Loneliness is inevitable in a distant foreign country. Looking at a strange city in front of me, surrounded by strange faces, listening to a language I don't understand at all, I feel extremely lonely inside, and I don't want to call my parents for fear that they will know their current situation and worry. You'd rather be alone ... there's no need to be so sad. You are not Lin Daiyu. You are in Jiafu to hurt spring and cherish autumn.
If you go to that city to study, it seems that you are not nervous enough, and you still have time to think, feel your loneliness, enrich yourself, listen carefully and study hard. Go back to the dormitory, get along well with your roommates, listen to their stories and tell them your stories. That's enough for you to talk to them for a long time. Of course, brothers go out. You can choose to find a person who is more compatible with your personality and take the initiative to be friends with him, so that you will become two people from one person. When there are others behind you besides your shadow, you will naturally not be lonely ... A friend is the last companion who is lonely in a foreign land.
If you want to achieve something, please abandon all distractions and concentrate on your work. As a rookie in the workplace, you still have a lot to learn. You should learn the specific requirements and operation of your job, and how to deal with the relationship between colleagues and superiors. I believe things at work can keep you busy, and you have no time to think about anything else. If you are in your spare time, you can study. Books are the ladder of human progress and the spiritual food of human beings. You can stop studying and just read inspirational stories or something. As long as your time is filled, you have no time to be lonely.
After work, you can sing with your colleagues and exchange feelings in depth. You can also make an appointment with one or two friends to travel, carry a backpack, walk around various cities, appreciate the unique cultural atmosphere of each city, and then write down your own understanding. If funds permit, you can travel around the world. When you see the rising sun and the sunset glow in Ran Ran, Ran Ran, you can listen to the sounds of nature and have heart-to-heart communication with animals. Sometimes better than people.
If I am a stranger in a foreign land, I will miss my family twice every holiday, but the holiday is ok. After the holiday, I will be very homesick. I usually choose to call my family or chat on WeChat, talk about their recent situation, and tell them about myself. I always tell them what I think and what I am happy and unhappy about. I am a person who can't hide my words, as long as I encounter unhappy things.
In short, don't let loneliness bother you all the time. You should learn to be kind to yourself. It is most important to make yourself happy.