Below, I will take a look at the three major educational methods that are the worst and the most disgusting to children. 1. Only related to children's academic performance.
Once she went to a friend's house to play, her children came home from school and told her cheerfully, "Mom, there is a tug-of-war today, and our class won the first place." My good friend listened absently and suddenly said, "Did you get the exam results last week? How many points did you get? " In an instant, the child seems to have been poured with cold water, and he is no longer in the mood to talk.
Some parents also forbid their children to do all leisure activities on Sundays and let them stay at home and read books. Although test scores are crucial, children's world should be diverse. In addition to exam results, we should expand our knowledge, make friends and exercise.
Parents only pay attention to their children's test scores, and only communicate with their children's test scores. This kind of behavior is not easy to promote children's learning progress, but invisibly gives them too much work pressure, leading to children's psychological and emotional anxiety. Children will also resist talking to their parents and even resisting learning and training. This kind of cultural education is the most ineffective.
2. Irony and irony
The child next door told him that his mother would hold a parent-teacher meeting. Her mother said rudely, after doing so badly in the exam, she had the nerve to ask me to go and ask your father to go. Your father is very free.
Children inform their parents and parents agree. Saying something unpleasant will not only hurt the communication between parents and children, but also convey a negative attitude to children, which will make them lose self-confidence, not only destroy their self-esteem, but also make them deeply frustrated. When I grow up, I become more and more depressed, less and less confident, and it is very easy to go to extremes when thinking.
Instead of satirizing children's ignorance, it is better to give them more incentives and give them a good attitude. There is no doubt that children are diligent and interested. Talk to your child more, try to get into the child's mind and master what the child is thinking.
3. Overworked and unwilling to let go.
Many parents are eager to love their children, and never look back, because they are unwilling to let their children suffer the pain of becoming talents, and they can't see their children taking more turns. Children study to help organize and carry schoolbags.
Children apply for technical majors, and parents study which field is the most popular; When a child finds a job, he is always worried about his suffering; Children should get married, try to allocate blind date and so on.
Then everything helps, and the place where children have the opportunity to develop independently will be replaced by this world over time.