This kind of physical contact in ballroom dancing can objectively maintain the perception of the temperature and state of each other's body for a long time, which naturally produces a sense of intimacy.
Moreover, whether it is the mass fitness ballroom dancing or social cocktail party ballroom dancing, all need to be in a kind of light under the atmosphere, more baked a kind of ambiguous atmosphere. So it makes sense for psychology to position ballroom dancing as " borderline sexual behavior."
"Marginal sexual behavior" is, as the name suggests, second only to sexual behavior, has reached a very intimate distance, in fact, the embrace should also be counted in this category, but the courtesy of the embrace, the time is very short.
From the application of social dance occasions and role can be seen. Whether in China or foreign countries, large-scale ballroom dance will be to the male and female youth acquaintance, love to provide a wonderful opportunity. In the process of dancing can secretly observe and perceive each other, each other's temperament, eyes.
According to relevant scientific research, each person will emit a unique body odor, the opposite sex is the most sensitive. Some people will feel pleasure and fascinated by the body odor of other people, while some people will feel bored with the body odor of exclusion. This may be the result of a natural arrangement.
Then, at a ballroom dance, this intimate distance can be used to select a partner by the perception of the odor channel, which may be an animal instinct at this point.
I've seen a fair amount of family breakups due to dancing out partners. Two people meet rain or shine to dance and end up falling in love over time. In theory the chances of this are still very high. It is this kind of seemingly open "borderline sexual behavior" that leads to the result of moving away from love.
From this point of view, non-partners, non-couples are best not to form a fixed pattern of social dance partners. Although humans are advanced animals, they are not as rational as they should be in terms of pure lust, and they are easily tempted.
Some people have heard that this is a "marginal sexual behavior" and decided that this kind of dance is vulgar, which is wrongly accused of social dancing, to the other extreme.
First of all, ballroom dancing is a kind of behavioral art, formal dance. People can not only get a pleasant mood in the beautiful music, beautiful dance can also be pleasant to others. So we have to look at the social dance correctly.
On the one hand, as a kind of dance is a certain professional requirements, the international also organized from time to time this kind of social dance competition, why? Because it is a kind of art, a kind of beauty, to promote.
Not only social dance, like rumba, cha-cha-cha, waltz and so on a lot of double dance have social dance similar nature. This is the human race for thousands of years to celebrate, used to express their happy mood handed down, but also social needs, and has formed a culture. The ballroom dance for international competitions is undoubtedly the most aesthetically pleasing and the most standardized.
And the public can as fitness and entertainment, appropriate jump, from this attribute, and the difference between square dance is not big. And from the requirements of the square dance with the square dance is different, square dance as long as a person to jump on the good, and social dance must be two people, and if it is the same sex partner others will look very awkward, this time the choice of dance partner should pay attention to. There's also a "borderline sexuality" aspect to it.
On the whole, ballroom dancing is usually considered a popular recreational activity, and should be danced, as long as you grasp a degree of good, to see it as the same as the Westerner's face, embracing etiquette, the heart of the world is wide and selfless, and the right mindset to enjoy the beauty of the good.
Young men and women had better less involved in the ballroom as well, dancing can stimulate human hormone metabolism function, the ballroom is the best place for young people to chase the hunt for the best place to communicate, the ballroom is also one of the young people taking drugs rampant, married men and women unless the dance partner is a husband and wife, husband and wife, such as one party often in and out of the ballroom, the other party to cause concern and caution, retired grandparents are another matter or even encouraged to go dancing. Retired grandparents, on the other hand, should be encouraged to go dancing regularly, as dancing can make old people's spirits happy, which is very good for their health. Dancing is a great benefit to the health of the elderly as it makes them happy. It seems appropriate to define ballroom dancing as a marginal sexual behavior.
Borderline sexuality, or limbic sexuality, usually refers to a kind of limbic behavior between sexuality and non-sexuality. It also refers to a behavior that is performed prior to formal sex in order to assist in the sexual act. In fact, many of life's behavior, in some circumstances can be a borderline sexual behavior, such as kissing, hugging, ear to ear, etc., that the dance is not this "borderline sexual behavior"?
Dance is originally a form of dance that shows one's attraction to the opposite sex, not to mention the fact that it is a form of ballroom dancing that pairs the sexes and echoes each other. This kind of dance itself has a "friendship" component, with strong social attributes, and is a social behavior focusing on both sexes.
