Introduction: the same pot of boiling water, the same time, hard carrots come out soft; fragile eggs come out hard; and coffee beans, although out of the way, but it makes the water into coffee. The following is my search for you to organize the composition material, welcome to read reference, I hope to bring you help!
篇一：关于改变自己的初中作文素材Change yourself to change the world
Robert Theodini is a famous American psychologist, is a psychology professor at Arizona State University.
One day, after finishing his day's work in New York, he took the subway to the Times Square station.
It was rush hour, and as usual, people were swarming down the steps to the platform.
Suddenly, Robert Ciodini saw a man in rags lying in the middle of the steps, eyes closed, not moving.
People rushing to the subway were as if they hadn't seen the man, hurrying past him, and some even crossing over him, eager to take the subway home.
Seeing this scene, Robert Theodini was very shocked.
So he stopped to see what was going on. Just as he stopped, an intriguing shift occurred: one by one, a number of people followed suit.
Soon, a small circle of concerned people gathered around the man, and compassion spread. A man went to buy him food, a woman hurriedly brought him water, another notified a subway patrolman, who in turn called an ambulance, and a few minutes later the man awoke, eating food while waiting for the ambulance to arrive.
It became clear that the ragged man, who spoke only Spanish and had no money, had been wandering the streets of Manhattan for days, hungry.
He had collapsed on the steps of a subway station from hunger.
Why did people initially turn a blind eye and become indifferent to this ragged man?
Part II: Change Yourself First Essay MaterialWhenever I didn't do well in a test, my mom came to encourage me. Whenever I am sad, my mom will come to comfort me. Whenever I have nothing to do, my mom comes to keep me company. Mom, thank you.
One time my mom and I went to the park to play, but the bike broke down, so my mom and I had to walk back. When we got home, we were both tired, I could lie on the sofa and eat, mom couldn't, she had to cook for me. After dinner I could go play, mom couldn't, she had to wash the dishes and wipe the table. Mom can finally take a break after cleaning up, but she still has to play with me on things she doesn't like. At night, I have already gone to bed, but mom still has to work in front of the computer. When I went to the bathroom at night, I looked at the clock and it was already one o'clock, but the light was still on in mom's room. The next day I asked my mom when she got up, and she said she got up at six-thirty every day.
Mom you have given so much for me, I want to thank you, mom!
This is the essay question for the midterm exam in the first period of Lulu's fifth grade.
Just after the test day, I asked him what the essay topic was, he did not say. Later, when the parent-teacher conference was held and the test papers of various subjects were distributed, I saw it. But I only read it once, not daring to read it again for fear that tears would fall on the spot. I didn't hear what the principal said on the radio, and I kept thinking about the past few days. LuLu said, "Whenever I didn't do well in a test, my mom would come to encourage me. Whenever I am sad, my mom comes to comfort me." But this time, he didn't do so well in the exam, and I scolded him so hard that I cried all the way to school that morning. Feeling so guilty. There are so many things I know how to do, but I still can't help it, I can't do them well. After reading my son's essay, I y know that my cultivation is very insufficient, and I am not a good mom.
But he gave me the best of the best praise, the deepest love, the deepest understanding. I thought he didn't care about a lot of things, but in fact he remembered them all, remembered them clearly.
Asked him the other day, he did not say, if not today sent papers, these words may always be only in his heart, will not let me know.
What else is in his heart? He has reached the age of shyness. My son, he has grown up.
This essay did not get full marks. The full mark is 40 and he only got 38, which is not high in the class. I don't know why the teacher deducted 2 points, but in my mind, this is the best and finest essay ever written, and my son, you gave me the perfect score, and it's not enough for me to give you the perfect score!
There is a story about an owl that was not popular with everyone because its hooting was not beautiful, and it was so sad that it moved its home to another place, but the neighboring birds there still hated it, so it was ready to move again. The nightingale said, "The key is that you have to change your call, otherwise, everyone else will be the same wherever you go."
On one occasion, if everyone says you are bad, you are the one who has to change yourself. Change yourself to be able to live and survive, you are supposed to adapt to a certain environment.
But on the other hand, is the owl really at fault?
In China, the owl is an unlucky representative, saying that when it hoots, it kills people. This superstition makes the Chinese people see it to fight and kill, seriously damaging the ecological balance. In China, wherever it moves to, it is disgusting.
But in Western culture, the owl is a symbol of wisdom, because it stays beside Athena, the goddess of wisdom. The love of owls in the West contrasts sharply with the hatred of owls in China. The owl does not have to change itself, it just needs to move its home to the West.
In the same way, Russians do not like black cats, they are very superstitious that black cats are unlucky; and Chinese people seem to think that the little black cat is also quite spiritual.
Sometimes you have to change yourself; sometimes you have to change your environment.
In one place, honesty is respected; in another country, honesty is a fool's errand.
Somewhere, criticizing an official is a duty; and somewhere else, criticizing an official can be a crime.
Somewhere, being different is praised; somewhere, you have to be exactly like everyone else to survive.
Part III: Changing Yourself Essay MaterialIs man the master of destiny or the slave of destiny? This question needs to be seriously explored. This question needs to be seriously explored. Thinking clearly about this question, we can settle down in the dust, put the soul, in order to obtain a relaxed, abundant life.
