Grandpa passed away, see grandma alone my heart aches how to do

How old is your grandmother, sometimes the departure of loved ones is not by a few words of concern, a few packages of filial piety gifts can be exchanged back, especially when the age of the couple who have spent most of their lives, your grandfather's death, the biggest impact is your grandmother, regardless of the relationship between the grandfather's life whether or not the harmony, even if it will be occasional quarrels are also the same, because the departure of the take away is not only a person, and all of his right and wrong, more is to miss. I remember two such couples. I remember two pairs of such old people, both took more than three years to recover, or actually did not recover, but only in the eyes of the children to see the recovery, they have appeared in the three years of irritability, forgetfulness, insomnia symptoms, because this kind of blow is mental. As the younger generation,

Suggest you do the following things, can only be said to alleviate, can not be said to let the old man completely restored to your grandfather died before. First, do not let her get along alone, with or without conditions are recommended that she and her children live together, so that the younger generation to distract her attention; second, all the relatives especially not live with her, to go back to visit her on a regular basis, not be able to let her be left out, so that she would be more likely to supplement the psychological kind of loss, including your intergenerational generation to do, may also be better; third, to solve the problem of all the trouble behind her, no matter how many times she has been in the hospital. Behind all the trouble, whether it is Grandpa did not deal with things, or economic, health problems, so that she does not have to worry about; Fourth, the need to cultivate her interests, such as and the neighborhood of similar age every day regularly go to the exercise, walks, square dancing and so on, so that her life is full of, it will be better

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