See Ms. Yang Liping in a certain sound to send a video of eating hot pot, was a netizen bad comment on the hot search, feel very surprised.
Carefully understand the ins and outs to know, the original this netizen do not like Yang Liping's life course, also do not recognize her success.
She said: "a woman's biggest failure is not a child, the so-called live out their own are blindfolded, so that you are young again 30 years old, to the age of 100, your face can not remain 30 years old like, even if you are beautiful and excellent are unable to escape the ravages of the years, to the age of 90 years old, children and grandchildren that kind of heavenly joy. "
What's even sadder is that this comment has been liked more than 10,000 times. This means that most women recognize the "female reproductive value theory" and believe that women only have value if they have children, otherwise, even if you earn more money, have a successful career, are beautiful and live a long life, it's all bullshit, as long as you don't have a boy or a girl, you're a loser.
My God! How narrow-minded is this woman, you can't have crossed over from the Qing Dynasty, and still think that the value of women's existence is to pass on the family name.
Qi Wei can't stand to see it go, posted a message in support of Yang Liping: "A person's biggest failure: is to this day, is still giving us "woman" definition, but also to the children and grandchildren as a woman's only achievement. Procreation tool? We're not that anymore!"
This is tantamount to saying that women who believe that a woman's worth is to procreate are not being pressured by others to do so, but rather that she sets her own limits on life, and no one is forcing her to do so.
And then when she has children and lives a not-so-happy life, she comes back to blame men for not being able to provide a happy life for her. Isn't that a contradiction in terms?
Leaving aside the fact that Yang Liping's childlessness is her own freedom in life, her dedication to her career is commendable. She did not give birth to children and did not eat rice in order to keep her body in shape, and contributed her whole life to the dance career. What she sought was artistic fulfillment, not a narrow life of faggotry and vulgarity.
Of course, it's not that there's anything wrong with choosing to live a life of faggotry and childbearing, but rather, since you chose to have children, it's your freedom in life, and Dinkists won't interfere nor will they be able to pontificate on your life.
Similarly, a woman who chooses not to have children and insists on walking her own unique life, that's her freedom, and those who like to have children have no business judging them.
Respect for others is the only way to make society more harmonious.
Respect yourself, in order to make life more peaceful.
"Little Dragon Girl" Li Ruotong also couldn't help but support Yang Liping while speaking out for herself, she posted a blog post saying:
"Today I see a lot of discussion about women, as an unmarried, mature woman, my comments, private messages, and every single day I'm receiving such questions as I would say, why do you have to get married? Maybe you didn't meet the right person at the right time, and not getting married is better than finding the wrong one and making do! You who are reading this tweet, no matter you are male or female, I hope you don't make hasty decisions for your own life because of your age and other people's gazes, and you should learn to know how to respect other people's decisions because it's someone else's life."
The hardest thing to do between people is to respect, some people always like to force their own values into others, such as the concept of marriage, the concept of childbirth, they think that women only get married and have children, life is complete, otherwise it is in vain to come to earth.
To be honest, it's really a matter of eating the carrot and not worrying about it. I often hear some people talk about, "What does she have, so what if she is so rich, but still no one wants her, she can't get married, and she can't even give birth to a child."
Moral abduction is like an invisible knife, stuck into someone's chest, not see the blood, but already injured.
A woman's perception of her own value determines what kind of life you lead.
You think that having children is the life you want to lead, then you will become a wife and a mother; you think that the family is all you have, the woman goes out to work is sorry for the family and the children, then you will become a housewife; you think that you have a strong sense of enterprise, like to fight in the workplace more than stay at home and teach the children, then you will become a woman of strength; you think that you are willing to You think you are willing to sacrifice your reproductive rights for the sake of your career, that is entirely your freedom.
Lin Qiaozhi, a renowned obstetrician and gynecologist, chose not to marry for the sake of her medical career, and when she was 20 years old, her family was worried about her marriage and told her not to take the entrance exam for Concordia Hospital.
Lin Qiaozhi was adamant about taking the exams, and even put down a harsh word: "Then I won't marry for the rest of my life!"
She devoted her life to obstetrics and gynecology, delivering more than 50,000 newborns, and even delivering six babies the day before she died. She was known as the "Mother of All Babies", "Angel of Life" and "Mother of Chinese Medicine", while she herself was childless.
Is it possible to comment on her achievements and contributions to life that she is a failure simply because she has no children?
That kind of value and outlook on life is too narrow.
Yang Liping is not as big as Lin Qiaozhi's contribution, but her artistic achievement is indisputable.
Her "Peacock Dance" "Spirit of the Sparrow" won the Gold Medal of the 20th century dance classics of the Chinese nation, and is the first mainland Chinese dance artist to perform in Taiwan, and with this original dance became famous overseas.
At home, she may only represent herself, but as soon as she steps out of the country, she represents not only herself, but also the image of the country and its artistic achievements.
In 2011, she also "beautiful and fashionable Chinese" image, appeared in the United States in New York Times Square promo, Yang Liping and F Bingbing, Zhang Ziyi, Zhang Zilin, Zhou Xun is known as "China's five beauties".
Yang Liping's achievements, enough that the bad reviews of the netizen acid decades can not reach, do not take their own low insight to measure the height of other people's lives.
How high your vision is, how wide your life path is, you would like to guard your own acreage, stubbornly set their own life limitations, no one interferes with you, but please don't point your finger at other people's lives, because you can't reach it.
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