Social dance since the introduction of the West into China, in a very long time is considered to be a kind of men and women to have fun a kind of dance, also known as "ballroom dance" "ballroom dance" and so on, and in the men and women dating, social dance can be very good to bring close to each other, improve the atmosphere of both sexes. The degree of intimacy with each other, improve the atmosphere of the two sexes, for further intimate behavior to pave the way. From this point of view, social dancing can be called "marginal sexual behavior".
There are no very clear criteria or boundaries for characterizing borderline sexuality, but rather it depends on the atmosphere and situation at the time. Massage, for example, can be a healthy form of health care, but it can also be borderline sexual behavior between the sexes, and the difference lies in the circumstances of the two parties. The same is true of ballroom dancing.
As people's lives continue to grow, ballroom dancing is no longer just a dance that promotes intimacy between the sexes, but has become a fitness sport, and a competitive sport.
The ballroom dance is a very good fitness activity that can drive both parties to walk rhythmically while enjoying themselves at the same time. For one thing, it is suitable for people who are unable to exercise strenuously; for another, ballroom dancing can make people obtain certain happiness, so that fitness is no longer so boring.
The competitiveization of ballroom dancing has changed people's view of ballroom dancing into a professional competitive dance. A lot of life behavior behavior can be "professional", even a small activity. For example, drinking tea, eating, arranging flowers and even folding clothes can become a subdivision of the pursuit of professionalism.
When ballroom dancing becomes a form of fitness or a competitive sport, it can't be called a "marginal behavior".
Of course, whether it's a fitness or a career, it doesn't erase its original role. Professional ballroom dancing may be about pursuing the ultimate in movement and professionalism, but as an ordinary person, the main role of ballroom dancing is still for men and women to "fellowship", or to get pleasure from this "fellowship" behavior.
Even if we call ballroom dancing a fringe sexual activity, we don't have to be overly sensitive or even strongly opposed to it. There are many behaviors in life that seem normal to us that have borderline sexual attributes, such as kissing, hugging, touching, and even shaking hands between the sexes.
Now these behaviors are accepted as everyday behaviors because of socio-cultural changes and the prevalence of people's participatory behaviors. In the traditional old society, even shaking hands was criticized as a "lewd" act.
From the point of view of human nature, the pursuit of sex is normal and necessary, but on the other side of the culture, the pursuit of sex is abnormal and immoral. Therefore, the invisible hand of society and culture will find a balance between the two, and this balance reflects something subtle, called "art" or "beauty".
This will inevitably produce polarized views, some people will be stripped of all kinds of beautifying factors, so that the original purpose of a certain behavior naked in front of the people, such as beauty pageants are some people called the collective release of desire; and some people will pursue the "peak" of art, the pursuit of the soul of the sublimation, to abandon the original original function. The first is to be a "good" one, and the second is to be a "good" one.
In short, some psychologists define ballroom dancing as a borderline sexual behavior, but only in a certain discussion environment, there are certain prerequisites, can not be generalized. We may not necessarily apply such conclusions to everything, but only make an understanding and assimilation of it. For a certain kind of behavior, we can choose what form it takes, whether it is a normal behavior or a marginal one, according to the situation of the moment. (END)
Does this behavior occur when there is intimate contact with any member of the opposite sex, such as dancing, hugging, etc., in the middle of a large crowd? If so, why doesn't the state ban it? They also hold various ballroom dancing competitions and advocate for young men and women to learn this kind of ballroom dancing. It is radical and incorrect to define ballroom dancing as "borderline sexual behavior".
Every summer, in our neighborhood squares, there are many men and women who go there to dance, square dance, ballroom dancing, Latin dance, etc., is it possible that men and women as long as the ballroom dancing, the occurrence of "marginal sexual behavior", which can not be understood.
Social dance, men and women in contact with the more intimate, can feel each other's temperature and body temperature, close, in the process of dancing, physical and mental pleasure, so that people have a good feeling, is a lot of young people like friends, they are in the process of dancing and each other acquaintance, and slowly fall in love is also there.
Some married people also like to dance, their wives or husbands are also present, if this is defined as "marginal sexual behavior", their husbands or wives can accept? If this kind of behavior exists, why don't their wives and husbands object to it? Instead, they participated in it.
