Su Yan, vivo mobile phone, no beauty and no filter. I just washed my face with water, and there are a few drops of watermark on my jeans.
Uniqlo Sea Soul Shirts are on sale. I also bought one for my daughter. Her height 175cm is higher than mine 10cm.
This is not only for girls, but also for boys, because men and women wear the same paragraph.
I am 7 1 year old, with a nominal age of 49. It has been more than a year since Mr. Wang left my daughter and me because of illness.
I have been thinking about him every day since he left. To reassure him, I try to live every day. I know he doesn't want to see me cry.
I have two cats. They are always with me.
I try to heal myself and warm others with a smile every day.
After vicissitudes of life, I look down on everything. I just want to make myself and my daughter simple and happy.
As for the rest, it doesn't matter anymore.
I have never done a beauty series, but I have never dared to indulge myself too much. Now I insist on exercising for more than an hour every day and try my best to keep fit. I am 40 years old and my weight is 96 kg.
I remember a saying that whether a woman is young or not depends on the thickness of the side. Even if the face looks good, the waist on the side will be bloated.
I admit that I do have the heart of a middle-aged girl. Because I am the youngest in my family, my parents have always spoiled me, and then I met my husband. Plus, I haven't experienced many things, and my mentality is very simple, so I like to dress younger, but they are all within a reasonable range. But my words and deeds have always been careless and feminine, so people around me don't think I'm artificial.
In fact, who doesn't like to dress younger, as long as it's not too much, I think it's more pleasing than not slapping myself every day and dressing old-fashioned every day!
Attached is a photo of university spirit last fall.
I have such a female friend around me, who is 82 years old and almost 37 years old. She always has a girlish heart. She often dresses up as a girl in her twenties, including after having children. She has a loud voice, belongs to the category of social butterfly, is versatile, can get along with all kinds of people, is outgoing and generous, but is not very reliable, and basically meets people.
So, what is the mentality of this middle-aged woman dressed like a little girl?
1, I hope I will always be young and make myself more attractive. So is my friend. I once had an in-depth chat with her. A fourth grader should wear clothes about her age, but she just likes to wear teenagers. The reason is that it can make her look younger.
Because, in the eyes of many people, middle-aged women, if they don't pay attention to dressing up and dress like aunts, will look old-fashioned and will be regarded as broken flowers and unattractive. Dressing younger can make them look younger and more attractive.
2. The maturity of the heart is generally lower than the actual age. Most middle-aged women wear the same clothes as little girls. Generally speaking, their mentality is relatively young, generally ten years younger than their actual age. Their ideological concepts, consumption concepts and three views are lower than their peers, and their maturity will be lower.
3. Make the opposite sex more recognized. For example, my friend who often dresses up as a little girl will ask me, what about these clothes and pants? Does it look nice? Even if it doesn't look good, I will say it looks good, just don't want to hurt her confidence. When I saw her happy after being affirmed, I knew she just wanted to be recognized by others, especially the opposite sex.
It caters to men's taste. Why do middle-aged women still wear the same clothes, pants and shoes as little girls? It is because men always like to be eighteen, and women want to cater to men's love. So 18, girls in their twenties are dressed to cater to men's appreciation level. My friend, when she often wears girls' clothes, indeed, most men like it, so many people are willing to deal with her.
I don't know how to dress. There is nothing wrong with some women who dress like little girls and look good. However, there are some women in their forties who wear the same clothes as their daughters, which are really ugly, just like Liu Xiaoqing, 59, who plays a girl of 17 years old in The Legend of Heroes in Sui and Tang Dynasties. So we can only say that this kind of woman is cunning.
I am a middle-aged woman who likes to dress up as a little girl. What mentality do you want to ask?
I don't have any special mentality. I have been used to it since I was a child. I like to dress myself up. My hobby is wearing. I like other things and I like to wear them. What's wrong with this?
