Life can not be smooth sailing, you love life will also play jokes with you, in the face of life's suffering you cried, and even feel that life has lost its meaning, but as long as you learn to accept frankly, there will always be a day after the rain.
Women to the age of 57 years old, basically have survived the busy work routine, enjoying a leisurely life after retirement, but to that age will inevitably lose a lot of things, the loss of youth is gone, the loss of loved ones is not likely to come back, but since you are alive, the next few days, even if only a person to be strong to go on.
57-year-old Ms. Tang is now living alone, two years ago, Ms. Tang's husband died in an accident because he was working in a factory, the widowed woman immersed in negative emotions, after a period of time to adjust, Ms. Tang regained vigor, but also live a more exciting life.
I'm 57 years old, and when my husband first died, I moped around every day, feeling like my life had lost its meaning, but through my own adjustments, I've basically come out of it, and I'm living a good life on my own.
Husband in the time we love each other very much, want to completely put down the past is impossible, every night, a person to stay in the cold house, a sense of loneliness will also arise, they will occasionally also be silent tears, people have feelings, which can be said to put down on the put down.
The relatives and friends around me also said that in order to have a dependence on the late life want me to remarry, during which I also introduced a number of men, but I do not want to remarry, are halfway couples are thieves I also understand, are so old, looking for a person reluctant to live as well as a person over.
In fact, I can now live alone, every month there is a pension to get, do not have to rely on a man to support, even if they encountered something, there are still children and relatives and friends around, they can not not care about me.
A lot of people feel that a person's life is very bitter, too lonely, in fact, only mastered a good method, a person instead of living more comfortable, life will be more exciting.
Now that you are retired, you don't have to live a nine-to-five life every day, eat well and sleep well every day, and no longer worry about the work, weekdays to do what you like, a person really feel lonely, you can also raise some cats and dogs, boredom, read a book and drink a cup of tea life is not easy.
I have a girlfriend, because and her husband's feelings are not the same, last year, the two divorced, although she did not have a pension, but they have a store, life is not bad, before she yelled to get married again, but under my influence, she quickly adapted to a person's life, usually nothing, we will get together together, and go shopping together with a trip.
Every morning, I get up, I will go to the park to take a walk, with people of the same age to learn to play tai chi, after dinner, I will go to the square next to the neighborhood to walk, and slowly with others to learn to dance, have more and more hobbies, but also know a lot of like-minded friends.
Through those hobbies to know more people, you will find that many people and you have the same encounter, each other to talk to each other, comfort, and communicate with each other in the life of the fun, the mood will suddenly a lot better.
I do not feel that the age of fifty-something is very big, but rather feel that this is the beginning of life, I still have a lot of things I want to do have not done, and there are a lot of places I want to go have not yet gone, once I will be living from the self, so that their lives are more exciting.
In fact, a person's life will not be very bad, as long as a little more hobbies, more and more contact with people to exchange, make more friends, those sad things will always be buried, life will be more and more wonderful.
There is a saying that God closes a door for you, will open a window for you, so life in the face of desperation, there will always be a way to find a way out, there will always be a loss in your life, at the same time you lose, but also get new things to make up for it, people live in the world also have to look at the mentality, as long as you keep a positive and optimistic mindset, life will not be a loss to you.