We can't find a person who is not lonely in his heart, we can only find a person who can make his life more happy and less depressed. This person can only influence you in your life, drive your emotions, really can not do to make you not lonely inside.
This question is for me to answer:
Now it is difficult to find people who do not let themselves be lonely, how many adults are not lonely? But there are some loneliness that only we know, and as long as we don't talk about it, no one will know. So let's just deal with this loneliness in our own way, no one will help you out of your loneliness.
Why can't you find someone who won't let you be lonely.
Their own lunch need to be in a fixed restaurant to solve the problem, eat is also fixed those kinds of rice. In fact, I don't know how many times, anyway, the restaurant people are all recognize me, probably from the beginning to the end, to go to dinner alone, I'm afraid I'm the only one, so it will be more impressive to me, today, when ordering, I said it's the same old thing, a person can choose and not much. The boss's wife said, one person can also fry a dish ah! I said that would be too much trouble. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it, and I'm sure I'll be able to do it.
Why can't you find someone who can keep you from being lonely?
It always feels like eating alone with no one to keep you company, especially if you always go out to eat, you'll seem lonely, isolated or something. I don't really feel anything, it may be that I have too much time to eat by myself. I'm really used to being alone, and when I'm used to it, I don't feel lonely.
Why can't you find someone who can keep you from being lonely?
It is also possible that age is slowly getting older as long as I return to the room where I am alone Li, without a trace of vitality, I will really feel lonely. So to eliminate such loneliness, I have to make something out of it. Computers and cell phones have come in handy for me in this regard. Put on some TV shows, listen to some audiobooks or something, or listen to some melancholy music, or else play some exercise videos.
Whatever it is, as long as there is sound, it can slightly fill those loneliness inside. In the silence of the night, it is even more afraid of the loneliness of being alone. Even if it is to write some words, I will put some sound, do not see or hear I can do, just need that little sound, let me feel less afraid of good.
Maybe I'm getting a little old, I don't share much with people, except for self-talk on the internet of course, because that's the only way I can get mental comfort. I hope lonely people have their own ways of eliminating loneliness.
That's because you haven't really fallen in love with someone. When there is really a person who can enter your heart. From now on, you will no longer be lonely. Even if you are not together every day, you are thinking of this person, his joys and sorrows, will affect your mood. Every day you will try to show yourself in front of him. Try to make yourself perfect. This kind of person is unattainable. When fate arrives. Naturally there will be such a person in front of you. From then on your heart will no longer be lonely.
Loneliness, sounds miserable, in fact, not, he just represents a kind of your attitude in the world - do not follow the flow, do not follow the profit, so there is nothing wrong. In the context of the era of impatience, we have to learn to live on our own, learn to get used to loneliness, learn to talk to yourself, but at the same time do not stay away from the city clamor. Loneliness is not the same as out of the world, is not the same as silence, is not the same as away, he just let us learn to think independently, judgment, so that we have the opportunity to sort out their own lives. Of course, the lonely people can also communicate with others, you can convey the warmth of the point of view to others, so you will find that in fact you are very popular, not "lonely"!
There is a saying that people are born alone.
Loneliness is a kind of thought, emotionally no communication, no dependence, no one to understand and recognize the feeling. No one can really go into their own heart, if you are a person with a lot of feelings and not exposed, then you are destined to be lonely. However, the experience of loneliness and playfulness will also make us rich in personality, good at thinking, towards the heart of maturity.
Anthony Stoll said:
Thus, loneliness is not a bad thing, because it allows us to keep our spirituality intact and to live our lives at a pace and in a way that we like.
To have the **** same values, thinking in line with the taste of the public, too much emphasis on their own will be difficult to find can communicate with your mind. The similarity of the line, exactly the same as the difficulty is very big, sometimes they will be a moment this way, a moment and that way, so maybe just have to point to find a friend. In addition to expanding their social surface, more people, the world will certainly find the big, in the same experience of people looking for the same age in the better to find, have *** with the language, the ancients said, the same disease, like a toothache, I originally did not have a toothache when people say toothache a bit of a concept, from my own toothache, I know that it is no wonder that people say, a toothache is not a disease, the pain up to kill, no! The thing that you have experienced in person, you and his communication will not produce **** Ming. You see, like to gamble with gambling friends, like to drink with drinking friends, like to dance with dancing friends. Cultivating more of your hobbies is also a way to go.
