It has been remembered that a very learned, very admired uncle said a sentence: "people this life, the greatest education is to be pleasant to people", before not quite understand the meaning of this sentence, now think about what is very reasonable!
We live, basically to strangers are able to do and colorful, but only to love us people, such as our parents, but can not do this. This is why, because we are emboldened by love!
When our parents grow old, be more attentive, more attentive, more patient, and don't let them become cautious and coy. Why do parents become cautious and coy in front of us? Why do parents not dare to speak up in front of us, always wanting to stop talking? Why do parents no longer confide in us about the trivial things that happen around them?
It's all because we've changed, and we don't care to talk to them, we don't care to understand them, we don't want to take their thoughts into account. We seem to have become very powerful, not moving to the parents as a servant like call, a little bit of bad will be on the parents a burst of venting, never give them a good face. We seem to become very rich, in and out of the parents can not afford to spend the place, smoking they can not afford to buy cigarettes, with them have not seen the luxury goods, and then laugh at them is not seen the world of the bumpkin, and they do not have *** with the language. We seem to have become very complaining, complaining that our parents didn't give us a good financial foundation, complaining that they are not rich, and that we are not the second generation of the rich. Complaining that they are always nagging, complaining that the things they do and say are always not to their liking. And with all this complaining, we then made them careful and blamed ourselves, and from then on were incredibly restrained in front of our children.
However, there is nothing sadder in the world than a parent who is over 100 years old, but still has to be careful in front of their children, and still has to try their best to take care of their emotions! The root cause of all this change in them is us, and what we do makes them afraid to say what they want to say and do what they want to do.
We owe our parents the most in this life, truly love their parents, should be pleasant, from the depths of the smile, let them feel happy, happy. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on in your life! If your parents are here, there is still a place for you to come; if they are gone, there is only a way back. So, no matter what, when we reflect on it, we should be twice as good to them. Our parents have dedicated their whole lives to us, and when they grow old, how many more years can they live? And what we need to do at this moment is to be more careful, attentive and patient, so that they feel that they are still useful, so that they feel our sincerity, so that we are the best as a child's repayment, is to do the biggest accumulation of blessings!