Why did you use the word "carefully"? As a housewife, she washes and cooks for her husband and son every day, and keeps the house well organized. She doesn't watch TV, doesn't listen to the radio, doesn't dance, and listens to the Buddhist scriptures and recites Amitabha every day. I really admire her determination from the bottom of my heart. However, this is also the root cause of our inability to get along properly.
She taught me that women are three from four virtues and men are heaven. My job just need to be easy, the most crucial thing is to take care of the family. The most important thing is to take care of the family. In fact, it is also true that one of the two sides of the couple's division of labor is bound to take the family as a priority. I graduated from graduate school and returned to my hometown, looking for a low-paying easy job, longing for the future can make delicious meals and clean up the house as a good wife and mother. Although my ex-husband and I got a license, we agreed to renovate our new house this year, and we have been living in our own home. Almost two years after graduation, the current work is too idle income is too low, nearly a year will occasionally submit a resume interview. Former mother-in-law to see me like this, she said: women give birth to a child to take care of their husbands and children can, but also to find what good job? The first thing you need to do is to look for a good job, a good company will want you?
The first half of the sentence, I do not do defense, this is her heart firmly believe in the concept of female virtue. The second half of the sentence, why with discrimination demeaning? I undergraduate graduate school 211, in a second-tier provincial capital city with a monthly salary of three thousand after tax, to support themselves is no problem, but such income, want to give themselves and their parents a better life is simply not possible. I admit that my work ability is not outstanding, before I have not really started a family, I freely choose my job, the interview did not succeed this is my own experience ah, I did not ask for any of their help, why do you want to hit me? Taking an income below the social level, my heart is bitter ......
My ex-mother-in-law said that I should talk to my neighbors less, and if I am not careful, I will be guilty of mouth karma. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that. I and my ex-husband cold war for six months, my parents have never said a bad word about their family, have always been persuaded to make peace, said I was capricious. And my ex-mother-in-law said me: sweeper?
The cause of the cold war was a bed bought on double eleven. My ex-husband and I chose a bunk bed in the second bedroom, we are both only children, my parents want us to have two. When we purchased the bed online, there were no on-site measurements, and when the physical item arrived, we found that one of the drawers in the installed cabinet did not open fully and the bottom most space was not functioning properly. Installation of my ex-husband and I at work, the former mother-in-law to receive the goods, she watched the scene of the installation of the master to install the beds, all the packaging thrown away, hurriedly called my ex-husband said to return this bed, too crowded to do hygiene in the future is not good to do. That night we went to the new room to see the installed bed, the space between the cabinet and the bunk bed is indeed smaller. I said to my ex-husband that I really like the bunk beds, anyway, after the hygiene is my well, I can accept, can you persuade the former mother-in-law. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I think I'm going to be able to.
After this meeting, my ex-husband and I met again four months later about to divorce. I've been in love with my ex-husband since high school, and I've been separated from him for a long time. Eleven years of youth, once the sea, I really thought we love each other enough, I can't think of the last defeat in this bed. Through the phenomenon to see the essence, from this bed thing I realize, in the eyes of the former mother-in-law, I have been low ex-husband first class.
The former mother-in-law said two times in front of me, the neighboring women have money and buy houses and decoration. She asked her ex-husband what was wrong with finding a rich woman. I said to my ex-husband, I'm so ashamed, and did not contribute to the house and renovation money.
What really broke me down is that my ex-husband asked me, in the eyes of others, I deserve him? The one who proposed to me is you, the one who promised to take care of me for the rest of my life is you, the one who said he would love me forever is you. We had a cold war and got divorced, my ex-mother-in-law said I was a spoilsport and got divorced over the holidays. My ex-husband did the same and counted me as a spoilsport in front of me. We are engaged, the bride price is given by your family, our family has not asked for anything, we cold war, ex-mother-in-law said to my mother, in XX which daughter-in-law to give so much gift money? Similarly, my ex-husband said to me, your bride price is really expensive?
Neither my ex-husband nor I wanted to have a wedding, and my ex-mother-in-law said that it was a six-way tie and that it would be retribution for my son.?
When it comes to the wedding, I asked if I wanted to talk to my mom about whether to prepare anything, and maybe the customs on both sides are not the same. The first time I saw this, I was able to see the woman's face, and I was able to see the woman's face, and I was able to see the woman's face, and I was able to see the woman's face,louboutin pas cher.
In the "I" and "mom", the ex-husband chose "mom". The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey. The former mother-in-law and my mom said, "My son is very filial, even if I do, he will not say anything.
My mom and dad are career workers, a life of thrift and frugality, and our family lives a simple and honest life. I thought I was married to love, but love really isn't a two-person thing. To be divorced, the former mother-in-law asked her ex-husband, to buy me a bag will not return? Well, I returned it. I also returned the bride price also returned the jewelry also returned the expensive gifts, also returned the former mother-in-law's heart of the bag.
On the night of the 23rd, the cell phone looped "I paid for the youth so many years", my mother hugged me to cry to the shaking. The first thing I'd like to talk about is the fact that I'm not sure what I'm talking about, but I'd like to know what I'm talking about. Shanghai is not a place to go back to. In addition to mom and dad I did not tell anyone the news of my divorce, hometown, I still have the courage to look at the familiar scene every day to stay down? I don't know what to do in the future, 26 years old.
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