A person's life is the result of the synthesis of "fate" and "fortune". The "life" is innate, and the "luck" is acquired. We can simply say that people are the slaves of fate, but they are the masters of luck.
On the "life" and "luck" relationship and "life" "luck" and the relationship between people, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, if there is time I will specialize in the discussion. Today, I'm going to answer a question that a few friends have been asking for a long time: how do I change my destiny quickly?
Can fate be changed "quickly"?
This is a typical question of the fast food era.
My answer is yes.
For a given individual, different ways of doing a given thing will take different amounts of time. In this sense, there is a relative "quickness" to doing anything.
If you feel your destiny is not good enough and you want to change it quickly, what do you do?
Many people may choose to work harder and believe that you get what you put in. If so, then your destiny may change, but not quickly. Because from a destiny perspective, you're choosing a very "dumb" way of doing things.
There is another way, which I highly recommend. If you think you're bad at something, find a few friends who are good at it and spend a lot of time with them. Soon you will be good in that area as well.
Doing so is not only because you can get more opportunities with these people, but also because you can change your mindset and perception by being with these people. If your mindset and perception change, your behavior will change accordingly, and then your destiny will naturally change.
In fact, in a more esoteric sense, being with these people changes your field energy, and therefore your destiny trajectory. This is something that I will address specifically when I get a chance.
People in different circles think very differently and have different realms.
A young friend who just graduated from college four years ago, asked me about the way to success. I said: you first buy a car. Let's just say that buying a car within six months is the first goal of success. He said: there is no money to buy. I said: No! It's not that you don't have the money to buy it, it's because you don't want to buy it. He was puzzled and said: I do not have the money to buy ah!
I told him: you find a few friends with cars, and stay with them for a month. As a result, three months later, this young friend bought a car. I asked him: you do not have money to buy a car? He said: Yes. But it's too stimulating to be with friends who have cars. The radius of their activities is so large that there is no way to participate in their activities without a car.
I had to take out a loan to buy the car. I said: you see. Your first goal of success has been realized. Your destiny is already changing. If you don't hang out with people who have cars, it could be years before you have a strong desire to buy a car. He nodded: That's right. My old idea was to trade in my old mountain bike for an e-bike first, and a car was a plan for after I turned 30.
This is how different thinking and realms bring different behavioral patterns. I'm sure that if this young friend was always with a group of biking friends, all he would be thinking about would probably be how to trade in his mountain bike for a name-brand one, or how to trade in his e-bike for an electric one.
There could be many similar examples. It all goes to show that your destiny is really in your own hands. Just one thing to keep in mind: the key to determining your destiny depends not on what you can do, but on who you are with.
Part IV: Change YourselfThe same pot of boiling water, the same time, hard carrots out of the soft; fragile eggs out of the hard; and coffee beans, although out of the way, but it makes the water into coffee. In the face of the same link, the carrot chose to yield, soften themselves; eggs chose to defend, protect themselves; coffee beans chose to change, the achievement of the coffee aroma pleasant.
When the soybean to the color of the debut, even if rich in protein, but also remain unpopular; and when the soybean by the salt brine point of time, it sensibly chose to change their own, its nutrition is favored, its plasticity let people like. The same beans, the former unpopular, the latter has become a favorite on the table, the root of this mutation is that it chose to change.
Mo Yan is a child of the mountains, his family is poor and dropped out of school, but with only an elementary school education, he has been working hard with his love of literature, he is not satisfied with being a goat herder, but tried his best to enrich himself with books, and eventually he became a literary master. Even though he had the talent of a literary scholar, he would not have been as brilliant as he is today if he had only been willing to herd sheep without changing himself. Tong Di Zhou's English was always his shortcoming when he was in college. Even though he was mocked when he opened his mouth, he still chose to speak English, and by sharpening his tongue with stones, he eventually succeeded in changing himself. Yang Guang, a blind singer, has been blinded by the sun since he was a child, and his dark world has every reason for him to give up on himself and go through this life in obscurity. But he was not willing to be at the mercy of fate. He didn't have clear eyes, but he was able-bodied, so he chose to sing and take the stage. Helen Keller is an exemplary figure. Keller is more exemplary characters, her physical disability is basically destined to isolate her from the world, but she not only lived a wonderful life, but also stirred up the world, affecting generation after generation.
Looking at them, no matter what kind of environment we are in, we have no reason, no excuse to choose to compromise. All we have to do is to change ourselves. In the face of the need to help the weak, we should be obliged to extend a helping hand; if you choose not to care about yourself, it is your cowardice, lack of love; even if there is a precedent of being blackmailed, you should not retreat. If you are still hesitant, please change yourself, the world needs fraternity, and so you become weak, you will look forward to that fraternity. In the face of the profit that can be made but should not be taken, we should take a firm stand. If you have the thought of being complicit, then change yourself; we should not be complicit in the drunkenness of all people. In the face of adversity, it is all the more important to change ourselves. Social injustice exists, but as long as you are strong enough will be treated fairly. Behind the predicament must be less of their own reasons, complaining about the sky can not solve any problem, but rather give people the impression of resentment. "The first thing you need to do is to get rid of all the problems you're facing, and then you can get rid of them.
If you are still confused and worried, please think about yourself and choose to change yourself.
If you are still confused and worried, please think about yourself and choose to change yourself.