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A few days ago, a little girl in Zhengzhou, Henan Province was envied by countless netizens.
It turned out that165438+1October 7th was her birthday. In order to give her a surprise, dad prepared a very ceremonial birthday present in the trunk of the car.
He pulled in a banner filled with balloons, candles, flowers and birthday presents.
He turned into a prince, opened the trunk very gentlemanly, took out a bunch of flowers with one hand, made a huge bow in front of his daughter and gave it to her.
Seeing her father's carefully prepared birthday present, the daughter was so happy that she gave her father a kiss happily and then giggled in his arms.
Many netizens are envious when they see this scene. They all said: what a romantic father, envy.
Some netizens said: Children raised with love are so happy.
Yes! The girl's expression tells us how happy she is at this moment.
Many times, we always think that toys and snacks are more important to children, but they are not. What they really need is the love of their parents.
Because of this love, let them feel their own value, let them feel the beauty of life, and let them become more determined and brave in their future lives.
As psychological counselor Luo said: Being loved is the most important source of confidence in a person's life.
In their childhood, their parents' love will give them a sense of security, make them feel that they have been recognized and loved by their parents, and their hearts will be enriched.
This is the happiest thing for children.
Being raised by parents with love since childhood is the greatest nutrient for children's life growth.
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Children who are fed by love are more confident.
Child psychologists once said: Children who lack love in childhood have a low sense of self-worth and are easy to form a flattering character. They usually look shy, introverted and inferior.
But those children who are fed by love from childhood will be more confident.
Some time ago, Tian Liang shared a video of her daughter's fitness in Weibo.
Mori disc in the video has excellent figure, tall figure, delicate muscle lines and rhythmic exercises.
Mori, who is only 12 years old, can play violin, guzheng, clarinet, piano, surfing, rock climbing, skateboarding, javelin, running and tennis. She is very confident.
Before, at a public event, Sandy showed his work "Sandy Small Universe" through programming.
In her little universe, there are cool rockets, colorful planets, and more importantly, there is a platform and a swimming pool specially prepared for her father.
Throughout the performance, she looked confident.
Seeing such a confident Mori disc, some netizens shouted: Tian Liang, how did you raise your daughter so confidently?
But in fact, behind Sen's self-confidence, it is the love from his parents.
Ye Yixi and Tian Liang grew up with Sen, and the couple spent a lot of effort on Sen's growth.
On one occasion, Ye Yixi said in an interview: When I was a child, I was subjected to too many constraints. My parents always say that I can't do this and I shouldn't. I hope she can experience more things since having a child.
Therefore, Mori Yoshiro was free to choose his own preferences from an early age, and he could also play like a boy.
Later, Cindy fell in love with tennis, and her parents practiced with her every day. They were there to help her pick up the ball while she was practicing.
With the care of parents, Mori Disc has become more and more confident and excellent.
This is the case with children who have been fed with love by their parents since childhood. They feel the recognition and support of their parents in love, so they are more and more confident.
I have seen the saying that love is the foundation and premise of all education.
To cultivate a confident child, parents need to give their children enough love.
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It is more loving to be loved and to feed older children.
For children, love is like sunshine, which warms them all the time. A child who gets enough warmth from childhood must be a warm person when he grows up.
When such children grow up, they not only have love, but also know how to express love and care for people around them with love.
The other day, it was 10' s birthday. Sun Li took photos of his birthday and expressed his gratitude to him emotionally.
She said, thank you for waiting.
It turns out that in these years of waiting, waiting not only made her feel the joy of being a mother, but also saw love in waiting.
He cares about his parents' health, makes tea for his mother, buys gifts for his mother with pocket money, and often praises his mother.
These little details make my mother feel love and warmth.
Once before, in a video of Deng Chao and others, he saw his father's mouth cracked with blisters and asked him if there was any water in his room.
Dad said there were bananas, apples, oranges and pears in the room, and then he said to dad, "Don't eat oranges, oranges are on fire, but eat pears."
After eating a pear, Deng Chao later asked his father: Is there a pot in the room?
Deng Chao said, "No." Later, he asked his father to cook another pear in a kettle and told him to cut the pear into small pieces, the smaller the better, so that the fire could be removed.
Such a loving child is enviable, but in fact they have paid a lot for raising such a child.
I loved to wait since I was a child, and I often played with them. When I went to play basketball, my father encouraged him and wiped his sweat.
Let my mother accompany me when I want to draw, and Sun Li patiently accompany me.
Go skiing with Daiyu in winter, customize notebooks with Daiyu's inspiration, and take Daiyu to a photo exhibition. ...
It is because I get enough love from my parents that I will become a more loving child.
It is also because he has enough love that he can express love.
In fact, if you want children to have love, you must let them feel love. Only when they feel love can they feel the happiness of being loved and pass on this love.
So at any time, don't be stingy with your love for your child, let your child feel love from an early age and become a warm-hearted child.
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It is better to help the poor and the rich with love.
Professor Li Meijin, an education expert, said: Family education is not only material, but also spiritual.
Spiritual education is to give children enough love and let them grow up in love.
But in reality, many parents always love their children in the wrong way, so that children can't feel true love.
For example, some parents will always give money to their children and give them whatever they want. We always think that this is love for children, but in fact, for children, true love lies in the dribs and drabs of their daily life.
Parents can see themselves, respect themselves, accompany themselves and express their love. This is the love they really need.
Moreover, this kind of love is nutritious love, which can make children more confident and loving.
Therefore, as parents, we should not be stingy to express our love for our children, so that children can feel their parents' love at an early age and grow up happily in love.
Only in this way can our children truly feel happiness and become better and better.