They believe that men who have experienced a failed marriage will know more about how to run a marriage, and will know more about how to cherish a marriage, so they will be more sought after in the second marriage market!
Is that really true?
Do second marriage men think the same way? If so, then it can only be said that they deserve not to find a date!
What are the main considerations for a man in a second marriage? This is the first time I've ever seen a man with a second wife, and I've never seen a man with a second wife!
Half of them are second marriages without children. The other half are second marriages with children.
Let's take a look at the childless ones first, and what they had to say.
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A: divorced 2 years, 29 years old
"Mainly consider the character aspect of it, the most important thing is that the two people get along, the two people of one heart, mutual tolerance and understanding, the days can go on, but also to live a better life, rather than two days a small noise three days a big noise, every day for the chicken skin thing The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation.
B: divorced 1 year, 29 years old
"Want to find a woman who can accept my past, once I am a more playful person, often and friends everywhere to have fun, not home. Perhaps because of this reason, group my ex-wife is good with others, but when I regret it, want to make amends to salvage, but found it too late. The failure of this marriage, but also let me reflect on the way to run a marriage. So, if I meet the right her, I will confess my past to her, and if she is willing to follow me, then I will treat her well."
C: Divorced for 3 years, 32 years old
"I can't have children, and my ex-wife and I got divorced because of this reason. Therefore, looking for a future partner, I do not dare to expect any conditions, as long as the other party does not mind me, willing to live a good life with me, even if it is with children, I am also happy."
D: divorced 2 years, 31 years old
"Find a less concerned about the economic conditions of the bar, willing to be down-to-earth, and strive to live their own days, rather than all day to take their husband and this than and that than."
Next, there are the ones with children, both children on their own and on their ex's side!
A: divorced for 5 years, 34 years old, with a daughter
"Divorced for so many years, and did not find a suitable. I've been on a couple of dates, but then they all fell through because I was with my son. I just hope to find a willing to accept my child, good treatment of my child, age and looks do not matter, second and third marriages do not matter. After the marriage, and do not have children with me also does not matter, of course, I still hope to have a child belonging to us with me, so that the marriage relationship will be stronger."
B: divorced 6 years, 37 years old, parents to help bring up a son and a daughter
"Own are second marriages, but also a handful of years old, the family condition is not good, the so-called on the old and the young, are relying on their own to raise a person. The good thing is that my parents are able-bodied, helping me with two children. I do not dare to hope to find a partner, even if you find, but also want to find a second marriage, the best is also with children of the kind, think this is fairer to each other. After all, I'm a big old man, can not think of finding a yellow flower girl."
C: divorced 4 years, 35 years old, with a son
"The main consideration is whether she is suitable to be a stepmother, after all, it is difficult to be a stepmother, not every woman is willing to be someone else's stepmother. So there are a lot of things to consider, once you can't handle these relationships well, it's still yourself and your child who will be sad in the future. Also, I take my son, daughter in my ex-wife's, the child's mother will bring her daughter to visit the child on New Year's holidays. I hope my future object, can also understand the feelings of a mother."
D: widowed for 5 years, 42 years old, a son and a daughter
"It is said that the young and old couples are old and old, the old partner is gone, and the child is an adult with his own world. If you meet a kindred spirit, you want to enjoy your old age with her, walk together in the morning and square dance together in the evening. But it all depends on fate, forced not to come, but also depends on the children."
It is not difficult to find that there are no children, ready to second marriage of the man, consider more may be the character, personality aspects.
And men with children, will think more about the children, will always put the children in the first place.
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What do you think? What do you think? What would a man in a second marriage mainly consider when looking for a partner?