Everyone says that couples can't get divorced unless they have no choice, because once they do, it can cause a lot of damage to the family. Some women live a dashing life in their marriages. They can afford it and they put it down. In their minds, they think like this: if you love me, I will stay with you. If you betray me, I will leave you mercilessly. There are so many people in the world, I don't have to be you.
In marriage, there is a common phenomenon that women tend to give more to their families than men. Women are more attentive than men in running their marriages. Some women are depressed after divorce, as if they have lost half of their lives. Some women are reborn after divorce.
Mrs. Shi is 48 years old. I often feel that life is a dream. The first half of my life had passed in a hurry before I realized what I wanted. I can only comfort myself in my mind. It doesn't matter. The first half of my life is over. So let me be happier in the second half of my life! Let myself enjoy life, I've reached middle age, what sadness, aggravation, disappointment and pain I've experienced, now everything is easy, as long as my family is safe and healthy, there is nothing to look forward to.
Think about it. This year, it has been five years since my ex-husband and I divorced. My ex-husband and I have a son and a daughter. Women are soft-hearted. Even if a man is wrong, a woman will choose to forgive him for the sake of her family. But if a man makes an unforgivable mistake that frustrates a woman, the end result is divorce.
I take good care of everything at home. Not only do I take care of my two children, but I also serve two elderly people. I knew my ex-husband worked hard to earn money so I never complained to him about any grievances. But to my surprise 5 years ago, I found someone outside my ex-husband. His 20+ years of marriage is not worth mentioning. Why hold on to him, I voluntarily divorced my ex-husband because he touched my bottom line and I couldn't take it.
I am a stay at home mom with no source of income so I can't get custody of my children. When I first got divorced, I almost broke down. With my family by my side, I slowly came out of the divorce. With my savings, I started a business and opened a clothing store. It was a tough life for me, but I kept myself busy and I was glad I didn't have time to think about anything else.
My son and daughter often came to see me and talk to me. Before I knew it, they had been divorced for five years. I got used to living alone. When the store was busy, I stayed inside all day. When the store isn't busy, I go shopping with some good friends, dress myself up, and occasionally go traveling with them. I get up in the morning to run and exercise, and after dinner I go for a walk in the park and square dance. My life is very full and comfortable, and I am very content.
After my divorce, I realized that the best way to be married is to love yourself. When you devote yourself to yourself, you will be happier and happier.
Conclusion: Sometimes you don't know what you did wrong in your marriage, but you have to live with the pain of divorce. Even though you're divorced, you shouldn't allow yourself to be mired in grief for long. There is no way out for you and you have to start all over again. Women must remember that in marriage, do not rely too much on their partners, independent of each other, they have the financial resources, but also to focus on themselves, so that they can love themselves.