I want to go back to the original square dance in Lhasa.

Tibet is a pure land, attracting thousands of people to make pilgrimages every year to find inner peace. Recently, however, a restless post-90s single father took his 4-year-old daughter neither by plane nor by train. Instead, I chose to ride from Dongguan to Lhasa, wading all the way, with a total length of 4 139 km and a duration of 7 1 day. After their video became popular on the Internet, many netizens expressed their support, but some netizens questioned it. My father responded indifferently: "I just want to give my daughter a valuable lesson as much as I can-persistence, and I hope this will become her life's wealth!" "

Take my daughter on a long trip and start a different trip to Tibet.

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One night in March 2020, the dining atmosphere at home turned sharply because of the phrase "I'm going to Lhasa by car". Cai Liqiu, who was still smiling in the last second, immediately put down her chopsticks and waved with a livid face: "Dongguan is so far away from Lhasa, how can I eat when I am only 4 years old?" What should I do if there is an accident? No! " Luo, who was sitting opposite, explained, "Mom, I have rich long-distance riding experience and know more about this route. You can rest assured of the safety of going for a ride. " When he saw it, he echoed: "Grandma, yes, yes, dad will protect me. I am his little baby. " While speaking, Doudou got down from his seat and went to Cai Liqiu's side, pleading, "Grandma, I want to go, so please leave me alone." Cai Liqiu gave Luo Hao a hard stare, squeezed out a smile, held Doudou in her arms, and patiently explained to her the possible dangers along the way.

In the next few days, similar scenes were staged almost every day, and the atmosphere at home was once rather depressing. However, Luo also understands that taking her daughter on the road is different from riding a bike alone in the past. He must plan carefully to ensure safety, so as to reassure his family. So, he made a very detailed route, and it was hand-painted. In addition to bicycles and necessities, he also prepared a two-wheeled trailer that can prevent wind, dust and rain, clothes for all seasons and commonly used medicines. ...

In fact, the 94-year-old father Luo has long had the idea of taking his daughter on a long trip. Luo is from Jinyun, Zhejiang. After graduating from Sanya Technical Vocational College, he settled in Dongguan and ran a private tailor clothing store on Hongtu Avenue in Chengnan District. After marriage, he had a lovely daughter. However, from 2065438 to February 2009, the relationship between husband and wife broke down, and a family of three became a single-parent family, living with their father.

In the days of a single father, Luo was both a father and a mother. No matter how busy the business is, he will spend two hours with her every day and tell her bedtime stories. Among them, "Flash Global Adventure Science Story" is Doudou's favorite. In the story, Super Flash bravely broke into the world, helped friends solve problems and gained knowledge, which made Doudou listen with relish. Several times, after hearing the story, Doudou said enviously, "If only I could explore like a flash and help my friends!" "

It is this desire to go for a ride that gave Luo the idea of taking her daughter to see the world. Helpless, business is busy at ordinary times, so my daughter's wish is put on hold. So every time I go for a drive after listening to the story, Luo Hao always feels guilty. He hopes that even if he grows up in a single-parent family, he will still be healthy, sunny and caring. ...

The wheel of time is rolling until 2020. At the beginning of the year, the epidemic spread, Luo Hao's busy business suddenly became idle, and his daughter's kindergarten was closed. At the same time, Kobe's sudden death also made him realize that life is impermanent and he should live in the present. It suddenly occurred to him that he could take his daughter on a long trip and explore the wonderful world during this time. And April 12 is her birthday, so it must be very meaningful to spend her birthday on the road. As a senior cycling enthusiast, Luo feels that riding in this way is more conducive to her daughter's perception of local customs and learning useful knowledge. He also decided to ride in Tibet, not only because Tibet is a place to wash his soul, but also because he rode to Tibet seven years ago and was familiar with the situation along the way.

So, Luo went to ask her daughter's opinion: "Baby, will Dad take you out to ride a bike for two months?" My daughter was very excited when she heard the word "play". She agreed without thinking, and couldn't wait to ask when she would go.

