I am not the square dance I used to be.

My husband and I have been married for 16 years, which is an old couple. Over the past 16 years, we have supported each other, taken care of each other and lived a happy and harmonious life. However, just at the beginning of the year, there were various contradictions between my husband and me because I learned to dance square dance. Up to now, it is basically once every three days and once every five days. Because of frequent quarrels, my husband proposed to divorce me several times.

Speaking of our quarrel about square dance, we have to start from last year when our son went to middle school. Because my son's middle school is far from home, he needs to study on campus. In the past, my son was by my side, and I needed to help him with his homework or cook and wash clothes. I basically had no time to go out for entertainment or do other things.

After my son lives in school and my husband goes out to work, I naturally have a lot of leisure. Being idle at home is really boring, and even makes me feel bored and have a headache. So I decided to go for a walk in the park.

After walking in the park for a few days, I met several sisters who like to dance square dance. I joined them at their kind invitation. At first, I was shy. I couldn't dance well. Later, with the help of my sisters, I gradually liked square dance. It can be said that square dancing has brought new fun and pursuit to my life. Now that I think about it, my old life was simply boring and boring.

However, my husband doesn't seem to like me to go dancing. Since we usually dance at night, I usually go home after dancing, and my husband usually comes home from work. Because of this, my husband started criticizing me. He said that I didn't look like my wife and didn't understand him.

I don't understand. Although I came home later than him, I never delayed cooking for him, and I never didn't do housework or tidy up the house. Therefore, I don't think I did anything wrong. In addition, square dance is my hobby now, which can bring me happiness and happiness.

However, my husband doesn't understand me at all. No matter how I explain it, he just doesn't believe me. Because I still insisted on dancing, my husband actually said that I had another man in my heart. I still feel guilty in my heart. I thought it was because I danced square dance that my husband and I had a conflict.

But after listening to my husband's words, my guilt disappeared in an instant. On the contrary, I think I should stick to my hobbies and ideas, so even if my husband wants to divorce me, I will not regret it.