When a daughter-in-law teaches her husband to do something in front of her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law will feel uncomfortable, and her baby son will be taught by her daughter-in-law, so a smart daughter-in-law will try to praise her husband in front of her mother-in-law, so that her mother-in-law will be happy and she will get along with her mother-in-law easily.
Second, it is right to be filial to your mother-in-law.
Although your mother-in-law didn't raise you, she raised your husband, so since you love your husband, you should understand your son's feelings for his mother, respect his mother with him, and you also have parents. Will you be happy if your husband talks back to your parents? So give your mother-in-law a smile and chat with her more. You are good to his mother, and he will be good to your mother.
Third, learn from your mother-in-law seriously.
As the saying goes, ginger is still old and spicy. This makes sense. If your mother-in-law cooks delicious food, you should praise her and say that you should learn to cook from her mother-in-law. While praising her mother-in-law, she also improved her position at home. This must make the old man very happy. But then you have to do something, that is, really learn to cook from your mother-in-law.
Fourth, listen to my mother-in-law.
Every old man wants someone around him to listen to him, especially his mother-in-law who has no wife. The old man is nagging. If you can calm down, have a cup of tea with her and listen to her, her prejudice against you will be much less. And listen sincerely, if necessary, attach: "Mom, you are really not easy, you must be filial to you." Something like that.