The little boy in the video is super serious, not only can he keep up with the beat of the music, but also is full of tricks and charm. It is estimated that he is usually influenced by his grandmother (or grandmother). Although some of the little boy's movements are not particularly in place, this little brother is only 4 or 5 years old, and it is rare to dance so coquettish.
Duang, the future square dance coach was born. But is it really good for male dolls to dance so coquettish? Where is masculinity? And isn't that grandma's trouble with her grandchildren?
Φ Counting Four Mistakes in Generation-separated Education
Being busy can be an excuse for many things, such as not having time to take care of children. In life, many parents only care about having children and throw them to their parents as soon as they are born. Although many grandparents are willing to take care of their grandchildren, there are many problems in intergenerational education, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children. The following are the four most common mistakes in intergenerational education, which parents must pay attention to.
1. Don't let children chew slowly.
When the old man feeds his children, he always feeds them with a mouthful of rice and soup, so that the children can swallow it all at once and prevent them from fully chewing with their teeth. This is not right. If the child does not chew, it will directly let the food enter the stomach, which will increase the burden on the child's stomach and easily lead to indigestion, bloating or diarrhea.
2. Always let children eat too much.
Old people are always worried that their children will not have enough to eat, so they will let them eat a lot. However, if children eat too much, their stomachs will swell, which will easily lead to bloating. After a long time, they will be overweight or even obese, which is not only bad for their health, but also affects their intellectual development. So parents should be careful not to let grandparents feed their children too much.
Children will agree to any request they make.
Many old people are fond of their children, and their requirements for their children can be said to be responsive. For example, children always buy toys or snacks without hesitation, thinking that their retirement salary is inexhaustible and it is worth spending on children. Actually, it's not good to do so. Excessive doting on children will make children develop selfish psychology, and even become rebellious and spoiled, making it difficult to achieve great things in the future.
4. Resolutely prevent children from doing housework
Many old people think that children are too young to understand anything, and they will only add chaos, or they will let their children play out of love for them. In fact, letting children do housework can exercise their independent ability and make them have the ability to take care of themselves. Doing housework also exercises children's practical ability and helps to improve their IQ. Old people should not stop it.
Φ Clever use of seconds to solve educational conflicts between generations.
There are many contradictions in intergenerational education, and many young parents are worried. Don't worry, if there is any hatred, it is for the good of the children. The following small series teaches you four super effective solutions, so learn it quickly.
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Private chat. I want to communicate with the right person when I have conflicts with the old people. Dad talks to grandparents, and dad talks to grandparents. You don't have to talk about it. Sometimes it is easier to tell the truth in private.
√ seize the opportunity. When doing things, you should talk about opportunities, and remember to persuade the elderly when they are in a good mood, which is more acceptable. If the timing is wrong, the result is often a bad ending.
√ Curve saves the nation. When there are great differences in parenting concepts and practices, don't be tit for tat. Ask an expert for help. Now there are many books or videos taught by experts, which you can watch and learn with the elderly.
√ Cold treatment. It is wrong for the elderly to raise children. In fact, there is no need to argue about right and wrong. Sometimes cold treatment is the best way. Young parents can boldly act according to their own ideas and turn a deaf ear to the accusations of the elderly. Of course, at the right time, you can be gentle and coquetry, and the anger of the old man will disappear.