What to do when you don't reap the rewards of your efforts?

Don't fool yourself, the so-called pay no return, just because you pretend to be very hard!

Wen/Yangjiaofeng

One,

A friend contacted me some time ago: "Yangjiaofeng, I heard that you are writing an article, but also have money to earn, I would like to write, you teach me."

So I hand in hand to help her to register an account, and then pay attention to her, and every day to help her share the hotspot, to help her think of the topic, and then wait with anticipation for her to send the article. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this.

However, a month has passed, and in addition to shouting a few times in the circle of friends, with a picture of herself sitting in front of the computer and typing, saying that she has been working hard for three hours to write an article tonight, she actually sent two articles, or the kind of very childish articles, and of course, the number of readers is also very low.

Then at the end of the month, complained to me, saying how hard they are, how hard they work, how hard they write articles, why there is no number of views, why can not turn positive?

She felt very aggrieved, she sacrificed a month of off-duty time, others are watching TV, playing games, including Yangjiaofeng I also chatting on WeChat ah chat, only their own wholeheartedly write the article, in the end, the sky is so unfair, Yangjiaofeng half an hour to write the article, than her hard work a week time to write, check out the many times, the quality of the article reads a very high number of high, on what grounds? Even suspected that she had been unlucky lately and was going to burn incense and worship Buddha!

Two,

I also have a friend, a little fat, in fact, in front of the heavyweight Yang Jiao Feng, are too small witch! But she thinks she's too fat and needs to lose weight!

I have observed her friend circle for nearly a year, almost every week, shouting that they need to lose weight, I've seen her with running photos, of course, not forgetting to mark the number of mending; I've seen her jump rope photos, of course, will also mark how long has been jumping; I've seen her gym photos, of course, not forgetting to envy her fitness trainer. I've also seen many of her statuses, none of which indicate that she's losing weight.

When she goes to work, she squats in the corner to lose weight, when she gets off work, she follows the dance to lose weight, and at night, she even follows the square dances of the amazons to lose weight, she chooses the most nutritious and non-fattening food when she eats, and she only drinks lemon tea with her water.

Even so, she still gained weight day by day.

She also complained that she had worked so hard, how could she not lose weight? The world is so unfair, people eat and drink all the time, I drink some cold water are long meat!

Only those who are familiar with her know that almost all of her weight-loss photos and actions are just in the circle of friends, but in reality, she is lazy and can't be any lazier, snacks a lot, bought a yoga mat, and now the plastic film has not been removed yet.

Three,

I also have a friend, every time with him about time to eat together, he is always busy working overtime, his circle of friends state all at work.

Morning early in the morning on the way to work still do not forget to contact customers; noon time often busy forget to go to the cafeteria to eat, can only call a variety of takeout, do not forget to match and busy work forget lunch; off duty also still in the office overtime, do not forget to match the office to look at the starry night sky and the lights flashing high-rise; back to home is also busy at work, do not forget to match in the early morning to the home, to continue to work, full of confidence, to give I'm so confident, I'm cheering for myself, I'm so convinced, how can I be so energetic?

The morning circle of friends is always like this, last night is another all-nighter, three cups of coffee, a copy, the morning rush to catch the car late. Then there's the traffic jam so annoying that it affects work efficiency, or the project is due soon and must be completed today no matter what.

Even though he was busy like this, he still didn't forget to send a funny video in the group from time to time, flirting with the little sister in the group from time to time, and even observed the progress of the project he sent out to write for three days in a row, with just a little bit more words per day.

Finally, the end of the month to get a bonus, and complain, so hard only so little bonus, next month more hard to do!

Four,

My circle of friends there is a rich lady, she traveled abroad did not forget to bring a book, and did not forget to send a circle of friends: even if you travel abroad, you must always be charged oh.

On the steps of ancient buildings abroad, she sat down to read a book of beautiful photos; beach sunshine when she lay down to read a book of beautiful photos; in the car when she opened the window and blew her hair to read a book of beautiful photos; even in the hotel to rest on the bed of her to read a book of beautiful photos.

When she returned from her trip, the book still looked so new, and the cover still had traces of sunscreen that she had accidentally stuck on it, and of course, the last friend's circle was: "Traveling is not forgetting to recharge my batteries, and I've been fully charged"!

Similarly she bought running shoes and night running gear, which is also barely used! The daily mantra is to open a coffee shop, in preparation for a coffee shop, but three years later, still shouting slogans!

Five,

The friend who shouted every day to write articles with me, suddenly looked at my number one day, surprised and could not open his mouth: you have written more than 200 articles?

The friend who lost weight every day in the circle of friends saw my face one day, oh my God, you have lost so much weight!

The friend who worked overtime every day in the circle of friends, finally resigned, finally had time to have dinner with Yang Jiao Feng, he felt that I even had time to write articles, but also to do their own job so well! Unbelievable!

The rich lady, in the end, did not have the opportunity to meet, because she took a few more unopened books, out of the country!

Stop kidding yourself, we can't always live in the circle of friends, get a move on, these aren't for others, you're just pretending to work hard so how can it pay off?

There are two best times to work hard in the world, one is ten years ago, the other is now, JUST DO IT!

My name is Yang Jiao Feng, more over wonderful please pay attention!