After all, in the past few years because of the square dance a thing has caused a lot of storm, of course, no matter how to argue, the result is? Big mom wins. Recently, the network of a square dance mom deliberately tripped over the boy's video fire, netizens have gas explosion, comment: really can not afford to mess with the big mom. Once again, the square dance ama in everyone's mind the bad image, in the end what courage to support the ama in public on such a rampage?
01. The whole thing's coming and goingBecause the weather is getting hotter and hotter, the older women have begun to travel to activities, back to their old jobs? Square dancing, and it happened in a square in Chengdu, Sichuan province. At that time, a bunch of fancy dressed amah arranged neatly, there are three or four young children in the square dance amah in the middle of the free riding scooter, one of the amah at ease to the children must go through the road, the first little boy ready to pass, amah did not reprimand, did not block, just quietly stretch out the sinful foot, deliberately mixing the wheels of the scooter.
As a result, the scooter was tossed down, the little boy fell forward due to inertia, fell to the hard lime floor, resulting in facial bleeding, teeth mutilated, the little boy was injured, the aunt was indifferent, and this whole process, the surrounding aunties also turned a blind eye, than the abuser, around the indifferent people are not equally hateful?
02. Respect for the old and love the young traditional thinking is y rooted, to promote the windThese big moms would have liked to rely on the old, after all, China revered is to respect the old and love the young. The square dance of the big moms, usually 60 years old up, if you have a thing, want to talk to these big moms theory, is simply a dream.
For example, if the square dancing affects the lives of young people, they don't think it's a big deal because the loud music is in the middle of the night, and the young people have jobs and families, and they want to find a quiet place to rest after a long day of work. If someone tries to criticize the matter, it seems like the young people don't know what's going on, and they will say, "I'm so old, can't I do a square dance? If you say more, someone will say that you are treating the elderly too cruel.
Renewal of life will often encounter the problem of giving up their seats, the young people encountered the elderly to give up their seats should be, but some of the elderly is oddly arrogant, you sit there, she will be directly with a brutal attitude to let you get up, even if she sat down, or inevitably a downfall, the key to this? The key to this is that the old man is as old as a woman. s age is also the age of a big mom. You are like dumb, after all, the whole car people look at you, anyway, this big mom is also caught? If you do not let you is not good character? The mentality of?
03. The educational background is backward, the quality of thought is not highOf course, this and the generation of the aunt is not high quality of thought also has a lot to do with, you think, their age most of the people have received a simple education, after all, when the education system is backward, the mandatory education is not yet implemented it. The uneducated amazons lived only by the collectivist and selfish utilitarian ideas they had gathered in their lives, and regarded them as their lifeist creed.
Think about it, now about the old man to help or not to help this problem, the most fundamental reason is who caused it? People, nature is good, the world is still a lot of people, see that the old man fell, most of the people sprouted the idea or want to help up, after all, who has not had an inconvenient time of action it? But it is some good-hearted people, and finally be blackmailed into the money, you can not help ah, the old man bite you, where you struggle? And this problem behind the refraction is the quality of culture can not, she just think of getting money on it, she can ever think, her practice will affect the direction of some of the values of society.
It's like you're trying to talk to an older woman, and if she suddenly has a heart attack and faints, what can you do? You still have to own up to it.
04. Evaluation of the Square Dancing AuntSquare, and is not anyone's private property, the Aunt dancing there, everyone will naturally avoid, this is respect for the elderly and love the young, but also etiquette has a way. But a child with no hands, even if he paddled there, what could he know? He is still in the process of figuring out the world, so why let the older woman trip the child up? Why can't he see that kid as his own grandchild? So sometimes it really could be that the bad guys get old.