? Your question reminds me of my former employer, who conducted an online employee evaluation every quarter. I am deeply impressed by a male colleague who ranks in the top all the year round. He is in the field, responsible for docking company customers and going out to handle business. The upstream and downstream partners have very good comments on him. He always gives people a sense of trust. In addition to hard work, skillful business and online business, he also has a quality that is often overlooked by others, which is reflected in his decent clothes. A colleague asked him why he went to work every day like wearing a new shirt. He replied that he usually shakes his clothes a few times when he hangs them on the hanger, and then he has to hold them for a while. Every night before going to bed, he will get the clothes ready for the next day and iron them with an ironing machine to make them look smoother. I was circled by him after listening to it. It is inevitable to stay up late in other places, but when other places show up in the office the next day with a beard and a tired face, he will be different immediately: his shirt is always several times cleaner than others' and there is no wrinkle. I heard that he is the kind of person who will go home to take a shower, shave, change clothes and come back to work even after work at 4 am. I waited for the elevator several times and saw him using the automatic shoe polisher in the office hall to clean shoes, remove dust with hard brush, oil the middle oil cup and polish with soft brush, which was very skilled. Another time I was in the hallway and saw him coming out of the bathroom. Holding a tissue that had just dried his hands, he leaned down to wipe the dust off his shoes and patted the dust off his trouser legs with his hands. He belongs to a busy and handsome man in my heart, not because of his high face value and strong aesthetics, but because he takes the initiative to tidy himself up and down, which is particularly attractive.
? At the end of each year, the company will hold an annual work meeting, and the managers of all departments will sit on the rostrum. Our manager, as the most popular female colleague of the opposite sex, has a handsome face, well-proportioned figure and decent manners, and suddenly stands out. Our whole department feels embarrassed. He insisted on exercising and dieting, feeling that he couldn't bear to disturb him even with a midlife crisis. He set up a fitness card near the company and went to the gym without taking a nap at noon. I heard that his daughter has been practicing swimming since she was a child, and he often takes his children to practice. At department dinners, every time we transfer hard dishes to him, he always politely shirks that he eats lightly. Only then did I realize how beneficial a boss with exercise habits is. Not to mention beauty, the dopamine secreted by his exercise makes him emotionally stable and optimistic. He is more inclined to make radical decisions, and the high promotion rate of subordinates who also love sports will also encourage everyone to be keen on sports. Many men who can keep their mouths shut and open their legs are also the brightest stars in the night sky in their careers.
? The first thing Obama does after getting up every morning is to rush into his gym and start exercising. Sarkozy was interviewed during the election campaign; John Rockefeller and Li Ka-shing play golf almost every day, Putin practices equipment, Liu makes a flat, Haruki Murakami runs a long-distance race ... Self-disciplined people can really get things done. And many people have loose and fat stomachs, which makes people want to burp. This really doesn't mean that you are busy, just an excessive performance.
? I have seen an example of a netizen god: a patient went to the hospital to see a doctor and met a doctor with a dirty beard. What was his first feeling? Is this man in a white coat sure he didn't kill the pig? This reminds me of Luo Zhenyu's New Year's speech on 20 16. He urged Luo Pang to change his sweatpants into narrow-leg pants, and he rose to the height of "the value of all efforts in life is to be a beautiful part". If you wear a pair of picky pants, you will need a relatively decent belt, and you will know that you lack some accessories. You make yourself better and more decent in the constant pursuit of life interest, which is self-discipline. Because dressing decently means suffering. It is very troublesome to take care of shirts and suits often when wearing a suit; You walk, sit and lie like a man, and you can't lie around; You should eat at a moderate speed and not be soaked in soup.
? Good things, in turn, are self-discipline. Dressing appropriately is not a tool to show off, but a tool to restrain yourself. Some people say that after listening to Luo Pang's speech, the biggest gain is to buy a high-class suit as soon as possible. If a speech allows men in the workplace to achieve such insight, then the benefits of this speech will be too broad. Luo Pang also said that many people who went to his company for an interview felt that they were talented, knowledgeable and capable, but they were sloppy, untidy and smelled bad. Luo Pang asserted that this is a disgraceful person, saying that he is not self-disciplined, and that life is boring without self-discipline. I have always believed that dressing appropriately is part of dedication in the workplace. After all, a person who doesn't care about his image probably won't care too much about how his work performance makes people feel.
? In fact, I think men are much simpler than women in image management. To sum up, it is nothing more than personal hygiene, decent clothes and energetic figure, but not many people do it well. I have read that Temasek listed the indecent points of male businessmen in China: the number of ties will never exceed five, and shirts will never be white enough. The image investment is unevenly distributed. They are willing to spend 3 million yuan on a Patek Philippe rather than a pair of dark socks in 30 yuan. As a result, when Chinese businessmen cross-legged, a piece of white was inadvertently exposed in the black trouser legs. Maybe many men still think that people who do big things are informal, but in fact, people who pay attention to small things have a better chance of winning.
? Liang Shiqiu has such observation and analysis on men's inferiority complex. Some men, although their suits and trousers are straight, have a neck heel behind their ears, and the soil is fertile, which is often suitable for growing wheat. Behind the sloppy and dirty, there is character, all because of laziness. "When you reach middle age, you can't blame your parents, but you should be responsible for your appearance, figure and image" actually applies to men, but there are too few reminders. When the body is inevitably relaxed, it is also a practice to control your body shape with the inside. When metabolism slows down, when work pressure is great, I don't allow myself to be too fat, greasy hair, upturned nose hair, a hero's dandruff and a man who doesn't allow himself to wear tube top pants. I respect him as a hero. Their self-awareness, self-discipline and perseverance really deserve our respect.