I spoil you and love you. I can take your place. What do you mean?

Even if you don't spoil or love you, you can give these favors to others, perhaps because you are a little arrogant and tired of you. And I think people who say this have a strong sense of male chauvinism, a strong sense of dominance and superiority in this relationship, and regard each other as their own accessories, even pets. In short, this relationship is very unequal. At least emotionally unbalanced.