What does it mean when a bride stands on a stool and bounces at a wedding, and netizens say, "I feel sorry for his husband"?

Netizens this is that the groom married an experienced wife, think the groom a little poor . This is a video on the Internet, the video of a bride in their own wedding with friends and family bouncing and blowing bottles, such a move for many straight men's cancer, is very indecent. Therefore, many netizens deliberately said that their hearts go out to her husband. The truth is that the bride is experienced, not "pure" women.

01, watching the netizens

First of all, netizens just saw the video, and do not really know the bride and groom, and do not understand what kind of person the bride is . They just rely on their own shallow insights to determine the character of others. This kind of mentality is very selfish. Originally, people couples feel that this is quite good, hot and lively, the groom also feel very happy. By the netizens so, the groom may feel aggrieved.

02, conservative and traditional thinking of the netizens

In most people's impression, the bride should be beautiful, generous, dignified, definitely not a woman who can blow up bottles and bouncing in their own wedding. But, this is the traditional impression. Times are different, more and more people are influenced by various cultures, for example, bouncing on the wedding, in fact, it is the same as foreigners have a party when they get married, dancing and drinking at their own wedding party is a normal thing. It's just that some people don't have the means to accept such a culture and are conservative in their thinking, and that's why they commented so much about the couple.

03, the influence of stereotypes

Girls who smoke, drink and bungee jump are bad girls. Such a stereotype affects an unknown number of people, thus impressing most people's judgment. It is not true that girls who drink, smoke, and bungee jumping are bad girls. Bouncing, formally speaking, is nothing more than moving square dancing inside a bar. Drinking and smoking, males do it too, yet very few people say that men who drink and smoke are bad men. And it's stereotypical to be so hard on women. So this bride who merely bounced and drank at her own wedding is having her character questioned by some netizens.

That's why netizens say that their hearts go out to her husband. In fact, it's all just their own one-sided judgment.