Vivid people, in my opinion, probably people living a meaningful life, living through, with a broad mind humor sensibility.
First of all, you have to live a natural and simple, not pretentious, natural and transparent, sincere and genuine, crying on crying, laughing on laughing, do their own good, not because of the changes in the outside world and the fabrication, treating people sincerely and naturally, for people open and cheerful, generous and modest. Some people may change an environment, they feel unnatural, do not know how to deal with, this is extremely wrong, should maintain their own sense of reality, do not care about the eyes of others, just do yourself.
Then there should be knowledge, a lively person is bound to have traveled a lot of roads, even if they have not traveled a lot of roads, but also naturally read a lot of books. Experience is very important, knowledge is also very important, do not seek to understand the engineering Jinwen, or astronomy, geography, but is bound to be able to understand the basic common sense, intellectual understanding of some of the literature, read poetry is also a realm. Or in a certain field can be proficient also. In addition to knowledge, reading can also make people more transparent and open-minded.
Secondly, we must maintain curiosity, keep up with the times, and maintain the ability to learn and motivation. Live to learn. To maintain a curiosity to explore everything, or to humbly learn what they do not know, they need to be proficient, this society is a highly competitive society, only to continue to advance, in order to keep pace with the times. A friend once said: the only constant in the world is that the world has been changing, in order to be able to catch up with the changes of the times, not to be eliminated, only to continue to learn, and even learn to create, learn to innovate, to form their own style.
Thirdly you have to stay confident with your own principles and form your aura. Confident people can maintain their own style, although we will encounter too many setbacks, but must be self-improvement, self-confidence, firmly believe in their own strengths and beliefs, and can overcome everything, to achieve their own victory, but self-confidence is not conceited, in addition to their own self-confidence, but also the bottom line, it is more necessary to their own experience, learning to support their own unique aura. Doing things with principles, have their own outlook on life, values.
The fourth positive, cheerful and optimistic, calm as water. People don't like to be sad every day, so you have to be positive, no matter what you encounter, you should be optimistic, tolerant and calm, not to be happy with things, not to be sad.
Lastly, we must learn to humor, humor is a lot of people like, you have to be moderate, to be elegant fun, but not ironic sarcasm, difficult to ridicule. Humor can actually bring a lot of laughter to others, and life needs such a happy fruit. Humor is the embodiment of wisdom, but also the manifestation of culture, we all need some spiritual pleasure to sweeten the boring and difficult life, therefore, to have an optimistic mind, and can be humorous and lively to people and things. Humor will make you get more people's favor, and you will have more friends.