As a Libra, born in the fall, melancholy is inherent - although you can not see a sad face in front of the Libra, and even many people think that the Libra is a big grinning thick line. Libra is too good at camouflage, or rather, do not want to let people who do not know themselves too much to know their moods .
This is especially true in love. Libra's love is always like a secret love: when there is a good feeling, hear each other's name, see each other's figure, there will be a different kind of feeling, but they will be very restrained not to show. Even if there is a chance to be together, in the crowd, Libra and who are talking and laughing freely, affectionate, but only to their own care of the person, far away, only with the afterglow feel his presence. His expression, a word, all in the Libra heart caused ripples. The result of doing so is often to seek close and get far away. But there is no way, Libra is so unable to overcome their own instincts. In the face of a favorite person, will be inexplicably inferior to shyness. In fact, the scales are very good at getting along with the opposite sex, since childhood, there is no lack of buddy-like friends. However, to their favorite person, she can not do that free. Even if you just take the initiative to say hello, you will be nervous that the other party will not see through their own mind. Libra is looking forward to love, but also afraid of the power of love will be dragged into the abyss of the never-ending.
Even if the two people eventually fell in love, Libra still showed more than calm, not enough enthusiasm, she will think of you at any moment, the weather changes, randomly encountered what people or things, the thought of a flash on the turn to your body to go. She will think about your good or bad at night, happy or sad silent tears. She will put herself in your shoes and think a lot, even think too thoughtful even you can not think of thoughtful. She will find a variety of excuses for one of your mistakes, before questioning you have forgiven you, but still want you an explanation, a simple reasonable or unreasonable explanation can easily let her release. She will hesitate for a long time to call you or send a text message, for fear of disturbing you or making you inconvenient and impatient. She will imagine countless beautiful scenes together, immersed in which can not get out of the way.
But all this, she will not let you know. Libra does not lack the energy to love, but lacks the courage to love. Or if there's one thing Scales can't do for you, it's give up self-respect. Self-esteem is Libra's last bastion of life and death **** survival. Libra looks cheerful but is actually delicate and heavy-hearted . All her life she has been waiting for the one who really understands her feelings. How excited she is that you're here; yet, she can't believe that person is really you. She waited so long and so hard that she was desperate. So when that person showed up, she panicked and lost her mind instead. She didn't know how to choose between a passionate lover and an elegant woman; which one do you prefer? She kept asking herself. On the one hand, she also kept asking herself: will I lose myself by doing this? Will he like me like this? If she does not like, how do I be myself?
Such a complex and strong emotions, you will not really appreciate. Libra cover up so well, will only smile at you, even if the tears, but also quietly, will not cry episodes. If there is hurt, she will be a person repeatedly recall, until in the pain of repeated experience in the loss of pain sensitivity, and then forgive you, continue. She is not big on condemnation, not big on shifting blame, she will always take the fault first on her side. Even attribute it to the defects of their own personality. Libra's low self-esteem in love compels her to love in the dark. She is afraid that you know her "bad", her self-righteous bad. She is also afraid that you will be sad for her, and that it would be better for her to suffer alone. Maybe hurt to the end, the scales find themselves unable to withstand, she will quietly walk away, despair and collapse, will not let you see, even if her pain to the extreme, you see, is still a calm scales; at best, some indifference. That indifference may not be directed at you, most likely, is directed at love.
The scales know, the most can not afford to lose, is the feelings. Delivery up, is a little bit, a drop, until the fall; broken, but the building is crumbling, the sky is dark. She understands any worldly and humble psychology in human nature, and she is afraid that her tender love will become the prey of these ugliness. ----- This is the scale, even if hurt, she will still attribute the fault to the weakness of human nature, and will not, really hate. You see her faintly come, faintly go, but do not know, her heart silently broken into what.
The love of the scales is like a movie on stage, they are in the play, watching it from the beginning to the end. The end is not scary, what scales care about is that they made a movie.
The scales do not like to fall into the cliché of love. People who have loved with the scales, perhaps looking back, do not know how to evaluate that scales. Love when it is light, leave the time is also light, and even, even the reasons for breaking up do not bother to ask. If a scale in front of you once fell tears, you will never think of her behind the scenes have cried for you countless times.
The scales of love some autistic. They like to be entangled in memories, fantasies, those broken images mean integrity for them. In fact, do the scales of the lover is really easy, you do not have to deliberately to arrange what romantic occasions, you do not have to do anything. Because, scales have a romantic heart. As long as there is love in the heart, and then ordinary and ordinary things are also beautified by them.
Libra's heart is really very gentle. This kind of tenderness is never the kind of delicate and pretentious, but has a sensible heart. Scales know how to respect others, this is not a human cloud, in fact, the scales do not have so much curiosity to care about everyone's ideas, to their own do not care about people, and why should be more serious? This is the way of the scales to be a human being. And for their own love of people, their words and deeds scales will be used as a "bible".
The scales like to drill the bull's-eye, yes. Once they fall in love with a person, it is difficult to trust their own intuition. They will catch the other side of a sentence, a move, and then secretly poor analysis, until they come to the most sure answer. Of course, their conclusions are relatively objective, scales will not be stupid enough to blind themselves. However, I don't know that the most difficult to measure under the sky is the human heart, and like to guess the heart of the scales are often exhausted by themselves.
Love is a person's business. The scales certainly have a lot of feelings about this sentence. Love, but instead of lonely, because want to give themselves to a person to understand, but this person understand? It's not worth it. In the face of the scales in front of the eyes of this if the separation, mysterious and calm, who would have thought that their hearts are rising in the dark. On the contrary, people who are in love with scales will suddenly stop one day and want to give up. There are only two reasons for this: first, they feel insecure. Can't figure out the scale's thoughts, and the heat is not enough, lukewarm. To know the world's thousands of mundane people, perhaps they know you in the first day to think of sleeping with you, and scales expect love is first to be built on the spirit, beauty, fantasy space. So, part ways. The second is to feel the love of the scales is a kind of burden, because the scales of love can not tolerate a grain of sand. In fact, the scales of the favorite is and their own over, but, people can never go beyond is their own. The scales of this knot old can not be opened.
They were born to understand the charm of "tragic art", their love without a little tragic color, as if it is not perfect. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do it! Although, the scales of the pursuit of happiness, but they also like to cocoon. Lost love scales, often will not look for any good way to forget, on the contrary, they will find out all the love songs to listen to, so that they are immersed in them can not pull themselves out, until they can not hold out until.
Perhaps, only the kind of love that has gone through the ups and downs of the past and the way to the end of the nine hundred and eighty-one difficulties is what they are most eagerly looking forward to. Therefore, if there is no little "weight" of feelings, scales will sometimes "distraction".
The scales are like this, love to later do not know what they love, cold and warm know ......
Many people hate the scales, said the scales are elusive, unpredictable, the most will be a peace old. In fact, just they do not understand the scales, God's mistakes make the scales become the saddest constellation, but the goodness of the scales are simple to make people feel lovely. So don't ponder the scales, try to understand the scales you will fall in love with them.
People who fall in love with the scales should not be confused, we are a group of insecure children, so we escape, we panic, if you really love your scales, you can give her what you can give her your greatest sense of security to her, and in the end, you will find that fall in love with a scales is how happy!