On New Year's Day, children who are away from home will return home and buy something as a gift for their parents. At this time, the parents will often make some comments on the child to buy things, think the child to buy things expensive and so on. Some people may think that their parents are disgusted with their purchases. But this is not necessarily the case. The reason why ...... says this is because the reason why parents make comments about what their children buy is because the things their children buy are more expensive, the things their children buy are not practical, and the parents don't want their children to spend more money.
1, the child bought something more expensive, parents think it is not worth it.
The number one reason why some people buy things for their parents on New Year's Day that their parents 'dislike' is that they buy things that are more expensive. ...... Although the things they buy for their parents are good in their own right, in their parents' opinion, they are too expensive to be worth it. That's why the parent makes a comment that gives the child the impression that the parent 'resents' what they bought.
2, the parent feels that the things the child buys are not practical and therefore makes a comment.
In some cases, the reason why parents 'dislike' what their children buy is because what they buy is not practical. ...... For parents, the most important thing they pay attention to for all kinds of supplies in their daily life is practicality. When they feel that the things their children buy for them are not practical, they will show a little dissatisfaction, making their children feel 'disliked'.
3, parents don't want their children to spend more money, so they deliberately say that the things their children buy are inappropriate.
Besides the above two cases, there is another important reason that parents don't want their children to spend more money, so they purposely say that the things their children buy are not good. ...... Every parent wants their child to live a happy life, so when the child spends a lot of money on something for themselves, the parent will deliberately say that what they bought is not good because they don't want the child to affect their own life for this, as a way to stop the child from buying something for themselves again. ...... In this case, although the parents are ostensibly 'disliking' what their child has bought, in reality the parents are genuinely doing that for the child's own good.