated, but the leading comrades of the Party and the country took up the burden, and at that time, the country was still in debt to other people, and the people of China had no idea that the country was still in debt to other people, and they thought that our country had been liberated, and that we would lead a carefree life. The lies told by the leaders to the people were well-intentioned andwere not a hindrance to the integrity of the people of China, who worked
without any pressure, creating unprecedented miracles. That era produced the iron man Wang Jinxi
and Wang Jinxi led his oil drilling team to drill the first
oil wells of our own. .....
Second, in talking about our personal, I'm here to give two small examples:
Watched a TV report, said an old mother got kidney disease, if not kidney
that life will be threatened, this time the oldest son stood up and asked for his mother's kidney donation, which
could be pained by the old mother, the old mother strongly opposed, said if so they are also
This is the first time in the history of the world, the oldest son of the mother's kidney donation.
They said they would be better off dead than alive. The only way is to wait for a kidney that matches all the conditions, but it is not easy to wait for
this kind of kidney, the son was afraid of delaying his mother's condition, so he discussed with his family
and lied to his mother. A young kidney donated to the mother, the hand
successful surgery after the family or hide the old mother, the most touching is the mother and son
son living in the next ward, the mother is not aware of, when the mother wants to see the eldest son, the family only
is to lie to her that the son to go on a business trip, I was touched by the tears after reading the report, friends
, is it such a lie that the son of the mother to go on a business trip, the mother is the only one of them who can not see the mother of the child, she is the only one of them to see the mother.
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman in the world who has been in the world for a long time, and I've never seen her in the world.
A little girl with leukemia, in the late stages of her life, when the doctor asked her biggest
wish is what, she said she wanted to go to Tiananmen Square to see the flag-raising ceremony, a life-threatening
girl's last wish, the doctor and the parents of which there is no reason not to meet it? But because
her family lives far away in Xinjiang, if her request is met, the doctors are afraid that the girl will not be able to withstand the
long journey, so a collective lie organized by more than 2,000 volunteers and doctors and the girl's family
personnel began to lie, from the train to the bus
, along the way, from the announcement of the station to the waiter to serve tea and water, and even to the bus, to the bus, to the bus, to the bus, to the bus, to the bus, to the bus.
From the train to the tourist bus,
along the way,
from the announcement of the station to the waiter,
even to the traveler's conversation,
were all intentionally arranged,
from a school,
the marching band accompanied by the national anthem,
the blind girl thought that really came to the longing of the Tiananmen Square,
when seeing
she was powerless to lift up her little hand to the direction of the national flag to salute, the people present were all stream
tears.
There were tears in the eyes of the people who were there.
Can you say that this collective lying organized by more than 2,000 people is an impediment to honesty and integrity?
Also, a lot of elderly people do not feel well and do not want to let their children know the first time, in order to
Fear of affecting the children's normal work and study! A lot of children fall down and say
No pain, in order to let parents say they are brave! There are many successful people behind the silent dedication
women tired, never complained, in order to let their husbands can rest assured that the work
does better for the family to worry a little less .... Such examples are countless in a country with a long history of civilization like ours,
I am not going to list them all here,
Facts speak louder than words,
To sum up,
They all lied,
but their lies were well-intentioned
,
and they didn't hinder the honesty. ......
They all lied,
They all lied,
They all lied. p>Good faith lies do not hinder integrity
"Lies" are called "lies" because they are false, untrue
, deceitful words. If a person has a constant flow of lies in his mouth to deceive
others, he will lose people's trust over time. Just like the child in the article "The Lying Child
, every day he shouts "the wolf is coming" to seek excitement and
happiness, but when the wolf really comes, he can only face it independently by himself, and bear it by himself, and no matter how much he shouts, it won't help, and there will be no one to help him again. .
Possibly the people who came to help him had gotten used to his shouting and thought that he was "teasing you"
again, so it is clear that lies are an obstacle to honesty.
But today, when we talk about "lies", there is a qualifier - good faith - and with this qualifier, the nature of the lie is fundamentally changed. ...who will not go after its credibility, even if the person who hears
goodwill lies knows that it is a lie, but also the same will go to try to believe, will not feel
the hypocrisy of the liar, and sometimes also from the heart to appreciate it.
When a terminally ill patient is sentenced to death by a doctor, his parents, loved ones
, children, and all his loved ones will not tell him directly: "Life cannot be
saved," and "How much longer can you live in this world? " and the like. Although these words are true, who would be so cruel as to tell the truth to a loved one who is already in pain and suffering as if he were a judge sentencing a prisoner to death
. This will form
a united front, keeping their mouths shut and telling lies to keep the patient's hopes up for
treatment, so that he or she can live out the rest of his or her days in a peaceful state of mind.
