A study in the UK has shown that children who grew up playing with their cell phones grew up to be better at it. A decade of tracking found that those children who play the phone in all aspects of the children than do not play the phone, the more they grow up the better. It can be said that the more children play with cell phones, the better they get. Children who play with cell phones have higher emotional intelligence, better academic performance, better social skills, more efficient, and a stronger sense of responsibility. Those children who grew up playing with cell phones grow up to be more and more excellent, able to excel in the tasks given by their superiors, and even become the bosses and bosses and other people at the tip of the pyramid.
Nowadays, it is more and more common for children to play with cell phones, and the gorgeous images and beautiful sounds attract children's eyes, making them more and more addicted to playing, affecting their academic performance, making the house restless, and deteriorating parent-child relationships, and even leading children to embark on the road of crime. So the parents of the cell phone abhorrence, feel that the cell phone is more terrible than the beast of water. The rough ban on restricting children to play with cell phones has led to a decline in the child's academic performance, the relationship between the rigidity of the character of the rebellious, and even caused the tragedy of suicide.
The main reasons why children are addicted to playing cell phones are as follows:
1. Children play with cell phones because the games in the phone novels are very attractive, such as the King of Glory, a group of like-minded children group to fight the monsters, they believe that the monsters are the heroes, and the group to destroy the monsters to save the world, is the dream of every boy. In addition a group of like-minded children playing games together, more sense of accomplishment. Therefore, under the catalyst of the idea of heroism, they play games happily, even eating and sleeping are playing games. Forget about time, forget about learning, forget all about it.
2. After having a cell phone, the child's communication is more convenient, and the child is more dependent on the cell phone. With the renewal of smart phones, more and more functions of the phone, people are more and more dependent on the phone, the phone is more and more convenient. Not only do adults generally play with cell phones, children can not leave the phone, the family each holds a cell phone every day laughing, immersed in the virtual world can not be extricated. Neglecting to care for the children, subconsciously influence the children to rely on cell phones, addicted to cell phones. In addition, your child needs a cell phone to complete his/her homework and interest classes in school. So the cell phone has become an indispensable part of the child's study and life.
3. Children playing with cell phones are more conducive to social activities. Nowadays, when children talk about the role of the game, they will be talking about the role of the game, the cell phone to play well become the standard of the child's social skills. Children who play cell phones well have better social skills, do better in school and have more friends. Cell phones have become a symbol of socialization. I remember going to Nanjing last month to play, when I didn't bring my cell phone, the moving car and cab went up smoothly, but stayed in the hotel got into trouble, so I called the police, the police came or didn't stay in the hotel, and then changed the hotel to solve the matter. My personal experience tells us that cell phones are crucial in socializing. That's why more and more kids are keen to play with their cell phones.
4. Children who play with cell phones are better thinkers, they understand many lessons by listening to them once, are better thinkers, and are more imaginative and creative. Therefore smart kids are more keen to play with their cell phones, they think independently, are imaginative and creative, are more efficient and therefore have more recreational time.
5. Children who play with cell phones have a greater sense of family responsibility. By playing with cell phones to return them, children have a greater sense of time, a greater sense of family responsibility and a more harmonious relationship with their parents. Children know that they need to protect their cell phones and other items, so they will protect their families and establish a sense of family responsibility from an early age. Therefore, children who play with cell phones have a greater sense of family responsibility.
6. Children who play with cell phones have a higher emotional intelligence, through the group play games to establish teamwork, read novels to understand the relationship between the sexes, play Shakeology to learn to deal with the world, children who play with cell phones from childhood, grow up to have a higher emotional intelligence, and know more about women. Therefore, the children who play the cell phone, more and more excellent.
Children playing cell phone addiction, parents fear, repeatedly prohibited, into a vicious circle. How to get the parents trapped in the mud pond to save it? Three small suggestions to help parents get out of the quagmire:
1. Guide the time and content of the child's cell phone play, open the teenager mode. Especially on vacation, play half an hour later, let the child put down the phone, look at the outside scenery, play offline games together, slow down visual fatigue, adjust the rest before playing. Nanjing, two groups of families ready to travel, parents to play the phone each, the results of the child because of playing the phone two families tour soup, each frustrated to go home. The two families' parents did not guide their children to play with their cell phones appropriately, and ultimately did not complete the perfect travel plan.
2. Project your phone onto the TV. Smartphones have the function of TV projection, so you can project the content of your phone to the TV at home, so that the children can see more intuitive content through the TV, the eyes are more comfortable, and the mood is more enjoyable. How to use the cell phone correctly is especially important for children's learning and life. Nowadays, smart phones basically have a projection function. The content in the cell phone is projected in the TV, and we can see it more straightforwardly. Basically, sixty percent of children do not know how to use the TV projection function in their cell phones. Famous actor Huo Siyan's son, uh-hum, has been playing with his cell phone since he was a child, and in the morning they wake up to the alarm clock of the song they recorded, and the cell phone and TV are seamlessly connected, and not only does uh-hum's cell phone playing not interfere with his schooling, his acting career, or his life, he has a cheerful personality, and is happy every day, and he learns as if he were a fish out of water. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the phone and get it to work, and then you'll be able to get it to work.
3. Parents usually interact more with their children, play less on the phone, and be a good role model. I remember a few years ago, a child said in the video of the jittery sound of a paragraph to speak especially heartbreaking: the phone is the parents of the child, every day, parents are holding the phone, inch by inch, mom and dad, please accompany me more, kiss me, hug me. This paragraph speaks the heart of most children. It signals to adults to spend more time with their children. The child's world is very pure and simple, just ask mom and dad to put down the cell phone, spend more time with them, this small request can not be satisfied. Therefore, parents should give children high-quality companionship, to meet their requirements, more companionship with them, hug them, kiss them.
Children play with cell phones, and the more they play, the better they get. Those children who are guided and encouraged by their parents to take advantage of their rest time and play with their cell phones appropriately have grown up to be the pillars of the country. Should be a saying: in the past the beacon play the vassals, now the four seas a machine to pass. Playing with cell phones is becoming more and more common. Therefore, we can not vote against the children who play with cell phones. Rather, we should guide our children to play with cell phones appropriately and reasonably. It can be said that children who play with cell phones are stronger and better when they grow up. Therefore parents should guide and support their children to play cell phones reasonably and be the master of the cell phone.