I want to start with a SLR with a budget of around 10000. Can you recommend one?

If you specialize in shooting objects and models, you can use Canon 70D body+15 85 lens, which is enough. If you pursue advanced image quality, you can focus on 50 1.4 or 85 1.8. The focusing operation is a bit uncomfortable for novice users, but if the image quality is completely NB, it can be 60D or even 650D 700D, mainly because the lens can't be sloppy. In addition, if there are reliable sellers, the above can be sold in two lots, which can be cheaper 15%-25%.

If you don't do this professionally, you don't need a light group. Just come to a TTL sub-factory, which is hundreds of times bigger than Yongnuo. The budget of the lighting group is terrible.

You don't need lights or flashlights to shoot this large equipment. As long as the light is normal, you can get on a tripod, and 200 frames is enough. Then, because this kind of thing is indispensable for shooting details, we should give up focusing. Canon 70D body+15 85 lens should be a good choice.