Love your husband like a son, love your wife like a daughter, this is a tip for the marriage relationship.
If you look at your husband as a son. The son, who comes in with his shoes on, steps everywhere, and even goes to bed without taking off his shoes. After you take a look, you will at most give your son a glare, and you won't be angry for long. But if it is your husband who does this, you feel especially angry. Is it easy for me to clean the house? Can't you see how tired I am? If you don't help, you're destroying everything. Then began to turn over all the time, since we got married, how many times my husband is not right for me, not one down, all back again, is the complaining woman mode out. In fact, when you can love your husband as much as you love your son, you will also laugh it off, and there is really no conflict between you. Because you grow up, you feel grown up, you feel like an adult, see that is just the husband embodied the side of the child, you will not be angry.
The same with loving your wife like a daughter. See your wife as a little girl like, every woman's heart lives a little girl, there will be a hope that there is a brother and father to spoil themselves, she hopes that her husband is to be able to do so to spoil themselves, to be able to take care of themselves. When you are able to love your wife as a daughter, pamper her as a daughter. When she completely trust and entrusted you, you find that she has a lot of the kind of little girl's lovely side, the kind of pampering, the kind of trick, are a good.
The subtle joy between two people will be nourished out, this is in fact each other spoiled out of this spoiled out of the back is less demanding.
And behind the less demanding, there is a greater power in support. It is that you really love yourself y. When you can really love yourself y, for this living color of the world began to have a joy and love, inside began to have so much joy and satisfaction, love is full of overflow, began to love themselves to love others. The world, in turn, begins to return love and joy to you constantly.
This is a state of awakening, where you feel like you've grown up and look at everyone else as a child, and they're all so lovely and worthy of love. Just like when you grow up, how can you possibly talk to a child lying on the ground, playing tricks, with him in general, you will gently smile, and think gee this baby is really funny. When you grow up, you will see through such a small trick, and how it is possible to lie on the ground with him, together with the pampering rogue rolling it.
In fact, the love of a husband like a son like a wife like a daughter, not just a favor, but your awakening after a frank and a calm, and a deep love of life. Discover the beauty of yourself, discover all the beauty of the world, y in love with yourself, in love with the dust, in love with all the people around you, reap the world ten times ten times back, more and more love and joy.
Author: University teacher. Doctoral degree from Chinese Academy of Sciences. Currently taking people (human brain) as the main research direction. Carry out psychological counseling work.