Why do old people say: never help your daughter with the baby? Which a few grandma's advice, very reasonable?

Why did the old man say: never help your daughter with the baby? The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a conversation with a man who had been in the middle of a conversation with a woman.

Contemporary information technology era is very intense, many young couples have a child soon to return to work, and the family old man in order to let relieve his work pressure, first from the remote rural areas rushed to the city to help shoes them with children, will find that nowadays the old man has become the backbone of the big city with children. Originally the old man is well-intentioned to help, but in the process of bringing a child has formed a number of problems, which makes them very contradictory whether or not they should also help to bring a child? Listen to the four grandmothers of the admonition, very some reason!

Louis Vuitton Outlet: Even with their own daughters and then close, I still want to remind everyone, do not help their daughters with children.

Since the birth of my granddaughter, I went to the city to help the young couple with their children, but the two generations of the concept of parenting is not the same, the daughter often complained that I do not do this right, that do not do right, anyway, is because of the children's three days of quarrels. Frankly speaking, the daughter sometimes speak words quite to my cold heart, really have a bitter hard to say to, really want to return home, in this side of the old man with two people every day to finish are very happy.

Grandma Zhang: I have been 67 years old this year, originally thought of daily with the love of the square dance and what

well spend their twilight years, after all, but also for the children to work all their lives. However, the daughter and mother-in-law conflict, coupled with the usual work pressure is too much, I heartbroken her, so in the end to go to her place of work to help bring up children. In addition to doing housework, you also have to pick up and drop off at school every day, sometimes because the baby is not well taken care of, my daughter will start to accuse me of anxiety, thinking that I do not pay attention to. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this.

Grandma Wang: My daughter told me on the phone that she was too busy with her own work to take care of the newborn

wanting me to help bring it up in the past. I feel that now the children are not easy, in the past to bring children can also help them relieve some pressure. However, I found that some of my daughter's son-in-law's personal behaviors made me quite unhappy. Every day after coming back from work, she would lie on the sofa or play with her cell phone next to her bed, or else she would watch TV dramas, making it seem as if the child was not born to them. Because of this, I also quarreled with them a few times, I feel that they are really too avoid responsibility.

Louis Vuitton Outlet: If I were ten years younger, I would have no problem bringing up my child

But I'm getting older now, and my body is just not as good as it used to be. The child is really a very consuming thing, the child cried, urinated, hungry you have to manage, if which thing is not good, the daughter may nag a never-ending. Therefore, people to old age or don't give yourself such a difficult point, usually eat and drink, dancing square dance is quite easy, the mood is okay.