Square dancing is very common, the square dance of the big moms are particularly complex, elderly friends in their old age need to find some happiness, exercise and other activities to enrich the life of the elderly, so we all need to go to each other's understanding, if my child intentionally disruptive words, the first thing I will tell him the relationship between the powerful, square dancing are children's grandmothers, their age is not small, if any of the grandmother tripped over, our family would have to take the grandmother to the hospital, the hospital and everything to check out a lot of money, and parents have to go to work, but also to check out a lot of money, and what to do. If any of the grandmothers tripped, our family will have to take grandma to the hospital, the hospital and everything to check out a lot of money, and parents have to take time off from work to serve grandma, if grandma get serious, it will cost a lot of money, and even have to sell the house, the house is sold, we will have no place to live, there may be like all the beggars have to go to the street to ask for food, which is the relationship between the powerful and the child said, now the child is particularly smart, I believe that the next time The children are especially smart, I believe that next time they will never intentionally do so, and secondly, I will let him apologize to the grandmother, to ensure that he will never do so again. I also believe that my children will never intentionally make trouble again. I hope you are satisfied with my answer.
Call your child over and tell him that it's an adult dance, so be safe. When you grow up, go and play with your aunts!
Other people in the square martial arts when jumping, if my child to make trouble. The first thing I would do is to criticize my child in front of the aunts in the square martial arts. Secondly, I will apologize to the aunts. I hope they will understand that my child is still young and uneducated, and I will criticize and educate my child properly when I return. Third, I will let my child personally apologize to the square dance aunts. Fourth, I will bring some fruits and drinks to the square the next day for the square dancing aunts. Then I will apologize to the aunts again and share the fruit and drinks with them. Fifth, I'll politely convey to the aunts that if they see their kids messing up again, they can either tell them directly or criticize them directly.
I'll share with you the reasons for my approach above. First, the plaza as a public **** place is provided to the public to carry out related recreational activities. However, the order of activities in the square should have a first-come-first-served. If the square wu aunts are already dancing in the square, and then my child goes to make trouble, this is my child's fault, and should be criticized and educated. Secondly, children and aunts come to the square to play, that we live closer to these people, is half a neighbor. In the future, it is estimated that we will often run into each other in the square or on the street. So it is very necessary to maintain a good relationship with the square dance aunts. Third, I let my own children personally apologize to the aunts, on the one hand, to reflect the sincerity, on the other hand, I hope that through this way to let the aunts have a look at their own children and nephews feel. Afterwards, if they met again in the square, they would take care of one or two of them. Fourthly, I gave the aunts fruits and drinks every other day in order to maintain a good relationship with them, hoping that they would treat me and my child as if we were their own people. In this way, if the child plays in the plaza next time, it is expected that the aunts will also take care of him or her. Fifthly, I suggested to the aunts that they could criticize and teach my child directly in order to get closer to the aunts again. If they really criticize their children, it means that they have already treated their children as their own children.
Countries have their own laws and systems, societies have their own rules of operation, and even a small square in a city will have its own implicit rules.
I would criticize the child and tell him it's not right to do that.
First, let the child know that square dancing is also a correct way to exercise, can not go to affect others;
Second, let the child know that other people dancing square dance is in the enjoyment of the music at the same time, but also a kind of mass beneficial activities;
Third, more so that the child knows that damage to others has been behaved is a kind of no morality, so that the masses are very indignant behavior;
Be sure to Let the child full of positive energy.
Other people dancing square dance, your children disrupt you how to do? Answer: must be the children, it is the period of positive education, must educate children, respect discipline, no matter when and where the same, to learn to respect others, respect for others is the same as love and care for their own, do not do bad things with the joy of doing bad things, bad habits, the future impact on society, the more you learn to get worse and worse, as a guardian does not listen to the problem, perhaps on the path to commit the most parents should be timely detection of the problem, timely corrective Problems, which is the beginning of an enlightened education for children. The above is my personal opinion, if there are improper, please teachers to teach and learn from each other!
Look at how big the child is one by one, if it is a baby, hold one side of the strike; if it is a child, the public face to face education, let him not dry scratch; if it is a teenager, almost become a grown-up, you make a wink may be on the line.
Our evening square dance when we do often encounter a child scurrying into the dance team to make trouble, some parents do not care about the child, and told her to please take the child out to avoid accidents, individual parents do not cooperate with the encounter of unreasonable and inevitable quarrels! If it is my child, I will certainly control him, do not let him in the dance area to mess around, so that not only their own safety is guaranteed, but also does not affect the uncles and aunts, grandparents fitness!
Dancing area children can not go inside. It's not good for others, and it's not good for you. Dancers can hurt kids if they're not careful. I would take the kids somewhere else to play.
In life, I believe that parents have encountered the phenomenon of children like to make trouble, for this problem, sometimes the more you stop, the more the children, parents are more annoyed.
Why do children make trouble? Children are still in the age of growth, the new things around them are more curious, have not done things want to try. Growing children, usually parents are in charge, in their thinking, sometimes want to get rid of the adult constraints, their own to understand the world independently.
In the square, when the child sees others dancing, people around them are concerned about them, the child is also very sensitive to external feedback, but also eager to get the attention of others. If their own children to disturb others, as parents should be timely counseling, the child is having fun, direct reasoning to him maybe he can not listen to, we can use the example of the method of communication with the child, such as giving him: when you are watching a very favorite TV, someone suddenly blocked the TV, what will you think in your heart? The child will surely say, let him leave quickly and don't block me from watching TV. Then parents can also be guided through this way to guide the child, that you are now also blocking the others dance, to bring trouble to others, others are also in the heart of the same idea as you Oh, I believe that the child also understand the reasoning, so that the child knows that their behavior is not right, since it is not right to do, is not it should be given to others to apologize for it! Through the above guidance communication, the child will be easy to understand the reasoning, and then feel that indeed should apologize. A small gesture, silently also gave the child a lesson in respect for others.
Only if the child understands the reasoning, he or she will leave consciously, and will not make the same mistake again. We must not scold the child in public, not to mention the child can not hit the child, radical behavior so that his self-esteem is hit, will only make the childhood child more rebellious.
In life, to the child to develop the right concept, with a gentle attitude to communicate, give the child a certain understanding, so that the child to establish a correct outlook on life, but also our parents want to see the results.
For the square dance team, I led the child to see, I will hold the child's hand, or hold her, almost in public places will not be on the child's hand, not to say that the eyes are staring at it is almost the same, crowded, and there are children running around, afraid of hitting the child. At the same time will also educate the child, do not go to the square dance team to go, with the appreciation of the eyes to see the square dance, learn to respect people, dancing is the majority of the elderly, they are leisure and recreation zeal, bring others the enjoyment of beauty and exercise at the same time, which is infected with other people and drive the fitness for all is to let us have a better body to enjoy life, and civilized viewing is more respect for themselves and others! The children are small to them more caution, respect for the elderly and children, to comply with the public **** moral, learn to control their own behavior, from language to action to teach by example, so that children from an early age to know that these civilized behavior is necessary to comply with, jostling in the square dance team chasing, are disrespectful of other people, parents are the guardians, it is their responsibility to tell their children about these behaviors from the side of the drop of the matter to guide the minors, especially boys, the naughty and playful is their nature, and they will not be able to do so. Naughty and active is their nature, but watch out for the children, later on they are good for them. A polite child is loved by all.