Even now, I still don't know why there are always people who say "the post 90s is the Beat Generation".
The post-90s are in one of the most awkward years.
They escaped a decade of turmoil, wars of all sizes, technological advances, and a relatively good education.
But compared to the 00s and 10s, who are still exposed to what they call a top-notch education, the 90s have already begun to survive the waves of society.
Started to struggle at the time of the highest housing prices,
In the workplace by the boss angry but do not dare to resign,
Suffer from a variety of social misconceptions of the post-1990s: petulance, defeat, low moral character,
Request for resignation after being treated unfairly, it will be regarded as can not bear the pain,
and even a lot of companies are not very willing to recruit the post-1990s.
We work hard to make a living, we work alone in other countries, we cry at night, and then we get up in the morning and we are full of energy;
We pay a high mortgage just to have a place to live in a city;
We treat everything with the best attitude, even if it brings us inconvenience.
Society misunderstands the post-90s well enough.
Nowadays, the first batch of post 90s has already lived the "health" life of the elderly, wearing warm pants and starting to drink red dates and wolfberries.
However, the first batch of 90 after the age, began to be urged by their parents to get married, as long as the age, will be a variety of seven aunts and eight aunts of the organization of the blind date surrounded, and even a lot of their own conditions of the girl can only match the second marriage of the man.
Then we resisted, refused with their own tough attitude, will be countered: "Look, you're so old, but also so picky, in the future can not find someone to marry to do?"
I can't help but feel sad that we have spent so much time perfecting ourselves for the sake of marrying someone we don't like and who is not as good as we are in every way.
I love Shu Qi's quote in "The Leftovers":
"Being single will kill me,
If I don't get married, I'll be sentenced to jail,
This society has discriminated against me y enough,
You don't go to question the world,
but also discriminate against me together with them! "
There's a lot of social naysaying against the post-90s, and it makes us a little breathless.
Jitterbug had a video a while ago that was very hot, and one of the paragraphs left a deep impression on me, "We post 90s are already old, please see this video of the children who see us on the bus in the future, can give us a seat."
Some sarcastic words, the 90 after do not know how to be polite not to the elderly pregnant women to give up their seats, no upbringing, as if it is also the public to the post-nineties labeled.
Ask yourself, most of the 90s will comply with the morality of giving up their seats, yet what have we got? Sometimes not even a word of thanks, or even once or twice due to physical discomfort did not give up the seat will be criticized by the whole society.
Even with all the misunderstandings, we don't have square dancers, we don't have workshops, we don't have bumper stickers, and we're still living a positive life.
We are already old after 90, I hope society can give us more kindness.