If you want to have a child yourself, you need to maintain a relaxed state of mind, and you need to have a child, and sometimes it's a matter of destiny!
The second problem, if you do not want a child and the mother and father and constantly inspired words, proposed that you talk to the mother and father, first established to explain their own state of mind, and then gradually try to persuade them, although this road is not very good, but if your state of mind to establish, at least the mother and father have a bottom of the heart they will eventually complain a sentence or two, but you do not want to have a child they do not want to have a child, but they do not want to have a child. But you don't want to give birth to them really can't do anything about it, many people in the matter of wanting a child is not too smooth, but the conclusion of most of them are very successful. There are some women in the process of the first pregnancy due to low progesterone and other factors caused by miscarriage, through a period of time to adjust the human body, and ultimately succeeded in giving birth to a physically and mentally healthy baby; I have been around a close friend of the family due to not being pregnant for a number of IVF, and ultimately won the twins baby children.
So, never give up! It is said that the completion of the marriage is the synergy of the 2 families, to have a small child is also a major event of the 2 families. In some cases, each other's moms and dads want grandchildren grandchildren can't wait more than the 2 little ones. Emotions can be understood, but certainly not let many people's voices interfere with or even ruin your emotions with your lover. Speaking of urgency, at this stage, your lover is undoubtedly the most anxious. At this moment, you have to stand steadfastly by your lover's side, accompanying her to cope with the problem together; in front of the parents, you have to maintain your wife and show your attitude. Don't forget to maintain the relationship between husband and wife in the course of diligent preparation for pregnancy, do not have to complain to each other, otherwise even if the success of the pregnancy, if the relationship between husband and wife is damaged, it is also a small loss, because of the whole process of guarding their own daily life can only be the couple with each other.
Elderly people want to have their own children and grandchildren to flourish, this kind of emotion can be understood, but you still have to gradually guide them, after all, after having a child at home after the financial pressure of work will increase, and with the baby must have a professional, you let the elderly to think about it, if you give up their old age of the time period to take the baby, they can no longer be at any time, anywhere and they are old and small friends go out on vacation! The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money for the purchase of a baby, and then you need to get a good deal of money for the purchase of a baby. At the same time the wife's work pressure should be higher than you, you should try to guide him, understand him, and then together to strengthen the exercise, together with the adjustment of the diet, to maintain a happy mood, perhaps one day have an unexpected surprise.