I like dressing like a little girl, but my figure has never changed. Besides, I don't look older than my actual age, so the style of clothes I bought hasn't changed. Actually, what's wrong with dressing beautifully and dressing younger? Makes me feel confident, makes me feel comfortable, and makes my husband feel that I will never grow up. Don't some women blame their husbands for cheating and dislike her? Why is he cheating outside? Because the woman outside is young and beautiful, her wife is like a yellow-faced woman who doesn't like it. She does housework all day, that is, reciting scriptures in front of her husband. Her husband must think that the women outside are pleasing to the eye, beautiful and gentle. If she is a wife, don't be lazy every day, clean herself up, be beautiful, speak softly and be considerate to her husband. You should make him proud to take you out.
I haven't been to work since I had a child. I do housework at home and take care of the children. My child is sixteen years old. My husband never said anything about me, and I didn't find him cheating. He did business outside one day and had many friends, including many friends of the opposite sex. I never look at his cell phone or go through his bag. Sometimes he goes on business for many days, and I never call him. He always calls me and finishes talking. I always let him feel that I left him, not because I couldn't find a man, but because I might find someone better than him, so that he wouldn't mess around outside. A woman, no matter how old she is, must love herself. In fact, there are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women Dressing up beautifully is not to respect yourself, but also to respect others.
I am 53 years old, and my clothes are bought according to the standards of a 25-year-old girl. The effect is very good, and it won't make people feel deliberately act young. First, I am slim and small. Second, I am not ugly, with no wrinkles and spots on my face and fair skin. Third, I have a gentle voice and a good personality, so many people I don't know call me Little Beauty. I am always in a good mood and confident. If I am happy every day, I look younger. It's really a virtuous circle, so women should be kind to themselves, others and their hearts. That's right!
Once I brushed a Tik Tok, which said that there was an elder sister who was actually over 40 years old, but wore a sling with the caption: 30 years old forever.
Look at the feeling she wears, there is no sense of disobedience, and it feels quite good. At the age of 40, she can still look like 30, which shows that she is very happy and has a good attitude.
Life is really not as beautiful as imagined, but in fact, everyone has ups and downs, so after many years, whether you live well or not depends mainly on your mentality.
A person's mentality affects her face again, which is probably the so-called mutual affection. So, she can wear it, and it looks good, no problem.
Then I want to say, even if it doesn't look good on her, don't worry too much. After all, everyone has their own life. Sometimes, we are exhausted trying to manage ourselves, let alone pay attention to other people's unimportant things.
Pay more attention to yourself. Maybe many years later, you will have a successful career, look like 30 years old, look good and dress young.
Again, mind your own business, regardless of other people's business, let alone God's business.
Middle-aged women dress like little girls, which shows that this person is young and not fat. Without a note, fat people can't wear it if they want to. People dress young and have physical capital. Is full of confidence! Otherwise, a chubby person with a big belly and a thick waist will be fattened up to buy clothes, even if she is a little girl, she can't wear it with the size of a fat sister-in-law in the Soviet Union!
Xiaoyan in my community is 50 years old and her granddaughter is five years old. She always weighs 100 kg. "Good girl 100", but the key family is 1 m 72! She dressed like a little girl for a long time, holding her granddaughter, and everyone thought it was her first baby! She can live, no matter what outsiders think of her, she is very fashionable, like a 18-year-old girl, but she is picking up the old clothes left by her daughters, nieces and other seven aunts.
Good parents, good figure. This can only make people envy and hate! Who has no son or daughter? But your arms and legs are too thick to wear at all. It's no use leaving clothes there to get angry. I can't see a piece of meat just to put on fashionable clothes. People get fat when they get old. Some people are very old even if they are thin. Let her wear it. She doesn't like it either. Dressing is a hobby and habit of personal life.
Some women who wear navel-revealing clothes don't wear them to death. My neighbor's sister has never liked wearing jeans. In her opinion, it is very unpleasant. She also has the conditions to buy good clothes, but likes to wear heavy clothes. Because you dress casually, it is convenient to do housework!