After receiving a satisfactory answer from her daughter, Luo told her family what she thought and was unanimously opposed by her family. They are worried: Can a 4-year-old Doudou adapt to sleeping on the road? What if I get sick on the way? What if she has altitude sickness? The strongest objection is grandma Cai Liqiu, who is going for a ride. However, looking at Luo Hao's busy preparations, she knew that nothing she said could stop her trip to Lhasa, so she had to tell her again and again that she would bring her granddaughter back safely.

In order to prevent the loneliness of the journey, Luo specially stuffed her daughter's trailer with delicious food and fun, as well as her favorite brush. In this way, on April 2, the well-prepared father and daughter set off. He said: "Maybe dad can't leave you several houses, but dad left you a good memory of exploring the world. I wish you a cool girl. "

Braving the wind and waves, you are in hell and your heart is in heaven.

Since we set out from the Pearl River Delta, endless farmland, dotted villages and towering peaks have come into view, and my father and daughter are enjoying it while riding. My father's schedule changes at any time because he is too young to go camping. Usually, I ride to the place where I can ride every day, take a rest there, take my daughter to taste the local food, wash the clothes that day, and have a good rest at night to facilitate the continuation of the next day's trip. Fortunately, the state of going for a ride is not bad. She sat in the cart watching the scenery, chatting with her father, playing with toys and eating snacks for a while, without any resistance or even enjoyment. Once, dad joked with her: "I'll buy a plane ticket to send you back." Can I ride alone? " She pouted at once, shook her head like a rattle and kept saying, "No, I want to stay with my father, and you will be taken away by the wolf alone." The adaptability of going riding ensured the smooth progress of the riding plan, and her immature and sincere words eliminated Luo Hao's riding fatigue. They are father and daughter and comrades-in-arms, encouraging each other and looking forward to the wonderful ahead.

April 12 is Doudou's birthday, and Luo told her that this car was a birthday gift from her. Walking around screaming in surprise: "Dad, that's very kind of you." She made a birthday wish that her father would always accompany her, and also dug a spoonful of cake and sent it to her father's mouth. Looking at the itinerary, I ate the cake with relish and was deeply touched. He wrote a letter to his daughter ... Happy fourth birthday. My father never knew whether you were lucky or unlucky as my daughter in your life. It is my eternal pain that my father failed to give you a complete family. Fortunately, companionship is the most affectionate confession, always accompanying you and being your patron. From a father who always loves you. "

In order to make her daughter remember this precious journey clearly when she grows up, Luo recorded every bit with her mobile phone and drone, and uploaded her itinerary to WeChat circle of friends every day. The travel diary carries a father's full love for his daughter and his life experience shared with his daughter. Countless netizens were moved by them and cheered for them!

Poetry and distance are beautiful, but the back is full of difficulties. In Honglashan, Yunnan Province, the increasing slope and bean-sized raindrops have brought great resistance to the riding of the father and the daughter. Later, I couldn't ride at all, so I had to push forward. On this day, he didn't eat any hot food and was caught in the rain. He was dizzy all the way, but he didn't see any place to stay all the way. When night fell, when I went to a small village, Luo Beihao grabbed the straw and asked me from door to door if I could spend the night. Fortunately, a kind Tibetan family took them to live in the living room for one night, which enabled Luo Hao to recover. The moonlight hit the father and daughter in the face through the window. Looking at her daughter's slightly tired face, a trace of self-blame came to my mind. He stroked her hair and asked, "Baby, are you tired?" The daughter nodded and asked, "What about you, Dad?" "Tired, hey, what if Dad can't ride?" Without thinking, the daughter said, "Stop, don't we have two feet?" ? When one foot is tired, step on it with the other. "Daughter's words let Luo Hao tired with a smile on his face. He is glad that this trip taught his daughter the word "persistence", so the hard work is worth it.

