Guizhou old man sitting in front of the door to sunbathe, was the woman roared into the house, what is the relationship between them?

Family has an old man, such as a treasure, everyone has become old, the dignity and decency of the elderly depends entirely on whether the children are filial piety, Zunyi, Guizhou, there is a thing that makes people incredibly angry, a grandmother is sitting in front of the house sunbathing, which is a woman carrying a child came back to see the old man head to head is a scolding, not only to ask the old man who actually let her out of the house, but also not help. Seeing the old man fell, not to help, but to blame the old man, how to come out how to go back? The first thing you need to do is to get out of the house and go back to the house. What exactly is the relationship between the two, we have no way of knowing, but it is speculated that the two are likely to be mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, after all, when the daughter-in-law when the gas, mother-in-law after the old, it is time to come back. But the woman also did not think, the way of heaven, the way you treat the elderly, it is likely that the children how to treat you in the future.

My mother-in-law's second aunt is 83 years old this year, basically lost the ability to live independently and self-care, but in the family there are four children take turns to take care of, can still maintain dignity and decency. You think four children's old age, is the child often accompanied by you, laughing and joking, like the "Dream of the Red Chamber" in the old lady, that's impossible, the old age of the poor family, is about the same as the time to give you a bowl of rice, on New Year's Eve to buy you a piece of clothing, so that you do not suffer from starvation and freezing, and want to be more spiritually accompanied, and want to have communication between the child and you, only if you have the money, the children have the leisure! The only way to do this is if you have the money and the kids have the time.

It is said that the more children you have, the more secure your life will be when you are old, but what I see is that the four children are shirking the responsibility of old age among themselves. Big brother said? Oops, brother big brother work is too busy, this month you will take care of two more days, right? Second brother said? Oops, big brother brother life is also very difficult, to not let big sister more care it. Big sister said? Brothers, you are not difficult sister, sister, but also to help her daughter to take care of the child, or hand over to the little sister. The little sister also have to rush to go to the square dance.

Four people are like kicking a ball, the 80-year-old mother kicked around, the old mother in such a process, y felt the world, a certain brother and sister of the four party, the eldest sister in front of the old mother and brothers said, ? You say father and mother and not much ability, give birth to so many children for what? A few siblings laughed, said the speaker, the listener has the intention, more than 80 years old mother felt very harsh, think of their own cold treatment in the past few years, a moment of thought, secretly ate the rat poison.

The old man's today is our tomorrow, in the time you carry the child on your back, so disrespectful to the old man, the child in your doings under the ear, learn by ear, grow up to become like you, and from then on will form a cycle of fate. I can only say that it is self-inflicted, no one else to blame. If you grow up to set an example and teach your children to respect the elderly and honor their elders, they will naturally grow up to be like you. Regardless of the relationship between the two, the elderly are in dire need of better treatment in society today. And people must also face up to the ideas and needs of the elderly, do not always treat the elderly as their own burden, often the rich experience of the elderly, can give us a lot of guidance, they say the words, although it does not sound, and even a lot of times are clichés, but they are there, the root is there. With them, one will always be able to be a child at ease.

Children want to raise and parents do not wait, is the world's biggest regret, I once saw a pair of 70-year-old couple in the park, in a wheelchair pushing their parents in their nineties, instantly touched by the picture, in the seven old 80, there are old people need to take care of their own old lady, this is a thing of great happiness, the parents, the parents in, the life is still there to come, the parents to go, the life of the only The first thing I want to say is that I'm not going to be able to do that.

The elderly in this society is a vulnerable group, the years are getting older, gradually lost the ability to live independently, how to make the elderly can be decent and dignified, walk through the last part of life, is the topic of everyone should think about. Nowadays, our country has become the fastest aging region in the world, and will fully enter the aging society in 2050. It is still unknown how the elderly should live by that time, whether the pension system can be sound and complete, and whether our country is well-prepared to enter the aging society. We never know what changes will come in the future, cherish yourself, but do good, respect every old man around you, as for their own future to do good.