Nowadays, there are many single-parent families, and those children who have lost their parents usually feel inferior and withdrawn, because they feel different from others and always feel less than others. I sympathize with those single-parent children, who are sensitive and mature since childhood. They have suffered more things and pressures than their peers. Most unhappy families are single-parent families, because they lack maternal love and fatherly love, and of course they are eager to be cared for by others.
There is a single-parent family around me, a girl, who is so thin that people feel distressed when they see it. She has a younger brother whose father has been away on business for many years, but if she doesn't tell me about her family, I really can't imagine that she has no mother, because I always think she is a lively and optimistic girl. She is a bit strange, because she doesn't like classes every time, and always likes to skip classes. The head teacher once caught her talking badly and said, you are really uneducated. Don't you have a mother to teach you? The whole class heard the girl shout at the top of her lungs: I just don't have a mother. What's the matter? You have a mother. You're great, okay? Seriously, I want to cry when I hear this sentence. She called her father and said that she didn't want to go to school, so her father quarreled with her. Later, her father came back to see her and said he was going to school. She said, I just want you to come back and see me.
Sometimes all children want is companionship, and everyone is the same, eager to be the one they care about. She has no mother. She just wants her father to accompany her, that's all. Is this a natural thing? Even if the practice is extreme, I still think she is eager for love in her own way.
Now there are many parents who want their children to succeed, their daughters to succeed, and their children to be admitted to 985, but the practice is really a bit forcing their children. I remember many news reports that a senior three student committed suicide by jumping off a building because of excessive study pressure. There are really too many examples like this. In our small county, a high school advanced placement eight times a year, which makes people feel chilling. There are many reasons, for example, parents often quarrel and divorce at home, which makes children unable to review well. Originally, the pressure of senior three was great, and this often happens at home. This made the child unable to see the future and hope, and finally ended his young life. How can such a family create a happiness index?
If parents are cheerful parents, they can understand their children and guide them correctly, regardless of their studies or first love, instead of blaming them blindly. I believe that children will become good friends with their parents.
Of course, you can't just talk about children. Parents also have a lot of pressure from all aspects of life. Going to work during the day is to give children a good life, and going home to cook at night is for children's healthy diet. Seriously, being a parent is great and selfless. Children don't communicate with their parents, and parents guide their children according to their own ideas, which is easy to produce contradictions and differences.
The happiness of a family is created by the whole family, and mutual understanding and tolerance between parents and children are essential. Going out for a spring outing or barbecue on Sunday, going out to watch a movie or playing a game at home will bring the family closer.
My father works not far from home, but he always comes back to see his mother on holidays. Occasionally buy some fresh fruits and vegetables or fresh toys to amuse my mother. My father will call my mother a goddess when she is sad, treat her like a child, and then completely ignore our astonished expression. Dad will dance square dance with mom, dad will eat pickles cooked by mom, and dad will dislike her out-of-shape figure.
Of course, my parents will cook a lot of delicious food after school. On Sunday, we will go to grandma's house to play. Grandma will give me pocket money to buy things, which is my happiest thing. They never give me pressure to study, but they will tell me that if we don't study hard, you won't be able to eat delicious food when we are old, so you should study hard and I will work hard for my own delicious food. Every time I am at school, I hope to go home soon, because there are parents at home, which is happiness.