Walking on the road, the situation is constant, and puncture has become a common occurrence. Just after riding out of Funing County, the car of Luo Hao Times had a flat tire again. He looked around, in a remote place, so he had to contact a national public cycling league. Through this alliance, boss Zhao of Wenshan Panlong Stadium Car Shop drove hundreds of kilometers to support him. He was surprised and admired when he saw that Luo Hao was not alone. As a cycling enthusiast, he knows that it is still difficult to ride alone, let alone take care of a young child. With this in mind, Boss Zhao told the story of Luo's father and daughter riding in public welfare alliance. After seeing it, cycling enthusiasts praised Luo's viewpoint of raising children from an early age and never giving up. Nearby cyclists came spontaneously and supported them with practical actions. Some people brought food on the road, and some people helped them light lamps at night ... Along the way, the mountains and waters were long and the obstacles were heavy. The father and the daughter not only gained persistence, but also goodwill and friendship.

Finish your dream and your heart will shine forever.

On June 1, Children's Day, the father and daughter arrived in Basu, East Tibet. Luo was moved by the help of passers-by and wanted to pass on this kindness to more people. He bought dozens of brushes with his daughter and distributed them to the children of poor families in the local area with her daughter to teach her to share and care.

Riding all the way, the father and the daughter blew a breeze by Fuxian Lake in Yuxi, took a walk by Erhai Lake in Dali, experienced the heat in Guangdong, felt the coolness in spring in Yunnan, tasted the whole grains in Guangxi, and ate Qujiang roast duck in Yunnan ... All of them were shared online with video records, occupying all the hot search lists.

With his popularity on the Internet, some people praised Luo as a great father, while others questioned that he was purely a team hype show. For the voice of doubt, Luo Beihao explained: "The world is so beautiful, I just want to show her and teach her what persistence is." He also made a video specially, saying that if someone can photograph the evidence of the so-called caravan, just one photo will reward100000 yuan. In order to prove the innocence of the father and daughter, some enthusiastic netizens spontaneously uploaded the video of their meeting, admitting that they had no team, no hype, just a real record.

After more than two months of wind and rain, on June 12, the father and daughter finally arrived at the destination of this trip-Lhasa. Luo excitedly picked up his daughter and circled, shouting, "I did it, my daughter did it." On the snowy plateau, I saw the endless white snow of Doudou, who lived in the south since childhood, and shouted excitedly, "Dad, Dad, look, how beautiful this white world is." She ran happily in the snow, and he chased after her and asked, "What do you think is the most beautiful scenery along the way?" Around, I smiled and said to my father, "Big Snow Mountain." "No, no!" "What do you think is the most beautiful?" "It is the number that we have been insisting on over the mountains." Hearing this answer, I suddenly stopped running, thought for a while, and then continued running, laughing and enjoying a good time.

On June 18, the father and daughter returned to Dongguan. They laughed at themselves in the circle of friends: "On the road of 7 1 day, I was a little uncomfortable to drive back two planes in an hour." Someone left a message: "Regret?" He replied categorically: "I don't regret it. I took my daughter to Yinhe cram school on July1day. Even if she doesn't remember this experience in the future, when I encounter difficulties, I can still confidently tell her that as long as I persist step by step, I can reach the distance. "

After more than two months of emptying, Luo threw himself into his busy work as soon as he came back. A business partner reminded him: "You are so hot now, Tik Tok has almost 2 million fans, but you advertise your clothes and circle a wave of hot money." However, he immediately refused. He said that his initial intention of riding was to hope that his daughter could learn to persist in the hardships of the journey.

After work, Luo, a 26-year-old single father, continued to accompany his daughter to the supermarket, tie beautiful hair, cook good food and take her to the amusement park ... It seems that everything has returned to the original point, but he obviously felt the growth of going for a ride: in her eyes, the world is bigger and the idea of traveling is much more; She knows better that her father's job is not easy and will do something as much as she can. She learned to share, because sharing can double happiness. ...

A father-daughter meeting is the best meeting in my life. Luo Haoshi enjoys this wonderful time of growing up in the mountains with his daughter. He said that every year, he would take his daughter to a new place and explore the world with her, so that these footprints of love would converge into eternal light in her heart and illuminate her way forward.