A lot of mothers give birth to a baby, in order to make ends meet for the family had to go back to work after maternity leave, leaving the child to grandma or grandma to take care of. But the old man's health itself is declining, more or less unable to do so. In addition, the old concept of parenting is not compatible with the present, the mother is also a headache. Here are a few working moms who have had trouble leaving their children with the elderly. Let's see how many of these pains you've experienced.
1, the elderly poor care, a rash
Small Zhang said: the baby drooling is more serious, in order to take care of the child for the convenience of the mother-in-law, she prepared a lot of disposable dry soft towels at home. Tell your mother-in-law, if the baby drooling, take the soft towel wipe, disposable throw away on it, and then give the baby coated with a little oil cream, the baby corners of the mouth, the face will not be red and cracked.
It's cold and windy, and when I get home, I always see my baby's face red, and the corners of my mouth even have rashes, so I don't know how much I'm going to miss it. I thought the soft towels and creams at home were all used up, and I was ready to buy some more, but it turned out that there wasn't much less. I asked my mother-in-law to realize that during the day, when they went to work, my mother-in-law took the baby out for a walk, and I never brought a soft towel (something more, heavy, inconvenient), and I went out with a handkerchief, and I wiped the baby's mouth with a little bit of drooling.......
2 This is the first time I've ever seen a baby in the world, and it's been a long time coming. , scolding, hitting Small Li is to bring her daughter to one year old before handing over to her mother-in-law, go out to work. In the past, when she was with her children, her daughter was very good, and after taking food, she would always eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat, eat. To the mother-in-law to take the daughter, found that the daughter completely from the little princess into a woman, her things, Xiaoli can not eat, if the hard to take and eat, will keep shouting: "Mom is a bad guy, mom is a bad guy." Sometimes will also do it, once Xiaoli afraid of her daughter ate too much, will be the daughter like to eat cookies into their mouths, the arms of the daughter directly to the hands of the cookies thrown to, reach out to Xiaoli's mouth buckle, Xiaoli's lips are scratched. Going out is more and children a sentence of discord, swinging a big ear scrape on. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do it. 3, the hands of degradation, will not eat on their own Small Chen's baby is the mother in the band, the mother's health is not good, the baby to eat and fuss, in order to allow the baby to eat a meal in peace and quiet, Chen's mother is always to the meal time, turn on the TV, bite by bite to feed the baby to eat, the baby eat after watching TV. The baby ate after watching TV in the slot to eat themselves. It did not take long, Xiao Chen found out, the baby does not watch TV does not eat, eat never hands, the whole person is degraded, the mother also said the baby behaved a lot. 4
Small Li said he went to work and gave his children to his mother-in-law to take care of. The mother-in-law is a square dance fan, every morning and evening and sisters in groups on the square dance, exercise. Now the baby is also an unapologetic little square dance fan, as soon as you hear the music will twist the little waist. (Luckily, I'm not a fan of mahjong, I can recognize mahjong tiles better than my own mother.) In the morning and afternoon when you have time to get together with the old ladies, listening to people chatting, happy, pass the time, a variety of neighborhood gossip, neighbors nickname, a variety of old people scolding, flirting with people's words, the whole of the city of Xiaoming.
5Fluent in the hometown language, the school is not used to
Small Pen and her husband are foreigners, after the birth of the child, small Pen's mother to take care of the child. Because her mother's Mandarin wasn't very good, she was used to speaking the language of her family, and her baby was also speaking the language of her hometown, which she had found to be fine. Later, when she went to kindergarten, Xiaotian realized that something was wrong, why the baby came back from the kindergarten, the whole person was wilted, and asked the baby that no one would play with him. The teacher told him that his fluent hometown dialect, (despite his efforts to speak Mandarin in kindergarten, his hometown accent is still quite obvious), was not well understood by most of the children, and he was gradually isolated.
These old people with children's pain, I do not know, you have encountered a few? In fact, when you meet these problems do not blame the elderly, think about it from a different perspective, the old man is not enjoying the blessings of life is not easy to give us with children. They are either the child's grandmother or the child's grandmother, in fact, in their hearts are hoping that the child towards the direction of the good. So when you meet the problem, less side-eye, less complaints and quarrels, more communication and understanding, I believe that the elderly with children will also be better and better ......