Recommendations from parents are a little more reliable, but due to the fact that most young people today have a starting point higher than their parents' generation, I really don't like the grades recommended by people in my parents' circle of friends.
The seven aunts and eight aunts. . . Alas, it’s hard to put it into words.
Aunt Seven and Eight: Little A, let me introduce you to a boy. He is energetic and tall. He is preparing to take the civil service exam. His parents are helping him look at houses and cars.
Fact: A boy without a house, a car, or a job may not be more than 1.7 meters tall when wearing air-cushion shoes, and his appearance is often "average."
You gritted your teeth and ended the interview. If you didn’t agree, the seventh aunt and eighth aunt who helped introduce you soon would definitely mention it on a certain occasion, and on the one hand, you would praise yourself for screwing up for the younger generation. On the other hand, I talked to the elders about how ignorant this girl was, and so on.
Many elders have introduced this person, and they have never even met this person. Once when they met people of the same age while dancing in the square, walking, or going to the market, they talked about relatives and children and dared to introduce him even before they met the children. Dare to claim to know the root cause. Anyway, there is no cost. If nothing happens, you can brag to the parents about how much you care about them. If the blind cat encounters a dead mouse, you can still charge a "matchmaker fee" and make a lot of money. Wouldn't it be nice?
The case just now is still a "selective presentation" and not an obvious "fabrication". I guess there should be many examples of the latter, right? It's a miracle that even the most basic information can be faked successfully.
I am not a blind date agency, but my wife and I have successfully introduced 57 couples. Many people are curious about how there can be so many couples? In fact, they were all blood and tears.
What is the way to open a matchmaker?
1. Know people. I use my many years of experience in dating to help men and women, understand their family situation, work situation, and personal situation, and then match them with a suitable partner. You can't just ask me to find a king for you, right? I will repeatedly verify all the situations on both sides. Whether it is a success or not, at least it cannot be a scumbag.
2. Matchmaking. When dozens of people read this answer, they will definitely think of me helping you communicate all night long on the phone and send WeChat messages. They will never forget how I coordinated and mediated when one party had a quarrel and had a misunderstanding. As a matchmaker , there is no level at all, and it is unqualified.
3. Surround. The ancients said that "like-minded people unite" and "different people do not seek each other's will." What kind of person am I as a matchmaker? What kind of men and women can I attract? If the matchmaker is unreliable, how dare you let him introduce a partner? This matchmaker must be a leader in the industry and a role model. Only in this way can outstanding people trust him and dare to tell him everything about himself. Even if he fails to help introduce him successfully, he can at least protect their privacy and live up to their reputation. Trust, help people introduce people to get married, not create grudges. I received thousands of resumes. Which friend’s information was exposed? Which close friend has had his or her life affected by introducing someone to me? You can slap me in the face directly in the message box.
Such a comparison shows that the main reason for the low success rate of elders in introducing people is that their strength does not allow them to do so, and they are not careless, they are just chasing ducks to get on the shelves.