When you are raising a child by yourself, you may feel that the child is very annoying, pestering you every day, and you have no time to do other things. You want to spend most of your time working hard or hanging out with friends. When playing, I don’t have much patience to treat my children. I feel that the children hinder my play time, and I will vent a lot of emotions on the children. In fact, this is wrong, especially after becoming grandparents, I will treat my children. Very doting, on the one hand, it is a way to make up for the time when I was young. There is an old man in Chongqing who is a hard core and has become famous for his doting on his children. He made a small train to pick up his grandson from school. How light is it to have a second-generation kiss? Let’s take a look together!
1. Ways for the elderly to pamper their children
When the elderly get older, in addition to playing mahjong and square dancing at retirement age, they also play with their grandchildren. When they are young, they will enjoy family happiness, so for them, the time spent with their grandchildren is very beautiful. Some elderly people have received higher education, so they are not lax in educating their children. For example, if they know a foreign language, they will Teaching your grandchildren what you have learned is actually a very positive way of raising children. However, some elderly people will overindulge their children. For example, if their children are already very big, they have to chase them to feed them. , or he will always help the child do things that are clearly within his ability. In fact, this method is very bad and will make a normal child unable to even basic self-care ability, so we must put an end to this kind of pampering. way.
Second, how close are you to someone who is a generation apart?
When they were young, most people had to work to earn money to support their families, so they didn’t have much time to play with their children. In fact, deep down, I still felt a little guilty about my children, so after I had my grandson, I They will pamper their grandson especially and give them whatever they want. They will even agree to unreasonable requests. If their grandson has a headache and fever and needs to go to the hospital, they will be more anxious than a child and will be so anxious that they can sleep at night. Unconsciously, they treat their grandchildren better than their own children.
In short, it is a very happy thing for the elderly at home to pamper their children. Not every child has grandparents to pamper, so grandparents doting on their children also reflects the warmth of a family.