you're still like a child
looking forward to a
Christmas tree full of wishes
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I always thought that Iwandi and Dan were a fun couple, so I wanted to dig up some Iwandi's material.
Half an hour after sending out the message "Iwandi, I want to dig up material about you and Dan", Iwandi said "Am I going to be famous?". Let me seem to see the college days again, the passionate organization of classmates, can be serious, can be comical, and occasionally a big smile will reveal the flower of the teeth of the class president.
"First of all, how did you and Dan know each other?" How they met is actually quite clear, it's just that the details would like to be a bit more explicit.
Rocky gave me the following answer, the screenshot only shows part of it.
This boy, who I thought would become righteous and serious after work, revealed his chatterbox nature as soon as he opened his mouth.
In 2014, the Chopstick Brothers' "Little Apple" was a hit. Roadside barbershop loudspeakers, square dance in the swing, all accompanied by "you are my little ah little apple, how to love you are not too much, red face warm my heart, light my life fire, fire fire fire fire" rhythm.
At that time, it was the graduation season of the 10th grade, after eating the farewell dinner of the senior students, at the end of the time, always laugh or cry.
Suppressed emotions need to vent, late at night, fighting songs, is the Chemical Building and Geoscience Building unspoken secret.
"Geoscience, come one!" Night shift, opposite the chemical building a yell.
The leadership of the Geotechnical Engineering Department is strict, there is no dynamic, the chemical building came to the scene of self-height, the stereo released the "Little Apple".
The voice of the Chopsticks Brothers resounded through the two buildings not far from the distance.
That year, Little Apple really fire.
And a fight once broke out between Rocky and Dan, precisely because of this fiery Little Apple.
"Yeah, it's fresh in my mind!"
When I threw to the rocky brother, "you two the most strange quarrel how quarrel, I remember you told a small apple incident", rocky brother told this experience that makes him laugh and cry.
June and July, the graduation season of others, but our examination week. The comfortable environment of the main teaching building is the best place for everyone to study.
Study too long is to change the brain, Dan sister and roommates go out to the bishop downstairs air.
By magic, Dan said to her roommate, "Let XX Rock dance a little apple for you!" Roommates have expressed incredulity, Dan sister took out her cell phone, dialed the rock brother's phone "XX rock, downstairs! I'm at the bishop's door!"
The two were in love, and Rocky obediently went downstairs. Seeing not only Dan but her roommate's roommate, Rocky greeted him as usual.
"XX Rock, you dance us a little apple!"
"They are all girls, how can we dance!" Strong male self-esteem support rocky brother resistance.
The roommates were still crowding around, Dan felt frustrated, and the two of them, Rocky and Rocky, argued in front of the bishop's door.
I remember being extremely shocked when I heard about it back then, how could there be such a reason for a fight?
"Because the two of us are more like each other in character, both very tenacious, and when we encounter a lot of problems, there will be a lot of disagreement and stalemate. The two of us and quarrel, shouting, and quarrel every corner of the school."
Cafeteria, dormitory downstairs, library, classroom ...... Iwadi as counted "only you can not think, no we can not quarrel."
It is often said that "similar people together, complementary people grow old together".
It is also said that "two people are divided, and in the end, always have to be divided".
Iwandi and Dan this pair of "noisy every corner of the campus" of a pair of two stubborn cattle, after the breakup and reunion, but also really came together.
The two are in a unique way of getting along with each other.
In the second semester of her junior year of college, Dan started a micro-business, and has been working on it for nearly four years now.
After graduation, Rocky signed a private enterprise, busy, but the income is not very satisfactory.
Money, became a quarrel between the two.
Just two days before asking Yandi to dig up material, the two had a fight, and the theme was centered around Yandi making less money and having less company.
In fact, this is a multiple-choice question: "A man with a career has no time for you; a man with time for you has no career".
In his twenties, the boy just stepped out of the green campus, and became a new group of dedicated employees in society.
Completion of the transformation from boy to man, more responsibility on the shoulders. Before the family is climbing, after the family is still climbing, male competition, can stand to the tip of the pyramid of very few.
Every struggling person is climbing towards the goal, and the process is very difficult. Getting up early and going to bed late is commonplace, and the company of your loved ones has become a luxury.
Rocky sighed and reflected, "If I could treat my daughter-in-law the way I treat my clients, she would treat me especially well."
The biggest gap between the way we treat our loved ones and the way we treat outsiders is our own self-confidence.
The inner narcissism makes us feel that our loved ones are good at all costs and deserve it. For outsiders, the more they climb the social ladder, the more they realize that many times, not only money and benefits, but also meticulous care, in exchange for a little bit of connections.
That's why there is a saying that "you take care of the outsiders, and you are mean to your family".
"I always feel that we are two people, she will not be picky, but not to outsiders, outsiders will have ideas. I'll have to be nicer to my daughter-in-law in the future." Rocky reflected.
September 2, all the way noisy over the rocky brother and Dan sister married, living the days of firewood and rice, oil and salt.
Every morning, the two people have to go to their respective units to work. From the two people's nest, Iwandi driving to ten minutes away. Dan sister is farther away, to take the shuttle bus to the place to be four or five kilometers.
In the summer, when the weather is good, Iwandi will drive Dan to the shuttle bus place.
The winter in the Northeast is very cold, Iwandi acted as a guardian, Dan sister first sent to the unit, and then go to work himself.
"The whole 60 kilometers or so!" This distance took me by surprise, "after all, she can not drive."
The two have been married for a while now, and I teased Rocky "No kids na?"
Rocky said, "She has always wanted before, but I did not agree, I think she is still a child!
In front of the eyes of the two people to get married when the rock brother to Dan sister recorded a small video: grooming, a red wedding dress, waiting for the rock brother to pick up the marriage of kung fu, and the bridesmaids to play mahjong. The first time I saw this video, I was so happy that I was able to see it, and I was so happy that I was able to see it.
"But she wants it, it's on the agenda."
Asked about the most romantic thing between the two people, the articulate Rocky embarrassed up "There is really no romantic thing, it seems I have to change!
"Although she always fights with me, but there is also a girl heart ah!" Rocky added with a smile.
During the college years, it was not possible to understand the quarrelsome and fractious relationship between Rocky and Dan.
At that time, there were still unrealistic fantasies about love or marriage, thinking that companionship is deserved and sweetness is deserved. The couple that fought at every turn was an unbelievable anti-textbook at the time.
When we were young, we often assumed the happiness of others, and even now, we always speculate on the lives of others.
The moment Yandi and Dan entered the marriage hall, all of the "bad opinion" was shattered.
They are too shallow to treat love, and forget that love is not only about the long and slow flow, but also about the sweet and sour.
"In my eyes, she herself is still a child!" Rocky this let me quite touched, and envy Dan sister.
Put down a part of their own maturity, guard the innocence of the lover, together childish, laughing, quarrelsome, grow old.
The different postures of love ah, each has its own good.
BY face paralyzed teenager