Everyone's existence is independent, loneliness is a state of mind. In fact, no one can really enter your heart, what you think of yourself, no one knows. At the same time we do not know what others are thinking, do not go to guess what others are thinking. Who wants their own mind to let others know.
There is nothing wrong with being alone, alone you do not have to deal with the so-called social circle, holding up a glass of red wine, shuttle in the lights, with a mask, saying words that do not mean anything, drinking, to make friends with the so-called interests, at this moment you feel not alone? In fact, the real heart is always lonely.
People who can enjoy loneliness are very powerful inside. Loneliness can precipitate your inner, so that your restless heart can be calm,. Know what your ideals are, and how to be down-to-earth to do what you want to do. Loneliness of the heart can withstand any external things, because their own heart knows that people live a life is not easy, cherish all of their own, eyes closed, but also can feel the world of all things in the chaos of the clamor, lonely heart immersed in this, see clearly and clearly. The first thing you need to do is to look through and not talk through, and live a free and easy life.
Loneliness is the deepest feeling in your own heart, not others talk to you you are not lonely, but need to regulate their own.
Learn to face loneliness. In fact, lonely time is also good, you can y reflect on their own, as the saying goes, one day three times a day, to see which aspects of their own shortcomings can be corrected in a timely manner. When you feel lonely, you can read a book or find something you are interested in doing, so that your mind can follow the rotation, enrich your life, you will not feel lonely.
Loneliness is a kind of normal, but also now the prevalence of psychological state of society, for the lonely this statement many people do not have a clear concept, we can judge whether a person is lonely for the external performance, of course, loneliness is not no law to follow, once you are around the people with the following four traits, then your friend is extremely lonely people
1. Loss of desire to show their own
Usually people live in the world always want to be able to get other people's attention and recognition, integration into the collective is a kind of affirmation of their own, but the lonely people will choose a contrary way to deal with, that is, they will try to reduce the contact with the outside world, and even those who are in their eyes to show that their own behavior is a ridiculous redundant behavior, in the lonely patient
2. Generally speaking, lonely people seldom express their own heart, and focus on listening to other people's feelings
In fact, a lot of lonely people are very difficult to see, because they are also very common in the dealings with other people, and other people will not produce unnecessary ideas, at most, they just think that they are a little bit more introverted, and those who have strong social skills will often have a lot of trouble with the outside world. Social skills of people tend to be more lonely than ordinary people, this may be and they are always little to express their inner thoughts, but always in the constant attention to the feelings of others, they will not be in the life of friends and relatives to go to vomit a variety of troubles, but choose to smother in the heart want to solve everything through their own, do not bother anyone
3. life more casual
The psychological loneliness of the people who have been in the heart of the world, the people who have been in the heart of the people who have been in the heart of the people who have been in the heart of the people who have been in the heart of the world. p> Those who are psychologically lonely people's lives are always more casual than normal people, it is because they are more able to know that life is not easy, so they will not be like a common people to pursue style, they just care about their own life is not able to achieve what they want, they are more in pursuit of life in the maverick fun, they will be more than the average person is also difficult to find a suitable partner, after all, to find a spiritual together with a partner, they will not be able to find a suitable partner, they will not be able to find a suitable partner. After all, it is not easy to find a partner who can work together in spirit
4. Humor
Those who are lonely at heart will be more humorous than the average person, because the high pressure they bear to exercise their mind out of a very deep realm, which allows them to find some new perspectives, which will add some new laughs for people
1. p> 1. run through their hobbies, their circle of coworkers, their circle of classmates, and reach out to the people around them:
2. get out there! Communicate more, even with strangers;
3. Establish **** the same topics, points of interest;
4. Respect others, keep some friends in touch;
5. Above all, work hard and study hard, have your own sense of value, build confidence! Have love!
This way you will surely have close friends!
You'll have friends!