There are two main situations. First, I really like act young. I used to have a colleague who was almost 50 years old and dressed like a student or canvas shoes. When I first went to that unit, I was always curious about her age, because she was dressed young, but her face was very old. Later, I learned that her husband was the leader. She used to be afraid of her husband's philandering, especially insecure. Or one is really young, and I feel that I am not old, and I still stay in my youth. He naturally won't wear old clothes. This kind of person can not only dress, but also have the temperament of a little girl, and his mind is relatively simple when talking and doing things. This kind of person has never suffered since he was a child. When he was young, his parents spoiled him. After marriage, his husband spoiled him and kept him childlike.
I am thirty-eight years old. To be honest, I don't think the passage of time has brought me much influence. Days flow quietly like running water, but my mind hasn't changed much. It's just that no one can resist the change of my appearance and posture. I have been dressed casually for decades, but I am not as fashionable as a little girl, and I never wear makeup or makeup. Perhaps because of genetic problems, people in my family are more anti-aging and look younger than their peers. I think what kind of clothes to wear is just a personal preference, as long as it is not too fancy, there is no big problem.
My mother's figure is well managed. She can wear clothes that I can't wear after giving birth to a baby. The sister downstairs will also give her clothes that her mother doesn't want to wear. They are shorter than their daughters, and their bodies are well managed, so they can wear their daughters' clothes.
Many mothers who have daughters will begin to enjoy clothes with their daughters when they are in their teens. When my daughter is in her twenties or thirties, she gives her mother clothes that she doesn't want to wear or can't wear. Some grandmothers don't even want to pick up school uniforms that their grandchildren don't wear.
The younger half was picked up by her daughter, so she was young. Half of them like this style of dressing, and feel that it suits them and is comfortable to wear. There are also some women who are as self-disciplined as my mother and manage their bodies well. They have been the same for more than twenty years. They can still wear the clothes five years ago, ten years ago and twenty years ago, and they have been wearing them all the time. The Queen of England and other people wearing their young dresses are said to be beautiful. They are thrifty, which is a good proof of body management. They say they have good taste. The clothes they took out decades ago are always classic and suitable for people aged 30 to 80. So why can't the clothes that Chinese aunts love to wear be appreciated in this way? Mentality is like continuing the style of dressing when you were young, and you don't have to change your style because you are out of shape.
What clothes to wear at what age? Who stipulated the clothing style at this age? Is it a reference star? Or is it because most people in this group dress like this?
The star is well managed and wears clothes worn by more than 20 girls in their fifties and sixties! Most ordinary aunts are getting fat, not because they don't want to wear little girl's clothes, but because they can't wear them, and even if they do, they don't look good. Then why are those middle-aged and elderly hot moms who are still slim and look twenty or thirty years old criticized because most other women are not self-disciplined?
Many people like to keep up with the trend. If you happen to like this fashion clothes and wear them well, will you buy them? If you can't wear this kind of clothes because of your poor figure, are other people who can wear this kind of clothes also making mistakes?
I am very proud of my mother's good figure. I am proud that my mother is in her fifties, and her figure is as graceful as her twenties and thirties. I am proud that my mother and I can wear the same clothes and go out like sisters. I am not as self-disciplined as my mother, but I will try my best to get back into shape when my baby is older, hoping to make my daughter envy her body as my mother does.
In fact, not only middle-aged and elderly women will be criticized for dressing up, but people of all ages will be criticized for wearing clothes. My three-year-old daughter and I have to be told that others like to wear tight clothes, saying that clothes should be dressed properly to look good, and we don't look like loose clothes. But as long as we feel comfortable. Tight clothes are hard to restrain our bodies, and we can do nothing with our hands tied. It's good that children don't easily show their stomachs when they buy clothes of a larger size. I am taller and like to wear long skirts. The little people who are 1.5 meters tall told me that they don't like it because they are too short to wear long skirts. People always make irresponsible remarks about people who dress differently from themselves. Fortunately, my mother-in-law doesn't like other people's tight clothes, saying that it restricts children's development and is not tall when wrapped tightly. Haha, come on, hurt each other!