Is this a hindrance to honesty!
When a child who does not know the world is suddenly struck by misfortune and loses his loved ones,
how to explain to him where his loved ones have gone. We think the best way
is not to tell him what happened, but to say that he went on a business trip to a faraway place
or studied and worked abroad. When the child is able to understand and have a
certain ability to bear, then to tell the truth, the child will also understand the relatives do
law, will not be angry for not knowing the truth earlier. Is it possible that such a statement is also a hindrance to
honesty!
When a soldier who is on a mission in the field of the mother is very sick, the inflammation of a breath of
when, how much hope to see his son for the last time ah, but the son is not able to come back to
Come, can not be for the old mother to do a little filial piety, take care of once for the son of the mother of the broken
Heart, he was very apologetic, and also very much in mind. And the old mother is very understanding son
, told the relatives around him, after his departure do not tell the distant son, can not
let him distracted, to say that the condition has been stabilized, so that he can rest assured that he will do his best for the country. Is it possible that such a
good intentioned lie is in the way of integrity!
So, I insist: not only does the good intentioned lie not hinder the integrity, but also will be extremely
Large enhancement of friendship and feelings between people, social stability also has indelible
role. I suggest that we all use lies, and there is no great conflict between honesty and dishonesty.
Goodwill lies do not hinder the integrity of the fourth statement
Now, I will summarize our position.
First: a good lie is a lie out of good motives, to protect the interests of others as the purpose
and starting point. As we all know, the contradiction has a universal and particular, the particularity of
contained with the particularity of the distinction between the universal. On the nature of its good lie itself
determines that it is not evil benefit, but is based on the sincerity of the heart, the foundation of goodness, while the evil
intentional lie is for the benefit of the liar, with a strong desire for profit, weak rationality,
taking the others as a means to the end, at the expense of harming the behavior of others. The lie that a good person is "forced" to tell in a certain state is a good one, and this lie is a kind of kindness and concern for the subject. And the wrong-minded people, no matter how to disguise, such as
how rhetoric, how to rack their brains for their own malicious lies crowned with good intentions of the high hat
, the lies they say are with malicious purposes. Obviously, a well-intentioned lie is no obstacle to good faith
.
Secondly, a well-intentioned lie is a way of being in the world, a reflection of the quality of thinking for others
.
A terminally ill patient's friends and relatives always use well-intentioned lies to make his condition
very light and encourage him to cooperate with the doctor's treatment, I believe that everyone here will not be accused of dishonesty because of this
they? On the contrary it is maliciously true that a captive speaks of his side's troop deployment under the enemy's lure
does anyone think he is honest? Sincerity to the enemy
is betrayal to the country ah!
The director of the forensic science department of Guangzhou Brain Hospital said, "Lying is a kind of human instinct, as to
whether honesty, the key in with which kind of lie."
A lie that expresses a refusal of love without directly hurting the suitor; a lie that expresses a lack of strength in the
generosity of the man who does not want to disappoint the invitee is indispensable in
interpersonal communication. It makes us more comfortable in the world,
not like a prismatic stone, cut others head and blood, but also their own scars.
We can see that there is a need for a layer of protective coloring and lubrication between people. Since the Garden of Eden was
expelled from the time, people are not in the nakedness of each other but surrounded by bark and grass leaves, is not it?
Third: although the good lie is a kind of lie, but can not say that the lie is necessarily
hinder integrity, to analyze the specific problem.
The reason why honesty is respected by everyone is because it is good not to deceive, goodwill
the lie on the surface, it seems to hinder the principle of honesty, but in essence, it
so exists because speaking the truth hinders the principle of goodness.
The lie of good faith and honesty, in fact, is the relationship of unity of opposites, and the so-called violation of
back precisely for the integrity of the provision of a useful complement, and is not in the way, let's say: regulation
Pedestrians on the road in the same direction can only occupy half of the road, and does not hinder the passage of everyone
Ah!
Fourth: A world without lies is like an earth without dust. We agree that a well-intentioned
lie is not an obstacle to honesty and integrity, and that the key lies in the degree to which we promote it.
What is lying? If it is indiscriminately defined as: not being truthful, telling false
words, exaggerating, covering up, distorting the truth. Then our lives are full of big
little lies, from highly inflammatory advertisements to sweet words between lovers, all
not full of exaggerated words, even the literature itself has become a lie. There are standards of lies in everyone's heart
and how to grasp this degree is the first thing we think about. Compared with
motivated lies, lies will make people's feelings become more harmonious
harmonious, life becomes more tasty, it can skillfully avoid conflict, to achieve
emotional communication and smooth interaction, and how to hinder the integrity of it?
