Topic:Kindness of lies does not hinder the integrity [fine]
When it comes to lies, I dare to say that none of us has not lied since we were children. Yes, everyone has lied, but some lies are kind, and some lies are malicious! The good intention of the lie, its starting point is good, is lying at the same time to achieve the good intention of deception, and had to make up the lie.
One, the good intention of the lie is not hindered by the integrity of our country:
The late 1950s, the early 1960s, China and the former Soviet Union dispute, the former Soviet Union government tore up the contract to withdraw the experts, treacherous behavior, so that our country's industry was paralyzed in order to clear the debt owed to the former Soviet Union, Chairman Mao called on the National People's Congress to practice iron and steel, to carry out the first-ever steel production, and the first-ever steel production, and the first-ever steel production. In order to pay off the debt owed to the former Soviet Union, Chairman Mao called on the nation to train steel and carry out the unprecedented Great Leap Forward. At that time, no one in the Chinese people would know that our country still owed a debt to others, and thought that after our country was liberated, we would have a carefree good life, but the leading comrades of the Party and the country took up the burden, and at that time, the lies that the leaders of the country told to the people were well-intentioned, and did not hamper the integrity of the people, and the people of China at that time, did not have any pressure. The people of China worked without any pressure, creating unprecedented miracles. That era created the iron man Wang Jinxi, and Wang Jinxi led his oil drilling team, drilling our first Chinese oil wells .....
Second, in talking about our personal, I'm here to give two small examples:
Watched a TV report, said an old mother with kidney disease, if not kidney will be threatened, then the eldest son came forward to ask for his mother to donate a kidney, which can be painful to the old mother, the old mother strongly opposed, said that if so he might as well die. The son was afraid of delaying his mother's condition, so after discussing with his family, he tricked his mother into giving him a young kidney. A young kidney donated to the mother, after successful surgery, the family is still hidden from the old mother, the most touching is the mother and son living in the next ward, the mother is not aware of, when the mother wants to see the oldest son, the family just lied to her that the son to go on a business trip, I was moved to tears after reading the report, friends, is it such a lie to impede the integrity of it?
A little girl with leukemia, in the late stages of her life, when the doctor asked what her biggest wish was, she said she wanted to go to Tiananmen Square to see the flag-raising ceremony, a dying girl's last wish, the doctor and the parents of which there is no reason not to meet it? But because her family lives in the distant Xinjiang, if her request is met, the doctor was afraid that the girl could not withstand the journey, so a collective lie organized by more than 2,000 volunteers and doctors and the girl's family began to lie, from the train to the tourist bus, along the way, from the station to the waiter to serve tea, even to the travelers to talk to the passengers, are all intentionally arranged, and finally came to a school, in the military, to the police, to the police, to the hospital. A school, in the marching band accompanied by the sound of the national anthem, the blind girl thought she really came to the long-desired Tiananmen Square, when she saw her powerless to raise her small hand to the direction of the national flag salute, the people present all shed tears, this organized by more than 2,000 people in a collective lying action, you can say that their well-intentioned lies have impeded the integrity of it?
Also, a lot of elderly people are not feeling well, but also refused to let their children know the first time, for fear of affecting the children's normal work and study! A lot of children fall down and say that it does not hurt, in order to let parents say that they are brave! There are many successful personnel behind the silent dedication of the woman tired, never complained, in order to let their husbands can rest assured that the work done better for the family to worry a little less .... Such examples in a country like ours with a long history of civilization is really countless, here I do not enumerate, the facts speak louder than words, to sum up, they are all lying, but their lies are all good intentions, is no obstacle to the integrity of the ......
Is not there such a saying: the good intention of the lie is beautiful. When we lie moderately for the sake of others' happiness and hope, the lie is changed into understanding, respect and tolerance, with magical power.
Here's an example, there is a student, he is not very good at long-distance running, but in a test, the teacher told him that his long-distance running speed is faster than other students, and also said that he has the opportunity to participate in the competition on behalf of the school, told him to work hard, the student heard the teacher's words are very excited, because he has always thought that he does not have the talent of long-distance running, but he was able to participate in the competition on behalf of the school. The student was very excited after hearing the teacher's words because he had always thought that he had no talent for long-distance running, but he could represent his school in the competition. From that day on, he really liked long-distance running and insisted on getting up every day to run. After a period of time, he was not able to represent the school to participate in the competition at all, but he was really selected.
Once there was a teacher who spread a panic that he could predict the future for his students: you may become a mathematician in the future, he can be a writer, and that one has an artistic talent ...... In the teacher's instruction, inculcation, encouragement and molding, the children became diligent and hard-working, understanding and good at learning. A few years later, a large number of students with excellent results into the door of the university, the village is also famous. People thought that the old teacher could calculate and sense the future, in fact, the teacher's good intentions is a beautiful lie planted in the children's hearts, like sowing a seed in the soil, will eventually flourish, blossom and bear fruit.
Reading the American short story "The Last Leaf," my eyes are always moist and wet. When the sick old man looks at the fading and decaying leaves and desolate despair, the loving painter with a carefully sketched piece of green leaves to decorate the dry tree of life, so as to maintain a section of the dying light of life. Is this not the ultimate lie?
Lies out of good intentions are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It allows people to light up the fire of hope from the heart, sure that there is love in the world, there is trust, there are touched, and thus find more reasons to smile at life. Kindness lies, is to give the spirit of human nature, embodies the emotional finesse and maturity of thought, prompting people to be strong and persistent, can not help but go to work to fight, and finally overcame the fragile, desperate to survive.
The parents of a lie, so that the world of children face like flowers, brilliant; teacher of a lie, so that the uncertainty of the students are no longer confused, better growth; doctor of a lie, so that the fear of patients from the destruction of the new life ......
Dear friends, wake up, in fact, lies of good intentions! There is simply no obstacle to integrity, do not think that the good intentioned lie will be in the way of the integrity of the issue, because as long as you think in your heart is for the sake of others, then the good intentioned lie is precious, it will not cause a crisis of confidence, nor will it tarnish the civilization, and will not distort the human nature.
Good lies have the magical power to inspire you to make progress again and again, and to never give up lightly for the dream in your heart. Because the road ahead is completely illuminated by a joyful mood, and life becomes better as a result.