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201April 09, a marriage certificate of an 82-year-old bride and a 93-year-old groom was wildly screened in the circle of friends. The protagonists in the photo are Mary and Xu Wenhe.
They are all drama actors of Twist FunAge, and they have been together for a long time when filming. After being discovered by the media, the two publicly showed their love on various occasions, and wherever they went, they were full of happiness.
Looking at the film and television entertainment circle in recent years, it can be said that it is often screened by such siblings: Christy Chung and Zhang Lunshuo 12 years old, Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse 1 1 0 years old, Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao 165438 years old, Hong Xin and Andy 10 years old, and Deng Wendi, who was once a smash hit.
In our life, this kind of "old cow eats young grass" marriage is also everywhere.
Why is there such a perverse marriage and love combination in most people's minds? In the final analysis, there are three reasons.
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Young men have a more positive and persistent attitude towards love.
I have a good friend named Ruyun (a pseudonym). She is a traditional gentle woman. She and her husband Kay were introduced to each other. Shortly after the marriage, she discovered that Liu Kai (a pseudonym), once a "modest gentleman", was actually a "domestic violence man".
Not only that, Liu Kai is a serious "male chauvinist", and he is always full of doubts about a beautiful face like a cloud.
For the sake of young children, Ruyun has been forbearing. Until the third grade of primary school, Liu Kai took a bus from his male colleague on his way home on rainy days, and once again lost control and hit the hospital like a cloud.
I can't bear it, like a cloud running away from home with children and suing for divorce on the grounds of domestic violence.
After the divorce, Ruyun took care of her children alone. Although life was hard, she was very happy. After a long time, relatives and friends have been looking for a boyfriend for Ruyun, hoping that she can find a man who is like her for the rest of her life.
Most of the people introduced are men who are much bigger than Yun.
Yes, these men still think that they have brought a boy like a cloud and will have a heavy burden of life in the future. A few young men, either the conditions are not good, or please ask Ruyun to raise children with her in-laws. They only accept this person as a cloud.
My beloved son yearns like a cloud. How can I leave my son behind? She refused all blind dates and made up her mind not to remarry, taking her son and mother to live a good life.
Just then, a new male college student Lin Wei (a pseudonym) came to the office.
When newcomers enter the workplace, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of bumps and bumps, and they will treat each other as a little brother and give a lot of help silently. In contact, they were pleasantly surprised to find that they both had many hobbies.
After work, they often talk happily. They used to be depressed like a cloud, and there was a lot of laughter in their lives.
Knowing the identity of Ruyun's single mother, Lin Wei lamented that it was not easy for her, and often picked up her children when Ruyun dragged her off work. After a long time, Lin Wei began to pursue Ruyun after deep thinking and wanted to spend his life with Ruyun.
After a failed marriage, Ruyun avoided Lin Wei's fierce offensive.
The bondage of traditional ideas to divorced women comes from the criticism of people around her that "old cows eat young grass", which makes her afraid to take this step anyway.
Although Lin Wei is young, he is a man of his own mind. He knows the scruples like a cloud, silently shouldering the burden of a man being the master beside her, and running his own life before and after running.
In getting along with Ruyun's son, he is like a friend, like a father, and mingles with his children. That child, with a cloud in his heart, accepted this uncle like his brother earlier.
After two years of love jogging, Ruyun finally accepted this excellent boy from the heart and entered the marriage hall with Lin Wei, opening a new happy life.
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Young men love love more and know more about romance.
There are always some maverick women around us, living a very self-centered life. They know what kind of life they want, refuse worldly bondage, dare to love and hate, and are chic and independent.
Gu Man (pseudonym) is such a woman.
After graduating from a famous university, regardless of her parents' hope, she found a man-like arrangement, got married early and lived a comfortable life.
I started from an online shop and started the online and offline sales business of featured agricultural products. Because of his flexible mind, he is willing to endure hardships. A few years later, the physical store has become a small-scale chain model.
With money, Gu Man's spare time is also colorful. Riding, going on the road, hiking and vigorous steps have almost traveled all over China.
Gu Man, in her thirties, couldn't resist the pressure from her parents and joined the blind date team. But those men are almost the epitome of a steady and plain life, which makes her feel disgusted.
On a trip, she met a man Chen Jie (a pseudonym) who was seven or eight years younger than herself. They shared the same interests and laughed all the way, leaving beautiful memories.
After the trip, Gu Man made a decisive decision to develop Chen Jie into her boyfriend. Chen Jie, who also had a good impression on Gu Man, jumped ship to work in a neighboring city before her, and began to date Gu Man frequently.
An elaborate star-gazing trip, an ingenious and warm weekend, and a sudden mysterious gift. Chen Jie's passion and romance almost satisfied Gu Man's desire for beautiful love.
Gu Man fell in love happily and decided that Chen Jie was the "right man" for her.
Although the relationship was opposed by many people when it was first established, some people said that "brotherly love" was unreliable, and some people said that "old cows eat young grass" was ugly.
Even both parents jumped out to stop it, but they didn't bow to resistance in the face of love. They proved with practical actions that they can be happy together.
After marriage, as everyone imagined, they respect, understand and tolerate each other. Wherever they go, they always smile at each other.
Today, their children are 4 years old, and the husband and wife are as loving as when they are in love.
Of course, in managing this marriage, Gu Man did the most and worked the hardest. Because she knows that only by making her heart strong and worthy of her high-quality men will not leave her.
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Young men can make people feel more passionate and bring different quality of life.
Ning Min (a pseudonym) is one of the best "Qian Jie" in a small town. In the early years, she and her husband started from scratch, starting from a baking room, and worked hard for more than ten years to open a pastry room with names all over every bustling section of the town.
Unfortunately, something unexpected happened. Her husband died in a car accident.
After Ning Min sent her son to college, she was already a middle-aged woman in her early forties. As a middle-aged rich woman with good looks, Ning Min also has the idea of remarriage. However, the road to remarriage is not so easy.
Find a man of the same age. Men in their forties are not only greasy in appearance, but also afraid of all kinds of calculations in marriage.
Find an elderly person, stand with Ning Min who is good at maintenance in recent years, and look like father and daughter. There are many obstacles to communication alone.
Ning Min simply gave up the idea of remarriage. In his spare time, he did beauty and aerobics with his girlfriends, and his life was very chic.
After a long time, Ning Min and the young coach in the gym came together.
I was busy with entrepreneurship in my early years and wasted my youth. So far, Ning Min has experienced all kinds of fun in life.
Ning Min is very rich, and this young coach is full of energy, enthusiasm and friendship.
This way of getting along without the purpose of getting married makes each other very relaxed and comfortable. As for the future outcome, whether to get married or not, Ning Min has a natural mentality.
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Most women are emotional.
When they choose love and marriage, they pay more attention to feelings and feelings. Although middle-aged men have certain economic strength and life experience, they inevitably have more realities and calculations in dealing with marriage and love.
But young men have more courage and motivation in love. They are more romantic and executive, but less sophisticated and smooth. This kind of love is often what women yearn for all their lives.
From Alyssa Chia and Jiexiu to Wendi Deng and her boyfriend, it is not difficult to see that those women who "eat young grass" are women who have the strength and confidence to attract high-quality men.
They have careers, looks, economic independence and self-confidence.
They have the ability to choose the best in life.
As long as she is good enough, age has never been an obstacle for a woman to pursue love.