Therefore, we need to learn to recognize malicious lies and protect ourselves from harm; at the same
time, improve their own cultivation, thinking about the best way to solve the problem. "The way of the university,
in the Mingde, in the pro-people, in stopping at the best." As for those who are cozy, let life be full of
full of interest; as for those who are full of kindness, compassionate lies, let them bloom
!
Isn't there a saying that kind lies are beautiful. When we lie moderately for the sake of other people's
happiness and hope, the lie is changed into understanding, respect
and tolerance, with magical power.
Here's an example, there is a student who is not very good at long-distance running
but in a test, the teacher told him that his long-distance running speed is faster than other students
and also said that he has a chance to represent the school to participate in the competition, and told him to work hard, the
student is very excited to listen to the teacher's words because he has always thought that he does not have the long-distance running
and that the student is not very happy to be able to run.
The student was very excited to hear his teacher's words, because he had always thought that he had no talent for long-distance running. From that day on, he really liked
long-distance running and insisted on getting up every day to run, and after a period of time, he could not represent the school to participate in the competition, but he was really selected.
Once there was a teacher, he spread a panic that he could predict the future for his students:
You may become a mathematician in the future, he can be a writer, that one has artistic talent
...... in the teacher's instruction, inculcation, encouragement and molding, the children become diligent and hard working
This is the first time that I've seen a teacher's work, and it's been a long time since I've seen a teacher's work. p>Bitter, know how to learn. A few years later, a large number of students with excellent results into the door of the university
, the village is also famous. People thought that the old teacher could calculate, can
to sense the future, in fact, the teacher's good intentions is a beautiful lie planted
in the child's mind, like sowing a seed in the soil, will eventually flourish, blossom
results.
Reading the American short story "The Last Leaf," my eyes are always moist. When a sick old man looks at the fading leaves and despairs, a loving painter
decorates the dry tree of life with a carefully sketched green leaf, thus maintaining
a period of life that is about to be extinguished. Is this not the ultimate in lies?
Lies out of good intentions are the nourishment of life and the source of faith.
It allows people to light up the fire of hope from the heart, sure that there is love, trust, and feeling in the world
and thus find more reasons to smile at life. The lie of goodwill is to give human nature
the spirit of the embodiment of emotional finesse and maturity of thought, prompting people to be strong and persistent,
involuntarily go to work to fight, and finally overcome the fragile, desperate to survive.
The parents of a lie, so that the world of children face like flowers, brilliantly bright; old
The teacher of a lie, so that the uncertainty of the students are no longer confused, the better to grow; the doctor of a
The lie, so that the fear of the patient from the destruction of the new life ......
Dear friends Friends, wake up, in fact, the good intention of the lie is not at all in the way of honesty
Trust, do not think that the good intention of the lie will be in the way of the integrity of the issue, because as long as you
Heart thinking is for the sake of others, then the good intention of the lie is precious, it will not
Causes a crisis of trust, and will not tarnish the civilization, and more not distort the human nature.
The lie of kindness has the magical power to inspire you to make progress again and again
and never give up for the dream in your heart. For the road ahead is completely illuminated by
joy, and life is better for it.
If being open and straightforward is a mistake, I choose to lie.
If truthfulness and frankness are a disservice, I choose the lie.
If it's for the sake of yourself or others to stop suffering, what
is the harm in a little more lies?
Just like China's four masterpieces <<Journey to the West>>, that unrealistic and bizarre mythological story attracted hundreds of millions of
million readers, in the illusion to the world about the hardships of the westbound, but the monkeys can fly it, the pig can be
three hundred and sixty-six changes it, that come to the Palace of Heaven ah, the "God six" have flown a few rounds, how did not hit the sky
Palace! Ah, that & lt; & lt; Journey to the West & gt; & gt; whether against the integrity of ah, it is not true is a lie ah, can
said against the integrity of ah, simply donkey lips do not talk to the horse's mouth, in this case, then I think: out of
Integrity considerations I think that these myths should be classified as a banned book. Right! Please explain!
Lies with good intentions are also lies, lies with bad intentions are also lies, a lie is a lie,
no distinction between bad intentions and good intentions; just like what Bai Zhantang said in the Wulin Outreach: a thief is a thief, there is no distinction between a good thief and a bad thief, a good thief is a thief, a bad thief is a thief, a thief is no good
and bad. Then a lie is the same, a lie is a lie, there is no good and bad
, in the end he has lied, he has lied to people!