80% people will yell "Go to hell! ! ! "
However, when life really comes to this, I think most people's hearts are, "No, I don't want to."
This is life's fear of death itself, but more often, things don't happen to themselves and don't attract everyone's attention.
Otherwise, why did you say not to stay up all night, but you still stayed up until dawn; If you don't smoke, you still burn out one pack after another; No, it's better to drink one cup after another.
We always think that tomorrow and accidents must come first, but life is only 30000 days, and it will be consumed one day.
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Life is only 30,000 days.
I suddenly remembered a story I saw on Weibo.
At the age of 25, you have a stable job, go on blind dates according to the wishes of your family, and then marry a good-looking person. You respect each other like guests.
The next year, you had your first child. From then on, your life began to revolve around this child. You watched him grow up and get old day by day. Finally, your children have their own families and children. At this point, you have entered the ICU and started the countdown to life.
At that time, you began to recall the good times when you were young and the people you liked, and suddenly there was a heartfelt sadness. You don't live with the person you like or the way you like.
You really want to go back to that summer many years ago and say "I like you" to the boy in white, but it's too late. You close your eyes and end this short life.
Here, the style of painting has changed again. You wake up and go back to that summer. It turned out that all this was just a dream, and you began to cheer. Fortunately, everything was timely.
But this is always just a story, and the reality is often before the turning point.
We always think that there is a lot of time, but we don't want you to waste today, which is the tomorrow that others long for.
Life is really not an endless series of numbers, it only has 30,000 days.
Just like the balance of your bank deposit and Alipay, if you use a little, you will use less. There is no way to recharge. The only thing you can do is to let it slowly consume.
Don't wait until you regret it. I didn't cherish it at first.
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Death is a forced choice.
Seeing this, some people will say, what about those who committed suicide? Don't they know that life is to live one day less?
Of course they know, but psychological trauma and illness have made them too busy to take care of all this, and all they think about is ending it.
So in fact, people who are depressed or suicidal want to end this pain instead of life, but they just can't find the way and tools to end it, that's all.
Who wants to say goodbye to this world easily when there is no other choice?
They have no choice, but you do.
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march to one's doom
In our traditional concept, people are ashamed to talk about the word "death". They think "death" is a very unlucky thing.
If we collapse as we did at first, shouting "We are going to die! Go to hell! " Case, will be angrily reprimanded.
But in fact, we should all be honest and frank about it.
Because only by understanding the "death" can we realize the "meaning of living".
Hugh, the actor who initiated a new era of Xian Xia's drama, is the best example.
A "Legend of the Sword and the Chivalrous Man", he became Li Xiaoyao in the hearts of countless people, and Li Xiaoyao also made him. According to the current words, he was the king of traffic at that time, and he was popular all over the country, and his future career was smooth sailing.
But a sudden car accident changed everything.
The almost disfigured injury not only made him unable to face that face, but also failed to face his own heart.
In the darkest days, he thought about giving up everything and committing suicide, but he survived in the end.
After "rebirth", I dropped out of school to settle down, learned life and loved life more.
The works starring him tell everyone time and again that appearance is important, but the most important thing is his essence.
Every time I review his Nirvana in Fire, I always think that if he hadn't had the car accident, wouldn't he have these excellent works today?
We don't know and don't want to know. After all, not everyone can bear the physical and mental damage caused by a car accident.
Because suffering needs more courage than death.
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The Book of Life
In the Handbook of Life Use, we talked about life, old age, disease and death.
Death is a terrible thing for ordinary people, at least for me. I can frankly say "I'm afraid of death".
But not afraid of death itself, because death is not the misfortune of the dead, but the misfortune of the living.
You can never imagine how the person who loves you the most will live or feel after you leave, so live hard.
I also want to say to those who want to die when they encounter some small things. If you are not afraid of death, why are you afraid of living? Nothing can't be solved or overcome.
Of course, for another part, that is, people who are psychologically traumatized or extremely painful, death may be their relief, but please be stronger and work harder. Maybe you'll get through today, and tomorrow will be fine.
Death is not the destruction of life, but "living" in another form in another place.
So please face up to death, please recognize that your life bank is only 30,000 days, it is not an inexhaustible number, it is a number that will dissipate step by step with your behavior.
In this limited number of places, please love yourself and cherish the people around you. When you meet something you want to do, someone you want to love and the scenery you want to see, go.
If you can't do it now, then take it as your future goal and strive to achieve it, because even if you can't do it in the end, you will find that you have become the best self at the moment and deserve to have a better self. Everything is worthwhile.
Remember to refuel every day!