What to do? If you still have a little conscience, please let her go, since the divorce has been divorced, don't bother her anymore, every month to pay the living expenses to her card is enough, if you really don't want to pay the living expenses, then make sure that you don't bother her again, this is the most basic bottom line.
(a) I'm glad your ex-wife is finally out of her miseryFirst of all, the fact that you can still verbally abuse her during her monthly period shows that you're not a thing, and your behavior is no different than cheating during pregnancy, just as bad and disgusting.
She is carrying your child in her stomach, you as a man can not understand the pain of labor and delivery in October, but still can curse out of the mouth, showing that you are not only not something, and do not love her.
Since you don't love her anymore, you should simply let her go and give her a piece of freedom, so that she can find her true happiness.
She married you and gave birth to a child for you, which means that she still has some expectations for you; now her expectations have all been drained by you, and she has no choice but to get a divorce.
As a man, you no longer have a man's responsibility; as a husband, you have lost the qualification of being loved by his wife.
She has given you a child and given you enough, so don't think about asking for anything more from her.
Do not do unto others what you would not have them do unto you, just as you are not satisfied with her, she is equally dissatisfied with you, the reason why you scolded you, may be because of too much love for you, may be already made up their minds to divorce, but no matter which, she is the victim, you are the one who profited.
Her youth and energy have all been given to you, people should learn to be content.
Because pregnancy and childbirth is a very stressful, physically and psychologically tortured thing, the wife deserves her husband's love and care during this period.
You not only failed to do this, but also added a heavy pressure and humiliation, so I can only say that she divorced you is extremely wise move, at the same time, but also grateful that she has been out of the misery.
Think of you in the month can still scold her, can imagine in the usual you are more on her scolding, she endured so long about the child, now the child has been born safely, she should be out of this dark cage.
So let go, let her go, don't drag her back to the sea of suffering.
(2) I'm glad that your ex-wife still knows how to fight back and didn't continue to endure humiliationThe marriage you gave her has suffocated her, and the fact that she endured such harsh conditions for so long shows how resilient and tenacious she is, and I'm glad that her resilience and awareness wasn't completely eroded by the marriage, or at least, she still knows how to fight back.
Divorced, she is like a bird breaking free from its cage and bravely going after her own sky.
Such a woman out of marriage and men will certainly find their own true happiness again, after all, she is brave, courageous, and endurance, for the mother is just.
How many women like her, still in the grave of the marriage of the bitter aggression, struggling, holding a "wife" nameplate can not see the way forward, can not see the light, to keep the chicken hair, rice, oil and salt life, in the years and the world little by little to be worn out mentally.
So your ex-wife is a brave and great woman, who dared to fight, defied the odds and did not lose herself.
You should be proud of yourself, proud that you once had the youth of such a wonderful woman; at the same time, you should also repent, repent of all those disgusting things you did after marriage.
Of course, the most important thing you should do is to let go and return her freedom for the rest of her life.
As for the child, if she wants it, you must give it to her unconditionally, and then divide the property equally, and give the two of them living expenses every month; if she doesn't want it, you'd better do your best to raise the child properly, so that he can grow up to be a good adult, which is considered to make up for the mistakes.
Of course, you will most likely find a new wife again, just hope that you do not scourge a woman once again.
(c) Never go back to herUnless you have been certified as normal by major celebrity doctors and marriage experts, and you still can't get over her for seven years after the divorce, and you pay enough to cover your living expenses every month, on time and on budget, don't go back to her and force her to come back.
She's had enough of your abusive torment during the month, so don't pester her after the divorce. If you just can't stand the thought of not having her keep house for you anymore, then you better go pay for a nanny.
If the kids are hers, you'd better go through her first when you want to see them, and if you feel that your kids aren't close to you, that's normal, don't blame her for being heartless, because you were heartless first.
If the child goes to you, be sure to take care of his health, especially his mental health, and stop transferring the suffering of her mother to the child, after all, the child is innocent.
And don't fulfill your own selfish desires in the name of the child, don't use the child as an excuse to bind her, she loves the child, and maybe still loves you, but she herself is a living human being, there is no reason to be bound by you for the rest of your life just because of a child.
All in all, let go, let her go, and let yourself go.
There is no need to keep a hard life without feelings, and there is no need to be whitewashed because of the child, the so-called one parting, each life is happy, love when together, do not love when separated, do not let the marriage is full of hate.
(d) marriage is not only the immediate metropolis, the same can have poetry and farawayThe formation of a marriage is a variety of, some people married for love, some people married for the sake of interest, some people to seek a companion to marry, there are people married to the world ...... and no matter what kind of phenomenon, will ultimately come back to the calm and flat or even tasteless.
But why is it that there are always people who can be in love forever and keep the marriage hot in the worldly fag?
Because they have responsibility, they have responsibility, they know how to understand and trust, and their hearts are at home.
The famous showbiz model couple Deng Chao and Sun Li, the two have been married for many years, the marriage has been stable and happy, in the fluctuating showbiz is really rare.
But there have been a lot of rumors and gossip about the couple, and Sun and Deng have never cared about these rumors.
Sun Li is a kind of woman - she is tough, far-sighted, persistent and powerful; and Deng Chao, on the surface, seems to be inane, in fact, the inner very reliable.
Two people can maintain this marriage, obviously pay the bear and understanding is huge.
Marriage may make people tired, but the responsibility to bear and understand the care can also create a period of poetry and far away for the marriage.
People are social animals, and a good marriage can give them the best comfort in life.
The same is the monthly sitting, if you to her more warm, help her to take care of the baby, care of her postpartum condition, then she will willingly continue to do the rest of your life as a nanny.
Women are like this, her love is very selfless, you give her three points of love, she will willingly return you seven points.
And can be in the monthly period of random abuse wife, shows that a man has no commitment, do not know how to understand, the heart has not been at home on.
Such a man is still worth the wife to continue to keep and pay? Of course it's not worth it.
So your ex-wife divorced you is a normal reaction, if she does not divorce you, sooner or later there will be problems.
The above is what you should do, get it.