There is no 23 years old not married, and then parents especially anxious on the fire want you to get married quickly, and then also always say that if you do not look for no good, how do we all

Two key questions 1. is your own problem 2. your parents' problem. You should know that regional differences lead to different marriage ages in different regions. For example, in my grandmother's countryside if the family children do not go to school, 19, 20 on the marriage, see clearly is the marriage, not marriage, that is, the two families have talked about, and then the legal age to get married, get a marriage license. For example, in some places like Shanghai, the parents of common children will give their children to look for mature men after 28 to 30 years old, basically have a car, a house and a career of successful people, think so that the marriage has insurance, but of course not all parents are so 100% so think. If you are going to college, 18 years old college 22 years old graduate, I was 19 years old in college, there are differences. You're 23 years old and you just graduated! If you are looking for the object if the general age will not differ many years, almost the same as you, clinical internship, according to the different specialties, the prospects for development are not the same, some of them are upwardly mobile work, entrepreneurial private enterprise work, some iron rice bowl, such as teachers or public service on a fixed salary, not with the development of the company and the multi-payment, but no risk. So your parents subjective 23 years old not looking to find a good point of view is wrong. Because you have no idea how your object will develop later! Your parents said to find a good, the reason is that you at the same time to look at the eye, handsome, long you personally like the type of look good, young man character traits are good, at the same time your parents refer to each other's family background, economic conditions in line with your this is a matter of course! This is the objective factor parents for children to consider is normal, but the fundamental problem lies in you, because the marriage is your own knot, even if the parents think the other side is good, but ultimately the right to choose lies in you. Here the problem still will not be solved, because people in this life normal certainly married, ordinary people who can not escape, that the national law after 25 years old is considered late marriage, that is, your parents based on the basis of this will say that no longer look for can not find a good one! The first thing you need to realize is that the average age of marriage in our country is 28! Yes, you did not see the wrong 28 years old, but the average age of marriage in Europe and the United States is 24 years old, because in China the poor children always marry early, we will mistakenly think that the developed countries in Europe and the United States will be very late to get married, in fact, it is not, people did not get married at the age of 23 years old is considered to be a late marriage. So tell you clearly tell your parents when you want to get married, 90 girls after 25 years of age is the most suitable for marriage, we are a few years late to get married itself is not a problem, the key is that you have to find the right half, it is not simple Oh If you can find true love, we can assure you that even if you are 30 years old to get married, 40 years of age to get married does not matter, because it is not a fairy tale is the reality We have graduated, we are already We've graduated, we're not that student age anymore! I hope you can find your other half! Cheer up!