Even a step further, it is their people can not, there is no moral line, want to take advantage of each other, or even want to violate each other, this behavior is intolerable, how many wonderful women have become the victim, this is a kind of hooliganism, to be resolutely rejected.
In fact, do not say too elegant, recognize what things or work or, have his technical, dancing is the same, is to enjoy the physical and mental movement type, the so-called people respect people high since boast from floating. Each type of movement is comparable, there are poor and good points, the key is the thing itself, what is the social dance? What is ballroom dancing? There is a definition when the word was created, if you don't understand it, look up in the dictionary and check the information. The so-called social dance is the human body language expression of love and communication. Is emotional Interactive mutual pleasure movement, the so-called artistic positioning is the professional level, any industry has technical, are high and low, as long as the fun is good, life's abundance of amplified human playful greed, the spouse other than the opposite sex interaction allows people to move, looking at the people do not like people to exclude you from other attempts, you still have the mood to dance? Do not say the lofty truth, everyone understands, really to the artistic level is like a toad wanting to run to the moon, each dance music, songs with body language to express what? In does not affect the family does not hurt others on the bold to play, your own husband, your own wife with others to dance, you are happy on the good. Openness of the family are there, what is wrong with social dancing? No one is a master of morality, just go with your heart.
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1, the psychologist himself has a problem, I have been dancing for decades, and I have not known any marginalized heterosexuals through ballroom dancing.
2, do anything, all depends on what attitude you hold, you hold a normal mind, everything is normal, you personally mentality crooked, the world in your eyes of course not correct!
3, the reason why the sorority dance is not good, because you do not understand the sorority dance, dance is a kind of art, like the medical profession, you specialize in it, but also consider the other side is the same sex heterosexual? It's just an artistic answer file.
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No matter how it's disguised, dancing is gender-related behavior. Why else don't men dance with men and women dance with women. It only hides a reason for men and women to be openly intimate.
It is undeniable that men and women like to socialize with the opposite sex, so it is said that men and women are not tired of working together, only for the sake of responsibility, commitment, but also shyness, so disguise yourself to be reserved. Dancing is a good excuse. Because it's public, and there is a regulated pace, it controls the boundaries and plugs the mouths of the idle
I don't agree with this view! If you characterize it according to this view, then I have to ask, male doctors in the OB/GYN department deliver babies every day and perform gynecological surgeries. How should this be characterized? There are men's hospitals, female doctors, dealing with men every day, and how to characterize? In fact, the doctor is to save lives and relieve pain for the patients, this is the professional characteristics.
The dance itself is art, and elegant art will give people the enjoyment of beauty. Anyone who has a crooked heart, not dancing, can also have a crooked heart, even if it's planting the land can also appear misbehavior.
So don't see the social dance as a sexual fringe dance, which is the wrong view.
I don't know if it's called a "limbo" or not. I'm sorry, I'm a bumpkin and I don't know how to do ballroom dancing. However, because of the dance dance and couples to reshuffle things really heard from time to time, was pulled to the dance floor "education" of the things have not less experience, so there is no less see, dance on the dance floor because of the dance and jealousy and fight the big fight is also an indisputable fact. No wonder, both men and women hooked shoulders back and waist intimate, said no soulful reverie, you really believe it? Why not enforce same-sex compatibility instead of male-female compatibility for this kind of elegant behavior? The contact of the opposite sex needs to be open, this is generally very popular, but deep in the love network of men and women, only want to minute and second "only with you close together", the other opposite sex of the close to the appearance of a very sensitive.
Bullshit. I've been to the National Championships of Sport Dance. In our practice of international standard dance group, the pursuit of the arts of many people, the nonsense of no one, never is what you say that the sorority dance that thing, do not believe, you look at the picture of the official competition, that is how elegant sports ah! Besides, the international standard dance performance or competition, are very physically demanding, such as the Vienna waltz, requiring a minute to jump 90 beats, each beat is 3 steps, that movement is very violent, in order to maintain a good performance, can not open the mouth to breathe, can only be through the nostrils to breathe, in this case, who still have the mind of nonsense? According to expert determination, the amount of exercise is greater than a 100-meter race. This is something I know well. Now the reason why the body is good, and when you participate in sports dance movement has quite a relationship.